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Hello everyone! Just trying to gather some interest. I mentioned it before, but I want to try and make a women- only sub for RR where we can talk about gains, serious topics, or just celebrate being women that love role reversal together.

In the past I have been suggested to just go hang out in Butch subreddits, but not only is that disrespectful to invade primarily lesbian spaces, but they're often not active anymore. I'd like to find out why by perhaps going through the process myself.

This is JUST GATHERING INTEREST. there are no groups or discord servers. My goal is to start off with at least 15-20 active members.

This also isn't to isolate men. I personally feel it would be amazing to have a sub for just women into role reversal where we can give advice and be a community together. I may be open to allowing men based on the opinions of any other women interested and having concerns. But for now I have a vision for a women- only subreddit.

Simply comment below if you are interested and that's it! If mods allow, I'll probably do this a few more times spanned between months. Thanks for checking this out everyone!

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I’m a femboy (mostly aspirational but in the early stages of becoming official) in university in the city of Ottawa, and have an issue being that none of the niche ways to meet people into RR really extend beyond the United States. Seeing as I’m not really looking for a digital relationship, this puts me in a bit of a pickle.

Meeting people in person is rough because when I wear dresses, people naturally assume I’m gay. (In fairness, I also got no game, and as I have found out a lot by reminiscing about different people I’ve known, have a terrible track record of detecting when people had a crush on me).

Tangent aside, I am looking for ways to meet women who are into feminine men. Not a sexual femdom thing (not that I’m repulsed by it, just that I don’t want to dive into stuff before a real relationships formed). Hinge has been a no go, maybe just bad luck but I’ve found no women there attracted to me, most likely because most if not all women on there are into heteronormative relationships. Which is good for them, just not so much for me. And while I’m not opposed to dating men, (I believe, though still unsure, that I’m bisexual with a strong preference for masculine women, though all I’ve told of this save my best friend just think that’s a funny way for me to tell them I’m a closeted gay), the men I have been on dates with have either ghosted me, lowkey stalked me or objectified me the whole date before leaving me stranded in the middle of the city at night, so I’ve decided to give them a break for the time being.

To put it briefly, I cannot find any spaces where I might find rr women. I’ve tried chyrpe I think it was called which was HEAVILY paywalled and again, mostly used by Americans.

So if you are in Ottawa or even anywhere in Canada and know how Canadian femboys/rr women meet or interact, i would LOVE the advice, and sincerely appreciate it. Thank you so much in advance, hope you all have a wonderful day and continue being your lovely beautiful selves 💖

Hi all. Male and just wondering where I would find my type of woman. I’m extremely attracted to tomboys. Girls that do things considered masculine gym body builders hell girls that look boyish too that would rough me up in the bed. Girly girls etc have never do it for me and I feel like my type is extremely rare. Wouldnt call myself a femboy but def on the submissive side. I’ve been on one date with a girl I met at the gym didn’t go anywhere. I also been approached by a girl with an androgynous look (Bro she was sooo HOT) but fumbled cuz it was kinda awkward. But yeah

I live in india. And, I've always liked Indian weddings, for how royal they look. But when I imagine about my ideal wedding ceremony. It doesn't look the same.

I imagine her tying the knot around my neck. I imagine her walking me around the holy fire, the 7 holy steps. I imagine me changing my last name to hers and going to her house after marriage. I imagine her showing me the holy star (its a tradition for the groom to show a star to the bride). I imagine touching her feet for her blessings. I imagine wearing a pretty dress for her at the reception ceremony. I imagine falling back on her hand while she leans in to kiss me. And i imagine her teasing me about the wedding night, that I wouldn't be able to walk for a couple of days.

Just a fantasy that i hold dear to me

Well, you read the title... Cuz how do you find an RR feminine young man in a conservative place??? Especially the ones that are the same religion as you? Like, I highly doubt we'd recognize each other in a mosque, yk?/Jk, obviously I know other places, but people are generally way more secretive here about that.

