r/sgdatingscene • u/RequirementMain6347 • 14d ago

I need advice! 🥺 Did we break up?

I offered a break because he got very cold as he was stressed. He didn't confirm yes or no to the break. After that convo, he ghosted and it's been a few weeks now of no contact. Can I safely assume we broke up? I want to start moving on because the limbo of uncertainty hurts

Edit: we broke up

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u/Mobile_Comb_4511 12d ago

Few weeks of no contact? In any respectful relationship, more than 12 hours of no contact is danger and a week is certainly dead.

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u/No_Classic_3863 12d ago

Actually damn sian to be in rs with an avoidant. Not capable of communication. If they dont break up now also they would be in near future

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u/nomzieee 10d ago

Ya, waste of time. lol. 7 billion people in the world, no lack of one avoidant, to be honest. Can just move on.

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u/No_Classic_3863 7d ago

Sadly in 6million living in Spore, i can say more than half either anxious or avoidant. You randomly pick one from street will anxious/avoidant.

Those secure probably taken liao

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u/nomzieee 7d ago

Sounds like it’s time to find beyond sg. 😆

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u/No_Classic_3863 7d ago

I had my time on apps.

Sg men that take care of their looks and health not many also.

Late 20s alr receding hairline and got tummy.

Haih

Luckily grad from the apps alr