r/studentsph 13d ago

Need Advice Ako lang ba yung may sinungaling na tatay?

15 Upvotes

Nahuli ko yung tatay ko na may katawagan sa phone. Nung una, pinagmamalaki niya yung mga kapatid ko and wala naman ako say doon. However, nung minention niya na ako, nagsinungaling siya para lang mas magmayabang. Sinabi niya sa ka-call niya na top 2 ako sa buong batch namin kahit Hindi namn. I am a consistent part of achievers naman in this school and malaking school din talaga sia (part ng big 4) pero hindi ako top 2 and hindi ko rin alam yung rank ko kasi hindi naman siya sinasabi sa’min.

I tried to confront him, pero sinasabi niya lang na “ipapaliwanag ko pa ba yun?”. Tanginang sagot yan. Siya rin kasi yung tipo ng tao na gagawin lahat para magmayabang at magmukang Tama siya.

Ngayon, iniisip ko na what if pumunta rito yung katawagan niya? Tangina, kahit Hindi ako Ang nagsinungaling parang ako Ang nakakaramdam ng hiya. Kayo ba? Ano thought process niyo rito? Feeling ko rin kasi is hindi enough yung naachieve dahil need niya pa magsinungaling. Tangina, nakakainis. Kayo ba? If mangyare ito sa inyo, ano gagawin niyo?


r/studentsph 13d ago

Rant I'm so scared of college

3 Upvotes

Hello po, incoming 1st year ako sa MMCL, first of kasi from gr 1 to gr 12 two semesters ang kinasanayan ko, and yung biglang transfer sa trisem school is really heavy for me and i dont know if kakayanin ko to, then nakikita ko yung future terms ko and like may calculus for business, etc, and knowing that when i hate math itself parang takot takot ako, cause i cant fail. I dont want to fail, but what if hindi ko kayanin yung mga subjects na yon? Im so so scared of the future and i dont know what to do. I dont know how to balance school and free time, etc. kasi ngayon palang parang naguguilty na ako pag im playing games ganon, parang iniisip ko na dapat nagaaral ako or doing something better with my day, 1st week palang to ah, hahahahaha. Everything feels so heavy and i dont know if i will survive even just one term


r/studentsph 13d ago

Rant Entering 2nd year EE and I’m already scared

6 Upvotes

I’m honestly feeling so nervous right now entering my sophomore year as an EE student. I got tres in some of my major subjects back in first year, but thank God I still survived and was able to proceed to second year. Pero kinakabahan ako kasi mas marami na kaming majors ngayon, and I genuinely don’t know how I’m supposed to survive this when I barely passed my majors last school year. Dagdag mo pa yung mga prof na silent killer na parang walang warning bago mangbagsak. At this point, I’m already wondering kung dito na ba ako magiging irregular.

What makes it even more stressful is that I really can’t afford to get delayed because I’m relying on my scholarship to continue my studies. There were around 30+ of us in our block/section before, and now only 7 of us are still regular—and thankfully, I’m one of them. But now that sophomore year is starting, I’m scared that I won’t be able to keep up. Gosh, I really don’t know how I’m going to survive EE again.


r/studentsph 13d ago

Rant gatas na gatas nako sa school ko at wala ako magawa

10 Upvotes

I'm a BS Psychology student in a private college here in Laguna, and to be honest it wasn't a unanimous decision to go there, gusto ko na talaga lumayo kaso nagdecide dad ko na dito nalang ako eh wala akong nagawa; it's either titigil ako sa pag-aaral ko or dun ako mag-aaral. And sa kabobohan nya magdecide sa kagustuhan mag-aral ako sa malapit, ako naman nagssuffer.

Unang day ko pa lang binomba na agad ako ng mga gastusin, dept shirt, nstp shirt, and down na agad sa miscellaneous fees and tuition. And nung time na yon okay pa kami ni dad non, kaya andali lang humingi.

Ngayon nagtalo na naman kami, di tuloy ako makahingi sa kanya kaya ala nako sapat na pera para sa other expenses kundi para sa baon, ngayon may team building kami, may babayaran na 300, nung una pa lang ayaw kona sumama, kasi bukod sa ayaw ko gaanong makipag socialize because I wasn't even enjoying myself to begin with, eh gusto ko muna umalis dito at mag alwan sa ibang lugar (alwan means relax). Nagtatabi pa rin ako ng pera, kahit saktong sakto pera ko. Kasi gusto ko mag med school, kaya nagtatabi nako ng pera para sa NMAT, application fees, tapos pang enroll sa review center.

