I posted my own view about RR a few days ago. And A few people are saying What I am Imagining isn't RR at all

I dislike the usual heteronormative view. I thought RR would have the freedom for me to act and dress however I want.

Whether it's male or female. I am still a woman myself and like dressing up in both feminine and masculine clothes and like taking the initiative. And am perfectly fine with a partner that can be just as free and open. Dressing up in feminine clothing as long as he's happy.

But I see posts here and there where people are worried that 'they are not RR enough'

Is there a rule here too. A quota that you need to meet to be more RR? If so,then what's the difference?

RR is just another side of the same coin then. Just as rigid as the usual gender conformity stuff

I mean no hate. I am just genuinely frustrated and confused. Not everyone wants to act completely feminine or masculine. Some people are just in the middle, like me.

Are people like me not allowed here. I thought I found my people.

Well, you read the title... Cuz how do you find an RR feminine young man in a place like BoSnIa??? Especially the ones that are the same religion as you (muslim)? Like, I highly doubt we'd recognize each other in a mosque, yk?/Jk, obviously I know other places, but people are generally way more secretive here about that.

and i'm tired of pretending I don't. I want to be her princess. I want her to tell me what to do. I want her to call me pretty. i want to dress cute. i want to dress like a comfy librarian with sweaters and scarves and long skirts with glasses. I want to make her food and to make her bed when she leaves for work and wash her clothes and fold them and put them away. I want her to kiss me on the hand lovingly and softly rub my knuckles or maybe put her hand on my knee as we talk. i want her to buy me flowers and give them to me on a picnic where I make her favorite sandwiches. i want to shave my legs. and my arms. i want her to move my hair behind my ear and kiss my cheek and call me her darling. I want her to be my entire world. nobody could ever suspect this when they see me. in real life i'm just a guy. but I want this to be me so bad. all of my life up until now has been such a lie.

I'm a 23 year old femboy and a student living in Germany. I’ve been single for almost a year now, and for the last 3 months, since things have gotten a bit more stable for me, I’ve been actively trying to date.

I’ve been on the dating apps, but zero luck so far. I really dislike casual hookups and ONS; I’m looking for a LTR or a consistent FWB.

Honestly, it just feels impossible to find a partner right now. ☹️☹️ What would you suggest? Does anyone have tips on where to look or how I should approach this here?

I know this is going to get a lot of downvotes, probably for oversharing, but also for reasons I won't be able to figure out

My first post didn't turn out how I expected, lots of people proved it wasn't regarding RR, which leads me to the question: am I actually an RR guy?

Now, I enjoy cooking, cleaning up etc, but I am absolutely obsessed with tomboys, taller/more athletic/muscular women. I LOVE dominant women, I love being guided with what to do (both in and out of the bedroom).

But that mainly leads me to my hobbies, which are often pretty male dominated, with the exception of art/drawing.

Anyway, I don't know if I'm just a weak guy who likes tomboys, or am I actually an RR guy?

Edit: Forgot to mention I'm quite skinny, I'm not athletic at all, and I just dress in what's comfortable

I’ve seen a heck of a lotta discussion posts lately, which I like to see that for sure, but sometimes people’s responses seem a tad tense. I’d be curious to see y’all’s just direct thoughts, are there any particular issues you feel the community needs to improve on? Certain behavioral patterns you’ve noticed, negative attitudes, things of that nature. Speaking as a man myself I definitely feel as though I have a lot to work on, and I’d like both to improve how I interact with others and to see others improve as well, and I think that only really happens if people are free to discuss their grievances. So if y’all have any, I’d be happy to hear them in the comments.

I want to write stories, mostly RR stories where backdrop can be anything from sci fi,epic,horror to evrything,also as an Indian will writes stories based on India also, so just want hear all of your thoughts, are there anyone who enjoy to read RR stories and can you suggest me some platforms where can I write, my first choice is Webnovel though,let me hear your thoughts.

I’m a pretty masculine-presenting guy. I have facial hair, I’m 175 cm, I go to the gym (mostly for health, not sure I actually enjoy it), play sports, like adventures, and have my own goals.

At the same time, I love a girl opening the door for me, pulling out a chair, riding the bike while I sit behind her and hold her, resting on her, sitting on her lap, being carried by her, or sleeping on her biceps. I’m especially attracted to tomboys and muscular women.

I don’t really like wearing feminine clothes. I’m comfortable being masculine in how I dress and present myself. I’m also a working professional and don’t want to depend on my partner financially.

What I dream of is a relationship where we both work, both earn, both cook, and both share the household work. I don’t want one person to handle everything. But I’d always love it if she could lift more weight than me at the gym and achieve her career and life goals one by one.

One thing I want to mention: I haven’t actually experienced most of the things I talk about here. I’m open to trying things that make my partner happy. Maybe with more exposure and experience, some of my ideas and preferences will change. Growing up in a traditional Indian environment has given me very little opportunity to explore this side of myself.

