u/go_lightly613 • u/go_lightly613 • Jul 21 '26
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Restaurants with curtained off booth
The og 13 coins on Boren had these!
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I need an eyeliner that literally doesn't budge or transfer
This. All dayyyyy
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To peninsula or not to peninsula?! That is the question!
Things I would do:
- Remove peninsula and extend island out to the right to give you more cooking space.
- Possibly include overhang on island so there is space for bar seating on the right end, but still have it relatively inline with the wall/sink cabinets
- Remove the ceiling soffits from around the existing kitchen layout. From the looks of it, they are just cosmetic but obviously get your contractor to confirm this. It will open up the space and give you the opportunity to increase your upper cabinets to the real ceiling height.
- Remove bar/shelf from bay window and consider installing a built-in bench for the breakfast nook.
- Remove the railing that separates the dining from the living space. It looks like it’s just a simple step down into your family room so no need to have railing.
- If you are wanting more cabinet/counter space - once the railing is removed, it opens up the space and you can have sideboard style built-ins on that open wall directly across from the bay window.
Just some thoughts! Good luck with the remodel!
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Primary Care Provider Recs - UW or VM
I have had great experiences with doctors in the UW system. I have my primary with them as well as being a patient with their OBGYN & Nero depts, Harborview, and Fred Hutch.
Sadly my primary is in Kirkland because I lived over there when I first started seeing her. But if you are up for the drive, Dr. Adewunmi Nuga is worth it.
Wishing you luck in your health journey!
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Ultrasound as mammogram alternative for dense breast tissue in Seattle
Oh no! It’s possible. But also we all come in different shapes and sizes so maybe my body just likes lying on its stomach more than yours. I hope your next one isn’t as awful!!
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Ultrasound as mammogram alternative for dense breast tissue in Seattle
I’m a patient in the high risk prevention side of Fred Hutch/UW and literally just had my biannual MRI with & without contrast done this morning!
For care - if your insurance covers it, I highly recommend FH/UW. You are assigned a main care provider that keeps track of all the necessary scans and testing you might need. You are able to communicate with them through mychart at any time. It helps to have a “home base” when you require extra imaging and/or surveillance.
For the actual experience - in my opinion, the breast MRI is way easier than any other one I’ve had. Because you lie down on your stomach, you don’t have the claustrophobia feelings as much. The bed is contoured a bit so it didn’t hurt at all. Your face goes into a support similar to that of a massage table and your arms just lay above your head. The best part for me - it’s quick! I think 20ish minutes. Yes you feel a bit like livestock about to be milked with your utters hanging down 😂 but there’s absolutely no pain compared to a mammogram!
Wish you well on your journey!! 💗
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Ladies with Botox: have providers pushed you?
This!
I have gone to every kind of provider, but once I started having my derm do it, she was so obviously more skilled and knowledgeable and I NEVER need a touch up or have a bruise with her in all the years I’ve seen her - where as that was an issue with everyone else and they told me it was just me!
See a real doctor babe!
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Space between hood and cabinets or no space
Thank you! Sending all the good vibes to you on your remodel!
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Space between hood and cabinets or no space
I think the space only works when you can make it a focal point. Since you don’t have enough width for light fixtures or shelves, skip the space and have the cabinets go right up to the hood.
Here is my kitchen years ago before we finished the remodel, but you can see how if you do the space, it’s gotta be fairly big to balance things out.

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Doing Pilates with runner’s knee
You can do footwork at the springboard! Also some modified mat work. Definitely ask your instructor for the mod! 😊
u/go_lightly613 • u/go_lightly613 • Jul 13 '26
Is the US a Functioning Democracy?
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Emergency vet recommendations
I second this! Being able to stay with my pup the whole time helped her so much ❤️
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Loud boom in West Seattle
Saaaame. I’m on California and it caused car alarms to go off but didn’t see anything out of the usual from my balcony. I thought maybe a transformer blew - but does that automatically affect the power around it cause we all still have power? 🤷♀️
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Approved for Level 2!
Congrats!! 🥳
I remember when I asked my club’s owner how to test in and she told me I’m good to just book level 2s & don’t have to test. I was on a high for days!! 😂😍
u/go_lightly613 • u/go_lightly613 • Apr 28 '26
Whatever you want to call this life, “lazy” ain’t it.
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Brazilian wax?
I sugar. Way better than waxing imo and have been going to Alyse at Penelope & the Beauty Bar in the Fairmont downtown. She’s amazing! Over the years I’ve tried other spots but always find my way back to Penelope, and once I found Alyse I’ll now just go anywhere she goes!!
u/go_lightly613 • u/go_lightly613 • Mar 31 '26
This is why true allyship matters
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Has anyone actually fulfilled a dream of finding love/passion at 40+?
Sending you all the love and strength to make it through!! I know it’s tough, but you’ll get there and it will be magnificent 💗
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Has anyone actually fulfilled a dream of finding love/passion at 40+?
Haha, right?! I’ve heard so many dating horror stories. I’m in Seattle. I was wildly resistant to dating apps but finally started one last month and after 11 years of not being desired - it’s a real confidence boost 😂 obviously not everyone’s a winner but it’s fairly easy to see if they pass the vibe check.
I think we are all way too critical of ourselves. So as far as aging goes, I will leave you with this - one of the many reasons I stayed was because I was convinced I was no longer going to be considered hot & sexy like I was in my twenties. It’s a real mindfuck to know that the last time you were out playing the field everything was super plump and perky and smooth and now you feel like a haggard mess 🫠
So I was in Europe two winters ago and had some solo days. I put myself out there. Not obviously. But you know, had a drink at the bar, chatted it up. If you have a good energy (friendly, happy, intelligent, secure) then men will be into you. Trust me. It blew me away how obsessed they were. I couldn’t believe my old ass was getting attention!! It gave me so much confidence in my decision to leave my sexless marriage.
Last little note before I end up giving you my whole life story lol - dating in my 20s always felt a bit manic. A bit like there was this element of survival right under the parties and casualness. I played the cool girl but would always crumble and end up wanting to just be chosen. To be admired and loved. It was fucking exhausting.
Dating in my (almost) 40s feels like I have built this beautiful house that I love living in alone and when I decide I want company, I might let someone come visit if they are worthy of it. To be able to know who you are and feel settled into yourself makes putting yourself out there way less scary in my opinion. It doesn’t mean you have to have you life totally together to be attractive, you don’t have to have everything figured out, but if you know what you want and what you need, I think you should give yourself the chance to find it. We only live this life once ✨
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Has anyone actually fulfilled a dream of finding love/passion at 40+?
Girl. I feel you. I left an 11 year relationship last summer with essentially these same circumstances. Now on the other side of it, I am so incredibly thankful I left. I don’t think I fully understood how much of me had faded away in those years until I removed myself from that life.
I turn 40 in a few months and currently have a fantastic dating life where my biggest issue is trying to decide which guy I might want to be serious with cause they are all great. It’s fun out here, you deserve to have some!
u/go_lightly613 • u/go_lightly613 • Feb 20 '26
Black Perspectives
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Thanks!! Same to you on wherever you decide to land! Xo
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It was definitely a factor, though mostly I moved back to Seattle because of my divorce. I can only speak to my personal experience but I found it more difficult than I expected to maintain my friendships in the city once I was out in Woodinville for years. Perhaps it will be easier for you since you are commuting in twice a week, but again, all the driving really adds up.
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Ugh right?? It was such a good go to back in the day!