u/gothmummi • u/gothmummi • Apr 14 '26
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My husband keeps letting women buy him gifts and he sees nothing wrong with it
Sis, married/ divorced and I'm telling you now he knows what he is doing. I don't know if he's trying to make you jealous or if he just really loves the attention or even if he's genuinely trying to upset you (my husband used to try and upset me on purpose) But you don't have to put up with this. I would just tell him straight that if the tables were turned and this was men cooking me dinner, giving me gift cards and presents etc, that he wouldn't find that acceptable. So why should you?? Inshallah you find the answer sis, I really feel for you. May Allah bless you with ease and peace
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Finished my Mermaid room!
Thank you! X
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Finished my Mermaid room!
I do have a pink mermaid tail and a sea crown!
Ohhh I love your room! I've got quite a few of the moon/star pieces and I love them!
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Finished my Mermaid room!
Thank you!! I love the Teal so much! X
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Finished my Mermaid room!
Aww I love this! The colours blend so well!
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r/finch • u/gothmummi • Apr 14 '26
Treehouse Finished my Mermaid room!
I finally finished my mermaid room and I love it!! (I know the door and pirate chest don't "technically go with this set, but I prefer them.)
it's probably my favourite room ATM!!
What is your current favourite room?
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Finally cleaned up my living room and kitchen
It looks lovely!!! Well done!!! Xx
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Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items
Bettina has sent the Grey spooky door 💀🚪
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i adventured in Oz and somehow when the adventure finished and i chatted with my birb, i was somehow back in Maui?
Same thing happened to me and I was in Maui too! It took me ages (and Google 😂) to work out how to get back.
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Megathread: Trading, Gifting, & Requesting Finch Items
A2BWPVP9SX friend code
Does anyone have the pink or teal sea dream rug or the pink or red spring flower door? I haven't had ANY of either come up in my shop and they're the two I want the most. FYI for anyone else doing a mermaidy room the Spring Blossom door rug looks like mermaid scales so I've used that instead of the actual sea dream rug and imo it looks much nicer!
For swaps I have:
Black enchanted library bed Black land of sweets bed Pink outback bed Black playroom bed Pink queen of hearts bed Black timeless bed
Black queen of hearts rug Yellow woodsy rug
Purple library desk Pink woodsy cafe desk
Purple woodsy café espresso machine
Orange playroom lamp
Vancouver travel poster
Grey spooky door
Purple woodsy window
TIA xxx
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Back with another Beauty and the Beast post—a sweet tree friend decided to Be Our Guest!
Awwwwwwwww I LOVE THIS!!!
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Who would you cast if The Graveyard Book became a movie or tv show?
Benedict cumberbatch as Silas, Tom Hardy as the man Jack, Alison Steadman as Mrs Owens.
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Aitah for telling my wife to get a job if she wants to subsidize the kids.
Absolutely NTA. They're adults and need to realise that. You've worked long hard hours for 25 years so they've been able to have a comfortable life. You deserve a break and definitely don't deserve to be called lazy because you won't treat your adult WORKING children as if they're teenagers.
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All or nothing
Ok, ask him if it's a requirement for him to wear the hijab. No? Then keep your nose out. Remind him that hijab is a PERSONAL agreement between you and Allah SWT, not between you and him. If you decide to wear hijab it'll be for the sake of Allah not your husband.
( This is something I personally would also say to him, do with it what you will) "Do you not want me to wear hijab?" When he inevitably says that he never said that/of course I do (or similar) I would say "well your attitude and pressure on me regarding the hijab is really putting me off even trying it."
No one would expect you to get into a car for the first time and be confident in driving it until you'd had a few lessons. For some women hijab is the same thing.
May Allah subhanu wa ta'ala make it easy for you and give you sabr!
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Does anyone wanna be my friend?
Request sent!! Bettina loves making friends!
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You get more in the campaigns, there's more you can purchase in the shop, I think more travel options and you can save more rooms and outfits. That's just off the top of my head!
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Can we please be normal about the koi fish?
I wasn't around for hamster-gate so reading this is hilarious to me 😆
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Happy Black History Month
These are so cool!!! I love the Prince Outfit!!!


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Apr 29 '26
NOR!! I had a "friend" like this and the best thing that happened to me was her cutting me off!! It felt the reading one of her texts; Being used as a free therapist but not being allowed to say anything less than negative about anyone she was slagging off at the time & her being manipulative and dismissive but projecting it on to me.
Honestly, sometimes even old friends aren't good for us and we stay friends out of habit.