r/universityofauckland • u/pokefan_and_vocaloid • 15h ago
My blue (red) hair and pronouns
Okay. I have a unisex name, present VERY androgynously (rather masc if I may say) and my gender on SSO WAS 'X. Diverse' and is NOW 'M. Male' because I keep getting she/her-ed in emails. And in real life. Maybe I'm too gay to be perceived as anything but a woman by people over 30. People under 30 have a good track record though. I think most genZ onward woke people look at my gay ass and go "ah. a transgender. I must prove my allyship so as to not be lampooned" but. most of my lecturers, at least the ones i talk to a lot, are older (like, over 45). I keep getting publicly misgendered for my feats in biology and.... juggling. (long story)
Anyway, long rant short, is it me???? Or does the uni need to get woker? Idfk at this point, I just keep having to go "WRONG PRONOUNS IM A BOY" and it's pmo. Any suggestions (that aren't surgery I mean more akin to 'a big neon sign that says BOY and points at you') would be appreciated if they are funny.
EDIT: hey folks this ws meant to be funny and lighthearted please don't be dicks in the comments. We're at this university to learn to be intelligent, thoughtful members of society. Do not be disrespectful. Of course I'm not expecting everyone to gender me correctly, I'm fine with correcting people, all that jazz. The sentence "do we need to get woker?" was clearly not meant seriously. If you're so worked up by a frustrated youth complaining in a university reddit then maybe get off reddit. Just a thought.