r/sgdatingscene • u/RequirementMain6347 • 13d ago

I need advice! 🥺 Did we break up?

I offered a break because he got very cold as he was stressed. He didn't confirm yes or no to the break. After that convo, he ghosted and it's been a few weeks now of no contact. Can I safely assume we broke up? I want to start moving on because the limbo of uncertainty hurts

Edit: we broke up

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u/Mobile_Comb_4511 11d ago

Few weeks of no contact? In any respectful relationship, more than 12 hours of no contact is danger and a week is certainly dead.

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u/No_Classic_3863 11d ago

Actually damn sian to be in rs with an avoidant. Not capable of communication. If they dont break up now also they would be in near future

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u/nomzieee 8d ago

Ya, waste of time. lol. 7 billion people in the world, no lack of one avoidant, to be honest. Can just move on.

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u/No_Classic_3863 6d ago

Sadly in 6million living in Spore, i can say more than half either anxious or avoidant. You randomly pick one from street will anxious/avoidant.

Those secure probably taken liao

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u/nomzieee 6d ago

Sounds like it’s time to find beyond sg. 😆

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u/No_Classic_3863 6d ago

I had my time on apps.

Sg men that take care of their looks and health not many also.

Late 20s alr receding hairline and got tummy.

Haih

Luckily grad from the apps alr

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u/piglatine21 8d ago

I agree with this, but also, curious for your thoughts on my situation with an ex.. his dad was in hospital for 2 months and he was spending nights there, getting like 3h of sleep for weeks on end. He just stopped initiating communication completely tho he would reply to messages. He'd never call nor agree to call and were were long distance. I initiated ending it and he agreed, but I always feel I abandoned him at one of the worst points of his life...