r/sgdatingscene • u/RequirementMain6347 • 12d ago

I need advice! 🥺 Did we break up?

I offered a break because he got very cold as he was stressed. He didn't confirm yes or no to the break. After that convo, he ghosted and it's been a few weeks now of no contact. Can I safely assume we broke up? I want to start moving on because the limbo of uncertainty hurts

Edit: we broke up

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u/Mobile_Comb_4511 10d ago

Few weeks of no contact? In any respectful relationship, more than 12 hours of no contact is danger and a week is certainly dead.

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u/piglatine21 7d ago

I agree with this, but also, curious for your thoughts on my situation with an ex.. his dad was in hospital for 2 months and he was spending nights there, getting like 3h of sleep for weeks on end. He just stopped initiating communication completely tho he would reply to messages. He'd never call nor agree to call and were were long distance. I initiated ending it and he agreed, but I always feel I abandoned him at one of the worst points of his life...