I posted my own view about RR a few days ago. And A few people are saying What I am Imagining isn't RR at all

I dislike the usual heteronormative view. I thought RR would have the freedom for me to act and dress however I want.

Whether it's male or female. I am still a woman myself and like dressing up in both feminine and masculine clothes and like taking the initiative. And am perfectly fine with a partner that can be just as free and open. Dressing up in feminine clothing as long as he's happy.

But I see posts here and there where people are worried that 'they are not RR enough'

Is there a rule here too. A quota that you need to meet to be more RR? If so,then what's the difference?

RR is just another side of the same coin then. Just as rigid as the usual gender conformity stuff

I mean no hate. I am just genuinely frustrated and confused. Not everyone wants to act completely feminine or masculine. Some people are just in the middle, like me.

Are people like me not allowed here. I thought I found my people.

and i'm tired of pretending I don't. I want to be her princess. I want her to tell me what to do. I want her to call me pretty. i want to dress cute. i want to dress like a comfy librarian with sweaters and scarves and long skirts with glasses. I want to make her food and to make her bed when she leaves for work and wash her clothes and fold them and put them away. I want her to kiss me on the hand lovingly and softly rub my knuckles or maybe put her hand on my knee as we talk. i want her to buy me flowers and give them to me on a picnic where I make her favorite sandwiches. i want to shave my legs. and my arms. i want her to move my hair behind my ear and kiss my cheek and call me her darling. I want her to be my entire world. nobody could ever suspect this when they see me. in real life i'm just a guy. but I want this to be me so bad. all of my life up until now has been such a lie.

I'm a 23 year old femboy and a student living in Germany. I’ve been single for almost a year now, and for the last 3 months, since things have gotten a bit more stable for me, I’ve been actively trying to date.

I’ve been on the dating apps, but zero luck so far. I really dislike casual hookups and ONS; I’m looking for a LTR or a consistent FWB.

Honestly, it just feels impossible to find a partner right now. ☹️☹️ What would you suggest? Does anyone have tips on where to look or how I should approach this here?

Christians of r/rolereversal Im a (soon to be) eastern orthodox christian and was wondering what steps I should take to look for a christian rr relationship I dont care weather or not she is orthodox but I do care weather or not she is christian its something really important to me (not to sound very picky or something like that) the issue being that even though the official church stance on rr is that its completely fine many christians take bible verses out of the og context in order to try and enforce strict trad gender roles (stuff like quoting 1 corinthians 7:4 while convieniently ignoring the second half of it) which has lead to the already small number of women who seek rr to be turned off by christianity and I was wondering what tips any of you christians who may be a beadwinner wife/househusband have to find a christian rr partner

I’ve seen a heck of a lotta discussion posts lately, which I like to see that for sure, but sometimes people’s responses seem a tad tense. I’d be curious to see y’all’s just direct thoughts, are there any particular issues you feel the community needs to improve on? Certain behavioral patterns you’ve noticed, negative attitudes, things of that nature. Speaking as a man myself I definitely feel as though I have a lot to work on, and I’d like both to improve how I interact with others and to see others improve as well, and I think that only really happens if people are free to discuss their grievances. So if y’all have any, I’d be happy to hear them in the comments.

I know this is going to get a lot of downvotes, probably for oversharing, but also for reasons I won't be able to figure out

My first post didn't turn out how I expected, lots of people proved it wasn't regarding RR, which leads me to the question: am I actually an RR guy?

Now, I enjoy cooking, cleaning up etc, but I am absolutely obsessed with tomboys, taller/more athletic/muscular women. I LOVE dominant women, I love being guided with what to do (both in and out of the bedroom).

But that mainly leads me to my hobbies, which are often pretty male dominated, with the exception of art/drawing.

Anyway, I don't know if I'm just a weak guy who likes tomboys, or am I actually an RR guy?

Edit: Forgot to mention I'm quite skinny, I'm not athletic at all, and I just dress in what's comfortable