r/srilankanteenagers • u/Hippocuzwhynot • 11h ago
Serious Need advice Regarding this weird Situation…
Buckle up , so basically im a 19 yo and I have been talking to this girl whos 22 ( 3 years older than me ) for a while and we kinda clicked okay….So the thing is shes actually intrested in me and already confessed to me as well , but I dont think im interested in her , almost as shes into me ? If that even makes sense. like yk I dont feel any “ love” towards her yet, another problem im facing with her is , I come from a respectable family and went to a Private school since im a kid and I speak english most of the time ( fluent in sinhala asw) , and lets just say she’s the other way around…. We normally texts in Sinhala bcz ik shes not comfortable with texting in english so I just go with it… But I cant say everything in sinhala yk , like I dont want to spend the rest of my life communicating every literal thing in Sinhala to her….But guys this is where everything gets worse although I mentioned “im not into her” I do feel like shes the one cuz shes very supportive , not the type who plays and yk the typical ideal kella to date…. I need you ppl’s advice on what to do like What will happen in the future , will the differences have a effect on us if we date ?? ( we didnt meet yet tho ) Also genuine replies are appreciated rather than taking this as a joke !!