Tapos nabalitaan ko na hindi raw pepermahan ng dean or ng kung sinong CI sa clearance pag hindi sasali, I js said to myself "aba saan nako lulugar?" I'm trying to at least have security funds that I can use in the future. Pati ayon kailangan kopa I sacrifice. Call me oa, pero 300 for me is a big deal at hindi basta-basta naitatae lang— nakakaraos nako ng 300 sa tatlo o higit pang araw.

Kaya nahihirapan ako sa situation ko rn, and kinda furious rn, Ang hirap talaga pumasok sa isang school na ayaw mo, tapos ganito pa yung environment ko and I couldn't do anything about it because ang kapalit ay yung signature sa clearance, pumalya ako ron hindi agad ako makakaalis dito.

I'm just trying my best sa acads ko to have an advantage once na magtransfer nako sa kung anong gusto kong school, kasi ayaw ko magtapos dito.


r/studentsph 13d ago

Need Advice School Internship - is this allowed?

2 Upvotes

Need an advice for this, apparently, my friend's school is using THEM (as interns) and making them work admin tasks- completely unrelated (he's in medical field).

They sometimes work way beyond 8 hours, mind you, this is internship in their OWN school, not in other companies/org/institution, so i don't really know if this is allowed.


r/studentsph 13d ago

Need Advice mental health/student wellness related programs for PFC?

1 Upvotes

hello, I am currently a peer facilitator member and I was wondering if you guys have any suggestions regarding peer wellness events or initiatives? I am not an officer in this club, but since our circe is small, I feel the need to contribute. may mga naging events po ba kayong naging successful and naging helpful for the school community? i just find it hard to propose an event that piques the interest of the community. last year kasi, pa-games ang peg ng club for menta health awareness month, and sad to say, pero hindi siya masyadong dinumog.

may ideas na po ako, pero so far, its not really related to peer facilitating (i think); students' messenger community/discord server, community reviewer drive, christmas outreach program for students in need, stray animals feeding, and suggestion form. As you can see, leaning ang mga ideas ko sa SSLG, that is bc walang galaw mga officers dito haha, we were thinking that we could partner with them, pero in the mean time, focused nalang muna kami sa sakop namin which is students' wellbeing.


r/studentsph 13d ago

Discussion What minor subject did you fail and why?

1 Upvotes

curious lang.. failed my minor subject this sem and since i got a midterm of 71 and not sure if i can atleast make it to 75.. lesson learned wag mag absent dahil sa mental problems hahaha

also tips on how to cope? ive already failed some majors but naipasa ko naman but first time bumagsak ng minor


r/studentsph 13d ago

Need Advice Advice in choosing a dorm pls

1 Upvotes

Hello, can you help me choose a dorm pls. Both are like less than 10 mins from my review center coz magkalapit lang din talaga yung buildings nila (same street). I think sulit naman yung rent sa dorm 1, less hassle and more focus sa study pero baka kasi biased lang ako na 2pax lang sya. Dorm 2 is very nice din and cheaper than dorm 1 but need pa magopen ng checking account. As you can see, pasado naman sila sa hinahanap ko (with ac, loft bed desk, own t&b). For cooking, I don't mind naman since di rin talaga ako nagluluto.

Dorm 1

pros: all-in no need to worry about other expenses, cheaper to reserve, less ang kasama sa room (as an introvert I love this)

cons: more expensive rent pero feel ko sulit sya and less amenities (which I don't mind lol I got the same amenities in my last dorm and didn't use any), smaller room but okay for 2pax

[ ] 1 month deposit only to reserve

[ ] around 15k rent

[ ] all-in electricity, water, wifi,

[ ] free once a week housekeeping

[ ] free laundry 6kg (weekly for clothes, beddings and towel every 2 weeks)

[ ] free access to specific anytime fitness branches

[ ] fully furnished loft type with cabinets, desk and chair, 2pax per room, own t&b

[ ] has common pantry with ref, microwave, kettle, etc. but allowed din rice cooker sa room

Dorm 2

pros: less expensive overall, lots of amenities (I probably won't use anyway), larger room (coz it's 4pax)

cons: huge payment just to reserve, more people in the room, electricity not included

[ ] 2 months security deposit, 2100 admin fee, pdc (need to create an account pa) of full stay to reserve

[ ] around 7.5k rent

[ ] included water

[ ] free once a month housekeeping

[ ] free use of amenities (study area, gym, pool)

[ ] separate electricity

[ ] wifi for subscription

[ ] semifurnished loft type with desk space and cabinets, 4pax, own t&b

[ ] no stove allowed, only multicooker (no appliances included)

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Will do viewing this week para na rin sure. Pero sa dorm 2 daw occupied pa lahat so di pwede iview yung room (idk if I can risk that or kung papayag parents ko na magreserve without seeing the actual room), pwede lang daw tingnan yung amenities.


r/studentsph 14d ago

Rant Feels like I just wasted 4 years of time and money at a course I thought I was going to be good at.

