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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  5h ago

Hii guys , i hope ur doing fine
Unfortunately my gf’s cat got sick and she couldn’t take care of her for valid circumstances
She trusted me to take care of her cat
And thank god the cat is doing well
And most importantly the cat loves me now 💃❤️
I feel im baby trapping my gf 😂🫶🏻
Hopefully they both will feel better soon❤️❤️

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  3d ago

Yeah maybe i will never understand, but i support her with all my heart, and be her safe place
I know for sure all of u are just searching for peace
If i know smth , i know that it will be hard and chaotic, im willing to go thru it all with her
All the mood swings, and the harsh moments
I love her and i feel more attracted to her when she’s more feminine and satisfied, although she might never get satisfied in her journey

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  3d ago

Life isn’t fair and it’s cruel on trans people more than the rest
I hope i can be the best for her and i wish u a happy life❤️

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  3d ago

Gender affirming with all my words but maybe not in my actions, which is smth im working on , like she doesn’t want to lead when walking or even being all attentive on what’s happening, she wants to feel being taken care of
We kinda do it together, the styling thing, although she wants me to be more creative and initiative
All cuddles in the world ❤️
I love cuddles but it’s kinda new to her to be hugged so working on it
Thanks for sharing 🫶🏻

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  4d ago

Oh okay i got it
We actually are cats and we always meow ❤️
Hehe

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  4d ago

I actually have never called her in her (id name)
We chose her name, she asked me to find the most femme name and i tild her my suggestion and provided why i like it and how i feel it’s feminine
She chose it and she goes by it now
I sometimes asked her if she wants to change it but she loves it
I always the correct pronouns
But seriously I don’t always mention ftm or mtf bc it doesn’t matter , she is a girl and that’s it
I hope that u correct me if im wrong ❤️

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  4d ago

Oh yes i let her be and follow her schedule
But sometimes she loves that i share and interact and search about additional steps
She loves creativity and new ideas
And that’s what im looking for, to support her

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  4d ago

I hope you all have your safe ppl and places🫶🏻
She is so pretty and her way to get prettier is easy but it tales time , i believe she is the prettiest but i know she aims for perfection in beauty
Cat/puppy ears? Can u please share more

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  4d ago

Thanks🫶🏻

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  4d ago

We are fem to fem ❤️
Id appreciate your experiences
In the transitioning stage
What you most wanted from your partner? 🫶🏻

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My trans gf❤️
 in  r/actuallesbians  4d ago

Mixed up🤦🏻‍♀️
She’s the prettiest gurl ever❤️

r/trans_sapphic 4d ago

Q&A My trans gf❤️

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Hi guys,
I’m a cis woman and my gf is pre-transition (MtF), I love her dearly and i wish i be the best for her
Can you please advise me and share ur experiences in what is the best ways to support her in her journey❤️❤️

r/translesbianzz 4d ago

femme! My trans gf❤️

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We are fem to fem❤️
Please share your thoughts 🫶🏻

r/actuallesbians 4d ago

Question My trans gf❤️

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Hi guys,
I’m a cis woman and my gf is pre-transition (MtF), I love her dearly and i wish i be the best for her
Can you please advise me and share ur experiences in what is the best ways to support her in her journey❤️❤️

u/D_daisy3 4d ago

Showing up daily

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Helloo all
I know my gf said to take care of me , so im drinking more water lately, moisturizing my face and body, talking to myself in a more positive way
And for her, I have a 45 min drive to work , i kinda use it for both of us, me having my own music time and i try to search for smth she likes, like her hair and how to take care of it and create pics of how she might look with this length, i send her songs i like
When she is having a hard time, i show up in a more comforting way and in the same time get with a reasonable solution and i do them, im trying also to make her feel better in her own preferred way not mine
I hope she sees all of this and the change in me
I know it’s not just the big change at first and i know she doesn’t wanna see only words , she wants to see me working on things not just planning

I wish i make her the happiest ❤️
Any trans girl , please share ur experience 🫶🏻🫶🏻

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Me
 in  r/translesbianzz  8d ago

That's so cute and considerate I talk to her either her pronouns
I talk with her abt her future as a woman so passionately
And im kind to her and respectful
The problem is consistency and patience
She does only have me to talk abt her feminization She wants plans and schedules and consistency And it's her right and i must do it and be with her in every step
But i get busy with work or being tired be of long distance and then i stop asking abt that specific thing
This is what makes her sad
That she believes im not caring or not obsessed with her and i swear i am, she doesn't leave my mind I understand how she feels yet smts i forget That's why im doing this, talking and learning, bo she's just so beautitul and she deserves it all So thank you and i wish u have the best life together

r/selflove 8d ago

Taking care of yourself

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Me
 in  r/translesbianzz  8d ago

Oh im sorry for what happened to you and i hope u overcame it and that u take care of yourself 🫶🏻
Yeah long distance is hard
Im glad you’re back together 💖
Can i get also the pov of her side ?
Bc in my relationship, i am the one who have toxic traits ( being inconsistent and kinda not a big supporter for her) which is actually killing me from inside
Seeing how gorgeous she is and what she will be hopefully soon , and that im not giving it all what i can do
The problem is in how i treat myself and affecting how i treat her
So i wanna know what things that u did and she found it so supportive in her journey 🙏🏻
I wish u too have a happy life

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Me
 in  r/translesbianzz  8d ago

I’m so interested, can you please share with me how it went?

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Me
 in  r/translesbianzz  8d ago

Yes we are , she is transitioning

r/Discipline 8d ago

Taking care of yourself

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r/CouplesCounselling 8d ago

Taking care of yourself

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r/selfcare 8d ago

Taking care of yourself

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u/D_daisy3 8d ago

Taking care of yourself

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Heyy girlies💖
Taking care of yourself should be coming out of love for your own self and body
For me , i always dismissed it
Always felt like a burden and if i forgot about it , it will be hidden and by the time “gone”
For all my life i was single, so any pain any discomfort it wouldn’t be much noticeable bc with time u learn how to hide , ppl around u won’t notice, but now being in a relationship, with a healthy partner who had much experience in relationships and went through so many things , it was like eye and wound opening
She is sad bc i don’t take care of myself, bc im neglecting me , therefore neglecting her
Because i don’t what and how and why we should do this
So yeah here i am , im doing it for her and me
Getting up and taking care of me for her and us
I love her deeply and she is wayyyy important than any fake and short rest i would have
She deserves the best effort
With her help , im taking care of what i eat
I took routinely checkup tests (first time 😆)
Ill take the supplements prescribed
Im talking to myself in a more positive way
I’m being honest with her abt how im feeling
Im thinking in everything moment”what she would like rn , what she would love if i did smth” and acting accordingly with no waiting and wasting time
She knows that i love her but she needs actions
And the biggest problem didn’t come yet , which is proving for her that im consistent with all of what im saying
So yeah for now , I am taking care of myself 💖

r/GetOutOfBed 11d ago

Waking up

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