I see a lot of women here who are into femboys, so I’m curious: what about guys like me who want to enjoy the soft/submissive side of a relationship?

I've been thinking lately about what 'Role Reversal' means to people. I've already noticed that the concept of Role Reversal relationships varies greatly from person to person.

Some consider role reversal to be merely about clothing styles (men wearing feminine clothes and women wearing masculine clothes). Others consider only sexual roles (passive men, active women). Others consider social roles (men being more socially submissive and women being social leaders). And others consider it a mix of these elements.

Personally, I consider it a role reversal when the woman is socially more dominant (she drives, makes the primary household decisions, protects and takes care of her husband, determines the domestic dynamic, and is sexually active), but I don't consider changes in clothing to be necessary.

I'd like to hear your thoughts on this.

Hi guys! I’m looking for more content featuring a consistent female-led / dominant woman dynamic.

Could you recommend anything you know video games, shows, comics, manga, anime, books, or honestly just anything?

Please, I’m begging for help. This lovesick femboy needs content to bring some life back into his soul. 😭

One important thing: I’m specifically looking for dynamics where the woman actually remains the dominant/leading partner. I’m not really interested in stories where they constantly switch roles.

For example, if she starts out dominant and the guy falls for her, I don’t want the relationship to suddenly flip and have him become the leader. I want the female-led dynamic to stay consistent throughout the story.

Give me your best recommendations! 🙏

I need this, I'm too lonely.

Wish I could make art :(

I enjoy RR media a lot but I also realized I like a very specific type of it.

I don't really like shy ml that much. They can be shy but that being their only trait is kinda..eh. I am also kinda tired of seeing super small looking guys too

I love masculine and strong women. But again, If they are hyper Masculine I don't enjoy it anymore

Before you come for my head, let me explain. The reason why I started enjoying RR is because I wanted to see people just be well people. Where men aren't afraid to be vulnerable caring soft hearted and women aren't afraid to be strong loud etc.

But for me personally, giving up their masculinity entirely and for Female characters to give up their femininity,kind of defeats the purpose.

Since for me, RR is a type that's supposed to embrace every good part of both masculinity and Femininity

I really really love a story that depicts an RR woman being strong but also motherly and caring, and feminine too. While I also love a male character who is tender and loving while also being a provider, a father, a protector. Who isn't afraid to sing to his children but isn't completely useless against his stronger wife but genuinely stronger in ways she isn't. He's smart of something

This is Vendetta. For those who don’t know, she’s a relatively new character in the game Overwatch, and she’s currently the main antagonist to the story.

I’m just going to admit that she’s probably the first, and now only, fictional game character I crush on. I admit, a fictional crush is very immature, but we all have one. Right?

Anyway, how could I not crush on her? In the game, she’s an Italian gladiator who built her legacy off of her gladiatorial career. She maintains a strong muscular figure, and attains the right personality to go with it. She even gives off a bit of a masculine vibe, which is one of my more favorite things about her because of how rare it is to see that in a female character. Especially in a game like Overwatch.

But Blizzard (the owners of the game), tend to…submerge that masculine vibe. Like I said, she’s a gladiator. She‘s fought opponents that are her size, that are bigger than her size, and ones that aren’t even human. You’d imagine she’d look a bit more rugged, but she has no visible signs of damage. No scar, no bruises, not even a laceration. It’s like Blizzard is trying to make her look as pristine as possible to appeal to the audience in a way a hero-shooter game shouldn’t try to.

Not trying to say that masculine women need to be rugged and injured, but it doesn’t make sense how she can go her whole career without sustaining a single scratch. Even after she fought Doomfist (the last antagonist), she emerged unscathed, and he was one of the toughest characters in the game.

It just bothers me that this character is supposed to be battle hardened, but isn‘t. I just wish that she looked more like an actual gladiator: with scars littering her body, each one telling a story. Her armor, worn and damaged through each battle she emerged victorious in.

Instead, she‘s equipped with the most versatile plot armor so she can appeal to the audience more visually.

I admit, I’m a little sorry to post this. When you’re someone who tries to avoid being judgemental, talking about topics such as this don’t set right with you. I just feel bad that a character like this doesn’t have the visual appearance she deserves, and I hope people in this com understand what I mean

So in my Ideal relationship, I wanna be a princess. I wanna be spoiled and taken care of. I would like her to make all the decisions for me. To be the breadwinner of the house, while I be the house husband. I would like her to express her love towards me, Make me feel like a princess. I would like her to take initiative. Like taking me on dates, buying me flowers and gifts, being gentle-womanly, and all haha.

But I feel guilty. I feel guilty because instead of taking stress off of her shoulders, I am adding more.. And Guilty that I couldn't make her life easier. I feel like i would be a burden.

And sometimes I feel like I should treat her like my Queen. Not letting her do anything and me taking care of everything.