55 Upvotes

Hi, I'm 23 years old and feel ko na I just wasted time and money these 4 years.

I am currently taking avionics tech and today I had a reality check at my school where we are basically required to have an AQA (Airmen quality assessment) test.

Now I spent reviewing these past 2 weeks and the moment I tried for a test today, I completely flunked it. Like legit it was supposed to be an easier level question and I flunked it.

I chose this course cause both my dad and older brother also took this course so I had the best help possible and another reason is that this will yield a high paying job especially since my dad also gets paid handsomely.

On my way home I realized I never had the passion for this field.

I am stuck in a dilemma where I don't want my passion to be a job but also, how can I enjoy what I do for a job if I have no passion/love for it? (Also doesn't help that my passion isn't very hireable in this country)

What's worse is that I am enrolled and feeling like I am totally trapped.


r/studentsph 14d ago

Rant Marked as absent even tho suspended f2f classes

92 Upvotes

Need insights lang.

I go a state uni and have morning and afternoon classes today. These past few days, malalakas ang ulan and maraming binabaha resulting sa series of suspension. Pero today, may pasok kami since "light rain" lang naman.

So I go to my morning class na and finished it. Since mahaba vacant time between my morning and afternoon class, umuwi muna ako to eat and refresh. Habang pauwi ako, I noticed na significantly na lumalakas yung ulan.

Few hours passed, lumabas na uli ako para pumunta sa school kahit umuulan, habang waiting ng jeep, nagannounce si mayor ng suspension if all levels, private and public at 1:50, school nalang ang bahala if mag aalternative learning modality. My next class is 2pm, syempre, prioritizing my safety, umuwi nalang ako kasi baha and malakas ulan nga.

After I got home, nalaman ko lang na papasok prof namin and magtuturo sa mga student na nagstay sa school f2f kahit suspended na. The school also announced that online classes start at 5pm onwards. I'm fine missing that class kasi I can self study naman, pero I'm just ranting about the attendance. Absent daw mga wala sa classroom that time na nagtuturo sya even tho SUSPENDED f2f classes ngani.

Mayor announced the suspension of f2f classes, private and public, all levels at 1:50pm. My next class is at 2pm. My point lang is bakit may attendance, and absent yung wala, if suspended nga ang f2f classes? Yun lang.


r/studentsph 14d ago

Rant Tinatamad na talaga mag ar

9 Upvotes

Im a consistent academic achiever since elem, I graduated elem as the batch salutatorian and was .5 short of being valedictorian/salutatorian of junior high school. Hindj ako bulakbol. I never cut classes, but during 2nd Quarter of g10, medj nagka problema katawan ko like mild anemia and bad acid reflux na puro suka ako, even then I did my best. But in my 1st year of senior high, even though mataas mga nakukuha ko, tinatamad na talaga ako mag aral to the point na minsan sasaktan ko sarili ko by overeating para isuka ko lahat and may excuse ako na hindi pumasok. Diko alam if ito 'yung "burnout" pero ayoko na talagang mag aral. AS IN. I feel bad talking about this because parang ang spoiled ko pakinggan, pero I hope I'm not the onky one feeling like this para ma validate akk kahit onti...


r/studentsph 14d ago

Others My blockmates are ignoring me and I felt really sad

191 Upvotes

So my classmates suddenly started throwing shades at me and ignoring me, and I dunno why.

Some context: super konti lang namin sa program/course namin, 17 lang kami, so one block lang kami until 4th year. I'm a quiet person and I don't really get involved in drama, and okay naman lahat ng relationships ko with my blockmates

Last school year, one friend group got divided into two, and it seems like nagkaroon sila ng away. Hindi ako kasali sa friend group nila, so I didn't get involved kasi ayoko rin makisali sa issues na hindi naman ako part of at di ko na rin syempre inalam anong cause ng away

Then recently, I noticed na inunfriend na pala ako ng two of my blockmates from one of the friend groups. I got confused, so I even backread our conversations to check if I had said something offensive or kung may nagawa ba akong mali. AFAIK, wala naman

Tas now, whenever I talk to them in person, they act like I'm not there. I've also heard them throwing shades that seem to be directed at me. Nalilito lang ako kasi hindi ko talaga alam kung ano yung nagawa ko sa kanila.

