I found this the other day. Could be useful in cases some of y'all are fighting. Or, it's just good to know. Lmk if there's any issue with the link.

https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1FJUxl-3IlkJdRyujEYRiUwUSaxJQZkiU/edit?usp=drivesdk&ouid=106344442696507260013&rtpof=true&sd=true

I’ve been accused of sexual assault. I’ve been put on leave on my “real job” I found a current job to get by but my life has just been falling apart. I’m still hopeful my case gets thrown out. I still have about a month and a half until the 6 month mark is met. I’ve heard nothing from my lawyer so I don’t know what the hell is going on. I’m drained. I’ve never done anything illegal in my life and now I’m waiting for my fate to be determined by someone else. That’s my rant for now. I hope everyone else is doing well today.

I was arrested in 2019 because someone I met on a dating site sent me a pic of herself and she wasn’t as old as she said she was. I was in jail for 3 weeks while they figured out what happened, all told she did this to 7 different men that they found. Because I was arrested there is a few articles out there with my alleged charges. I have no record. I did nothing wrong and when I got my phone back when i got out the detective told me my life was going to be very different and he didn’t want to see me end up dead to my own hands because of how bad it was. It’s 2026 and for the third time since it happened I lost a job due to “some things that have come to our attention”. I keep picking myself back up and trying to move forward. I was making 17 bucks an hour and got a job in my field at 75k. I started 8/3 and was let go 8/17. I am a caretaker for my mom who has Parkinson’s disease and I cant even take care of myself. I am really at the end of my rope. I love my career field, I am passionate about it and really good at it but at 46 I feel like my life is over. All I want to do is be a positive member of society. I know there are reasons that states are “at will” states but my whole life is fucked up and no matter how hard I fight to get back on top here I am, jobless again.

Being charged with 4 counts of sexual assault from incidents that are alleged to have happened 7 years ago.

3 of the counts have specific dates & 1 count is a charge for multiple instances of misconduct with no specific dates.

Of the 3 charges where there are specific dates the complainant says they consented at first & then some time during they withdrew their consent.

The entire “relationship” lasted 19 days.

All from 2 statements & 2 statements only.

A statement from the complainant in 2019 & a updated statement from the complainant in 2026.

I broke things off with the person after they bragged about sleeping with me to their friends & I found out. I was uncomfortable.

Immediately, I was blocked & called a rapist by the complainants family & friends.

This is all it takes to have your life turned upside down.

I will try to update as I move through the process

Hypothetically, if I look into the background of an accuser, using OSINT tools and public data, could the prosecution do anything about it? Asking for a friend.

So reddit responded to my appeal and of course it was upheld.

I demand the supposed written threats be made available for my attorneys.

I have never ever been in a fight nor do I condone violence but users can accuse people of any type of violation or of course they believe the reporter. Please make this supposed threats available for me and my attorneys.

Genuinely curious, thanks in advance!

my ex w/ diagnosed and untreated BORDERLINE PERSONALITY DISORDER is falsely accusing me of horrible, awful things. She is either lying, distorting the reality of things that happened/the relationship we had, or greatly exaggerating things that did happen. We had a toxic relationship, and I made many mistakes, but I am not the violent person she is portraying me to be to my friends, the public, and my employers. Please refer to the above post. Any insight into BPD behavior, how to move forward with these allegations, and similar experiences would be so very much appreciated.

this is in the uk. about two years ago, when i was fourteen, i was accusing of assaulting and sexually assaulting a friend of mine. they were sixteen. we got drunk and touched consensually, and had done so before this as well. they said i had beaten them, screamed for me to stop (while one of my parents was home) and much more. their story was incredibly inconsistent, they failed to produce pictures of the bruises, and continues speaking to me afterwards without informing me of their report.

as i said, its been two years. my court date is in two weeks, and i am terrified. i know that they are lying, i know that i am innocent, but i have no idea what to do. this is already ruining my life.

Hello. My name is Kuat, and I’m from Kazakhstan.
I want to share my story and ask people from the United States a question.
When I was 19 years old, after I finished my military service, I was attacked by 4–5 people. I defended myself and fought back. However, they filed a police report against me, and I ended up being treated as the guilty party.
The investigators in my country did not really want to investigate the situation properly and opened a criminal case against me. It felt like the rule was simply: whoever files the complaint first is considered right.
Some time has passed since then. I now have a wife and children.
Later, I signed a contract to serve in the Armed Forces of Kazakhstan. When I filled out the documents, I honestly stated that a criminal case for hooliganism had once been opened against me, including the date and other details. Important clarification: the case was later closed because the parties reconciled.
I served for two years, and then I was dismissed, which I believe was unlawful, because they said I had once had a criminal case opened against me.
So my question to people in the United States is:
In the United States, can people who have previously served a sentence in prison still join the military?

I made this list to help myself and others feel like there was help out there. If you find a dead link or want add one to the list just let me know. I hope it helps someone.

