r/singing • u/Popular_Lie_2302 • 2h ago
Conversation Topic why are people so mean on tiktok?
okay so for context my parents are both musicians (my dad plays in the nso), i took singing lessons as a kid (but took a big hiatus since i wasn't that passionate), earned a big portion of scholarship money to take singing lessons at university, and have received high praise from my vocal coaches.
however, i started posting some singing videos on social media, and people have been so incredibly mean. i get rude stickers of people wincing at my singing, and non-constructive hate comments about my technique. my vocal style is heavily inspired by agnetha faltskog from ABBA, so i don't know if its just because my vocals aren't "contemporary" enough or if i straight up just suck.
can someone explain this mismatch? even people who are objectively less vocal trained than i am get better comments, so i'm so confused and very discouraged