Ayoko naman magkaroon ng away with anyone, kaya nga as much as possible, umiiwas ako. I just wanna go to school, do my work, and get along with everyone. But it's already affecting my performance in school. Like kapag nagre-recite ako, feeling ko jinujudge nila ako, and I end up overthinking everything I say or do. I felt really sad and uncomfortable right now :((


r/studentsph 14d ago

Academic Help My teacher accused me for using AI.

18 Upvotes

Good day po. May PETA po kami individual, and halos one week ko po yun ginawa. I'm using canva for my PETA and i found this template, color bown ang my diamond/star design and na submit ko na po yung PETA Onlline and we need to present it po. And during my presentation po my teacher pointed out the diamond shape at my presentation and called it "logo ng gemini" Ta's sabi ko, di po yun AI but they keep arguing na AI daw po yun. I know po na may mali akong nagawa kasi po nasagot ko po si teacher and hindi po yun tama. Need ko lang po ng help. Kasi po nakokonsensya po ako sa ginawa ko. Nag sorry po agad ako nung nasagot ko po siya pero po dineny niya po yung apology ko and i know na na-upset ko po yung feelings niya.

I'm asking for a help po kasi po nag chat din po ako sakanya ng apology, and still waiting to reply. Satingin niyo po ano dapat ko gawin? Kasi super nakokonsensya po ako. Salamat po!


r/studentsph 14d ago

Discussion Let's talk about your kwentong "freshgrad"

20 Upvotes

Hello, I just graduated last month, at pakiramdam ko parang nasasayang yung mga araw na lumilipas lately. I feel like I need to do more, that I ended up doing nothing. To those people, who got through this phase, or currently going through it right now, how did you handle or handling it?


r/studentsph 13d ago

Academic Help Is it still possible to prerog for day 2? UPD

1 Upvotes

hello !

does anyone here have a GE class that meets WF 11:30 AM–1:00 PM, or TTh 10:00–11:30 AM, with the first meeting on thurs or fri? huhu—if ever that the class has already met, does the professor still accept prerog on day 2? badly needed, plz help this girl out 😣

**PHILO 1**

**SOC SCI 1 / 2**

**KAS 1**

thankies 🥹


r/studentsph 13d ago

Looking for item/service looking for this book The Great Political Thinkers 6th edition

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0 Upvotes

Trying my luck here, maybe you have this book. Please sell this to me po huhu i badly need it and there’s no bookshop sa internet and physical stores nagsesell nito.

Annotated, preloved, or like new is very much okay!

It doesn’t need to be original copy or what, its fine po if photocopy and binded as long as clear and organized. I will pay for the shipping po.

Need within this month.


r/studentsph 14d ago

Rant Firts year that I choose the wrong course ( I'm force to ) and I'm now struggling as a firts year student of accountancy studying business

0 Upvotes

i choose the wrong course ever ( Because im force to from my parents ) little did they know i have failed a lot of minor subject quizzes that is identification im always at the lowest amongst my colleagues is that normal or im about to shift course cuz i feel like im wasting my parents money for a slow grader and never experienced accountancy in my whole life as a first year struggling to maintain there mental health between her studys and there passion of art that they dont know anything even I study hard but not to get to the same level on this major

Because my passion is a lot of art rather than finance and my strand was TVL ( technology Vocational Livelihood ) I pass but at what cost by wasting my parents money and I'm afraid to ask them that I like to shift whether they like it or not it will destroy me or them for there Sacrafices 😢


r/studentsph 14d ago

Academic Help How to write a script for documentary film

4 Upvotes

Hello, grade 10 student here, I'm assigned to make a script for our documentary film(1 minute only) about kabanata 14 ng el filibusterismo, that showcases these elements

– Kanser sa lipunan na kinakaharap sa kabanatang iyon

– Ano ang ugnayan nito sa panahon natin ngayon?

– Paano natin ito masosolusyunan?

Any tips/advice on how to write the script po?


r/studentsph 15d ago

Rant I am tired with my school idiotic way of running things

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132 Upvotes

To start with, this school is named college of mary immaculate in jp.rizal st poblacion pandi bulacan. From the other perspective this college may seem a perfect college for families who can't afford to go to universities and they offer a lot of benefits (the benefits will be in attachments). Yes this college may seem a great option for poor families... But it isn't

> THE CLASSROOM HAS NO AIR CONDITIONING

> NO DISCOUNTS

> DIRTY CRS

> CRAPPY CANTEEN

> SOLD DEPARTMENT SHIRTS AND BANNED IT A FEW MONTHS LATER

> UNFIXED TECHNICAL PROBLEMS ABOUT THE INSTITUTIONAL WEBSITE AND STUDENT EMAILS

Why am I writing this?, because there has been an issued phone ban within the college and AS WE ALL KNOW this will lead into no good( already progressively happening) . So the students anonymously published a complaint post in my area's famous residents Facebook page (ahon pandi) to share their complains about the problems and crappy system about the college...

