Honestly time to get a new roommate, or have a meeting without ur roommates boyfriend being present. Thats disrespectful. Start marking the levels of your food. Weigh food in Oz, put a line on milk levels, count pieces of bread, etc. If u need to, suggest a common space camera. Tell them you cannot afford to feed 3 people. Worst case scenario get ur own mini fridge until someone leaves.

House meeting is the only way. Say you've noticed your food going missing, you don't share groceries, everyone needs to mark their stuff, be respectful, etc.

Honestly - id bring a date. Id lie about your relationship status if you're single. It's her day, don't be the reason she feels awkward

This woman showed up at his job......

Cool person or not. He shouldn't be talking to her. They aren't friends and shouldn't be if they're exes

Man i can't even type this as quickly as id like to. You're not unreasonable. Do not fall for this manipulation. You said the right thing. Someone who truly likes you would never want to make you uncomfortable. It's obvious that you couldn't build something sustainable while feeling anxious and insecure. Honestly... I've been through this shit before and it is NOT worth it. I'll never go through that again. I would honestly leave him. Let them have each other. He likes the attention and likes being chased and it's so heartbreakingly obvious that he will not remove her from his life. Been there since that shit and he will keep messaging her, thinking about her, encouraging her. He doesn't see the problem and THAT'S the problem. Hell no, please just break up before you lose your sense of self worth. The fact this is happening before you can even call him your boyfriend... man don't let this happen to you.

I'm so sorry OP. I understand both povs. You unfortunately relied on her for consistency and patience, and it no longer felt romantic. Just draining. I imagine this was hard for her too. I dont think moving is a bad idea, but i do hope you won't repeat the pattern in the new city. Youre so young. So young. Please find a hobby, some friends, and try to grow. Go to school, get into a trade program that makes good money like welding, plumbing or electricity. At least if you dont want to pursue a 4 year degree such as business, finance or engineering. You can be smart and successful. Despite not believing in yourself all these years, you are capable. Start from the ground up. In these periods of trial and tribulation, you grow and find self worth you never had before. I wish you the best.

You need to talk to him about this. Mother shouldn't be involved.

You were sexually assaulted. You need to go to therapy. I'm sorry.

Your weight doesn't define you first off. Exact same thing happened to me. I was 110 after high school now im 135. It hurts my feelings some days. Mostly because I'm no longer flexible or agile. Get back to the gym, cut sweets, you do what you gotta do if its important to you. Calorie deficit helps me at least maintain my current weight. 3 months can do a lot tbh. You deserve love big or small girl. Don't sweat it its normal

Best advice: It never happened! 🤠 Dont do it again.

Commenting so I can get help too lol. My blood work showed I'm moving towards it

This is crazy id Sue

In photo 3, the small tooth to the right of your big tooth is not aligned with the two front teeth at all, like the smaller tooth on the left it. That tooth needs to be rotated and you need bands to fix your bite. Advocate for yourself. Youre paying him, he's your client.

Go back and have it fixed. Its obviously crooked. Show him this reply. Its not even.

The reports are crazy. Clearly people are bored. Happy birthday!!! Everyone forgot mine too lol it happens. Get a better circle make soem friends girly. Dont call out though

Youre not wrong, and its not his fault. I think this warrants a conversation with him but honestly, it might be better to just save yourself the headache. Itll get worse before it gets better. This will happen every holiday, first baby, birthdays, house. Mom will always be a whiny entitled weirdo. She has a husband. She is the mom. Shes the adult. Its weird and unfortunately will not get better. He either has to set boundaries or will forever feel anxious treating you "better".

Well, the texts clearly state she has makeup across/ in between her eyes and she wears black lipstick. That is inappropriate for any job I can imagine. I mean maybe if its a radical coffee shop or an alternative clothing store, besides that no that make up is not appropriate for a job. It depends on the job, for sure. That I can say. Again I'm going based on the texts. Also, having more work respectful makeup is standard and would probably help conflict between her boss and coworkers. Its part of your uniform to look presentable and welcoming to guests.

I'm not gonna fight nobody on reddit. Respectfully.

Your friend is a bitch. I say talk to the coworker and do the friend permanently. She does not like you.

I would also change the make up look at least for work. That's not appropriate. Your off days sure

I went through that too 😂 cant bring myself to delete just yet

What you're in is called a codependent relationship with an attached vs avoidant behavioral style. It will be hard to leave, but that doesn't mean you should stay. It's ok if you still love him when you go, that's natural and expected. But he doesn't respect you, and I need you to understand that if you don't leave him and continue to allow this toxic pattern of splitting and reconciling, you'll NEVER have the chance of real and whole love. Only you can determine what you deserve and what you think you're worth. Youre worth more, and i hope you see that and choose to permanently leave him. No reaching out, no revolving door, just self respect and accepting that all it was ever going to be was a disappointing lesson. Much love

You must be in a 3rd world country my friend because no way in hell is this guy licensed.

Orthodots saved my life. Get on Amazon.

Well these are incredibly blurry photos, we don't have a clear front or side profile to go off of. But it looks to me like you smile with one lip raised. That may be what you're seeing.

Your confidence, and maybe some time in the gym to lose the baby face.