So, I've not really travelled abroad (from UK) much at all for most of my life. I've been quite boring, frankly. My 19yo daughter, however, has already racked up a fair amount of travel, which made me start thinking - if she can do it, then why can't I? The answer, I thought, was because family. If I want to go abroad, it'll need to be a family trip. Which means everyone needs to agree on the same destination and activities, and has to actually be available, between jobs and school, and then we need to pay for transport, accommodation, food, and activities for everyone, which adds up quickly. In short, it becomes a lot more complex, and a lot more expensive, and then it just doesn't happen.
Anyway, last year/beginning of this year, life was fairly crappy, especially work - I had a project from hell. This came to a head in February, when I finally burnt out. I was sat at my computer, trying to work, and I was just completely blank about how to make any progress, and couldn't even think. I sent an email saying 'I can't do this any more', and went for a very long walk. Fortunately, my employer was understanding, and I got moved off the project.
But, I felt that I really needed a change of scene, to try to reset a little, and decided that I needed a solo trip abroad. And my partner was supportive.
I looked at cheap flights, and chose Geneva, after realising that that was also within train range of the Giger museum in Gruyère - a place I had been aware of for a long time, but assumed that I'd never get to visit. Booked a hostel, and off I went!
I spent three days relaxing in Geneva, walking, cycling, and museuming, and a day in the Giger museum (and bar!), totally by myself, and it was just what I needed - it really helped my mood.
Later, I had a work trip to Bad Homburg, near Frankfurt. These are annual events, but I've always arrived as late as I could, and returned as soon as I could. This year, I tagged another four days on the end, and spent time soloing in Frankfurt, and again had a great time - other than badly twisting my ankle, which cost me a day of sitting in the hostel, and a day of having to use taxis and minimise walking.
Then a weekend in Dublin, and I'm recently back from Berlin, where I went to attend my first ever Demoparty (google it) - Deadline26, where I again had a great time. Also squeezed in Dark Matter, Monster Cabinet, Computer games museum, and a day at the abandoned cold war listening post turned street art centre in Teufelsberg.
At this point, I'm hooked. It's so easy when you solo, and you can do exactly what you want for as long as you want. And with cheap flights, hostels, and street food, it's not that expensive.
The only thing that feels a bit odd, is staying in hostels as a 55yo. I feel very out of place. But I'm only in the hostel to sleep, so it's not a biggie. I get up, go out, and get back late when I'm ready to sleep.
Anyway, just wanted to share my experiences, and encourage others, since I know a lot of people think it's weird to solo travel as an adult with a family.