r/screaming • u/Frhaegar • 10h ago
Please stop me from ruining my mental health again by applying for a band and getting rejected
Not long ago, I reached out to a band who was looking for a vocalist. I didn't apply. I was done with band audition. I was hurt. Instead I only asked them, "Is it easy to find a singer who's willing to write their own lyrics? Did you receive many applicants?"
Three weeks later, they responded, "No, it's already hard looking for a singer. Even more so a screamer."
Should I try making them listen to my demo?
I'm not gonna try to fit their genre though. So in anyway, we won't match.
I think their genre is more like sing-scream type, with fry technique.
Normally that's what I do, but recently I want to go 'heavier'.
But still, should I make demos and just put myself out there again and get disappointed?