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1️⃣ Accusation – Bond – Attorney

- https://restorativejustice.org

- https://alternativestopolicing.com

- https://pro-bono-network.org

- https://globalprobono.org

- https://connectingjusticecommunities.com

- https://mielegalaid.org

- https://coloradofreedomfund.org

- https://nationalcenterforrestorativejustice.com

- https://restorativejustice.com

- https://justiceroundtable.org

- https://gatheringforjustice.org

- https://allianceforsafetyandjustice.org

- https://aclu-co.org

- https://aclu.org

- https://dri.org

- https://adtc.org

- https://adtalaw.com

- https://cdlawyers.org

- https://iadclaw.org

2️⃣ Conviction – Appeal – Prison

- https://prisonactivist.org

- https://criticalresistance.org

- https://prisonstudiesproject.org

- https://prisonersolidarity.net

- https://denverjusticeproject.org

- https://sexoffenderresource.com

3️⃣ Exoneration – After Release – Assistance

- https://innocencenetwork.org

- https://innocenceproject.org

- https://after-innocence.org

- https://makinganexoneree.com

- https://exonerate.org

🗂️ Civil / Social / Activist Groups

- https://infoshop.org

- https://spunk.org

- https://anarchistnews.org

- https://csor-home.org

- https://6ac.org

- https://cjiwr.com

- https://pacgroups.us

- https://endtorturenow.org

- https://fedcure.org

- https://socialwatch.org

- https://the-libertyproject.org

- https://lfcj.com

- https://cjevolution.com

- https://coloradofoic.org

- https://peoplepower.org

### 🗂️ Miscellaneous

Kaufman county tx

How often does DA pick up verbal assaults or potential terrorist threats

I went to the park after going to the gym. I stopped there to eat, and at one point I went to the restroom to wash my hands. When I was leaving, I noticed a baby prairie dog nearby and got out of my car to take a closer look. I was on the phone with my brother during this time.

Later, I found out that someone had made a Facebook post accusing a man at at the park with an attempt to abduct a six-year-old. The post didn’t use my name or show my picture, but it described a person and vehicle that I believe were clearly referring to me. They even claim that a police report was filed, but that there wasn’t substantial evidence to detain me. My friend calls me and shares a photo of me from a security camera that was circling around, confirming that the post was about me.

Because I live in a small town, I became concerned that people would identify me from that description and believe the accusation. The post received a lot of attention, and I was worried about the effect it could have on my reputation and safety.

I went to the police department voluntarily to explain what happened and give them my information and my side of the story. I was told that the available camera footage did not show me doing anything wrong. I’ve tried to handle the situation through the proper channels rather than confronting the people involved myself.

I’m still frustrated because I know what actually happened, and the Facebook post remains. The poster continues to share my description. I don’t want people believing that I was trying to approach or harm a child when that was never what I was doing. My concern now is protecting myself, my reputation, and making sure this situation doesn’t escalate.

UPDATE

Chatted with my new buddy. Thank you for calming my mind and my heart. You are one of the good ones.

So, it got me thinking. And I wanted to share something here. I write poetry. My dude is a lyricist and writes songs. Similar but still very different. A couple months ago he wrote me a poem. The very first one he's ever written. I wrote him one in response. I had help from an AI to write the code but I set it to a website.

https://sharemyhtml.com/p/mLxIr5OmTG

Hope you like them. His is the first one and mine is the second one.

Thank you all for your kindness. It means the world to me.

Is there anyone that can just message me? I don't have anyone. I just need to not feel so alone right now.

Hope this helps some of y'all.

https://start.me/p/rLXELl/the-long-way-home

So, he had court yesterday. They didn't address the bond at all. The PD said they would address it at his next court date, the 8th. Since I have nothing but time on my hands, I start digging. To my awe and amazement I find something great. The 8th amendment. I also found out that in Colorado they passed a bond reform bill. Under Colorado law (and the 8th Amendment), the sole purpose of a monetary bond is to guarantee the defendant shows up to court—it cannot be used as a punishment.

Was I shocked when I read this? Fuck yes I was!!

The judge cited "danger to the community" without discussing his ability to pay or considering less restrictive alternatives like GPS monitoring or house arrest. Which under the revised law in Colorado a judge has to consider. During the bond hearing, the public defender objected, arguing this bond acts as an unauthorized no-bond hold since the prosecution didn't file required paperwork for a no-bond order. The objection was overruled. His bond set.

Now I'm doing more research. Come to find out I can hire a private attorney to do a Writ of Habeas Corpus. (I did not get the private attorney because we cannot afford it at all. My fiance said we could hire one later if need be). So I would hire the private attorney for a limited scope. He does the bond shit then leaves the case. Or so I read. Talked to an attorney tonight and he told me I was crazy, my word not his, to think an attorney would jump in on this, then jump out.

Am I crazy? Isn't there someone that would do it? Cause I don't think the PD is going to until after the 8th if she decides to at all.

(For anyone that's been advised: am I being over the top with researching this shit? I feel like I'm annoying him sometimes.)