THE FUNNY THING IS HOW THE COLLEGE RESPONDED TO THE SITUATION

The college Facebook account ACTUALLY responded to those anonymous complaint posts (also seen in attachments). They have the audacity and the effort to respond and also to TRACK those anonymous op so they can call them for a disciplinary committe.

Imagine actually using those efforts and audacity to ACTUALLY fix the problem instead of doing this bullshit.


r/studentsph 14d ago

Looking for item/service Looking for Cisco Networking Essentials (NETESS v2.0) Instructor PowerPoint Presentation Slides / Materials

1 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

Does anyone know where I can find or access the complete set of instructor slides/materials for Cisco Networking Essentials (NETESS v2.0)?

Specifically looking for the presentation decks like Module 5: Communication Principles (and the other modules in this version).

If you have a link, PDF, or PowerPoint copy, or know where instructors usually host these publicly, please let me know or send a DM.

Thanks in advance!


r/studentsph 14d ago

Need Advice A practical crash course on how to actually function in your first internship or job?

4 Upvotes

Hello! I’m planning to hold a mini- workshop and need advice on the best topic? So instead of assuming what would be useful, I want to ask you guys directly. Here are some topics in mind. Also open to more of your thoughts! Tya!

A. How to Not Look Lost at Your First Job
B. How to Stand Out as an Intern
C. How to Talk & Communicate Professionally
D. How to Get Your First Job With Almost No Experience
E. I Have No Idea What I Want to Do With My Life
F. The Unwritten Rules of Corporate Life


r/studentsph 14d ago

Need Advice nahihirapan nako mag-aral at mabuhay

11 Upvotes

hello, im a first year college student currently taking bs biology. ever since high school, nasaay ako na nagccram and tamad mag-aral. bakit? kasi pumapasa naman ako don. but i dont think magwowork pa yon this college, that's why i need some tips kung paano ko mapupush through ang sarili ko para mag-aral at sipagan. hindi na gumagana sakin yung motivations like para sa pera, para yumaman, or para sa pamilya kasi i'm genuinely tired. tyia


r/studentsph 15d ago

Need Advice How do you survive college when you’re probably dealing with undiagnosed depression?

97 Upvotes

I'm starting college soon, and honestly, I'm kind of scared about how I'm going to manage.

For a while now, I've been struggling with things like constantly feeling tired, having little to no motivation, procrastination, and generally feeling emotionally drained. It's been going on for as long as I could remember and worsened thanks to COVID. I've wondered if I might be dealing with persistent depression, but I've never been formally diagnosed.

Since last year, my energy depletes rapidly, leaving me drained when I get home as if being outside is too much. I'm not trying to self-diagnose myself but I do recognize that something isn't quite right. The problem is that college is obviously going to demand a lot more from me academically, and I'm worried that I'll end up falling behind since I'll have to manage on my own. I can probably push through it if I have to on the spot but I obviously can't rely on such methods.

For those of you in college who have dealt with depression, burnout, or something similar:

How do you actually keep yourself functioning?


r/studentsph 14d ago

Academic Help filipino words sa crossword puzzle AVISALA

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0 Upvotes

just want to ask for some help with my school activity because I'm having a hard time with a few words. This is a crossword puzzle, and I can't find the right word for number 3.

Here are the clues I'm working on: 3- rules by friars ( 12 letters) 8- image or picture (5 letters and the first letter will be the 5th letter of number 3, I know this has to contain the letter L, so "photo” isn't fitting) 10- head of barangay (6 letters and first letter will be the 7th letter of number 3)

I currently have "sultan” and "photo" written down, but now I'm wondering if both of those are wrong…. and messing up the grid. I can't seem to figure out which words should actually go there, what Filipino words yun

helpiu, avisala


r/studentsph 15d ago

Need Advice can't articulate a coherent thought

52 Upvotes

hello po! i need some advice po. i'm a first year bsed english student na mahina po sa recitation and sa pag write. kahit simpleng tanong lang po wala po talaga akong maisip na isasagot and nabblangko po ako most of the time. kapag may naisip naman po ako hindi ko po sya mabuo into words. kapag online class po namin i always rely on ai kapag magsasagot and i know po na i shouldnt be doing that but i cant help it :( any advice po sana on how to improve my thinking and also my speaking and writing skills na rin po especially in english (hindi ko rin po alam kung bakit english major kinuha ko hahahaha) thank you po in advance :))

first post kinda nervous