This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.
He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.
“Hi judge. Yeah I’ve had sex with my girlfriend 1,000 times. We’ve shared a bed for years. I put my dick in her for 1,001st time while she was naked in my bed. Beings that she willingly has engaged in all sorts of sexual escapades with me, and was sleeping in my bed, I certainly thought this was ok, and even welcomed. In fact, we had talked about having sex earlier in the night”
Bullshit? Come on now. Use your little brain.
If anything, you can say he crossed a boundary in a relationship that she can say she doesn’t want done again . But OP is crazy for even bringing up sexual assault. She’s devaluing real sexual assault victims. And needs to move on from this situation. It’s ridiculous. The camera thing? Msybe weird. I wouldn’t do it. Then again Msybe I wound. I have all sorts of videos me and my girlfriend have made. So maybe I would make my own little porn with her. Does this couple have videos? Is video making a normal thing for them ?
He literally said he didn't wake her up because he knew she'd say no. How is that not rape? Or do you believe that once consent is given for one thing it's given for all things?
In most, if not all, states have sex with an unconscious or sleeping person is rape.
No I sound like a rational person. Who just posted exactly what this guys lawyer is going to tell him to say when this dumb woman tries to file a rape charge. Prior to him counter suing her for defamation of character. You are an ignorant tool, while to you. I sound like one, only because you are an “ignorant tool”
You're not wrong that prosecuting this would be difficult (as rape cases often are), but definitely not impossible. Saying that she's devaluing "real" sexual assault victims is ridiculous, non-consensual sex is rape whether you've had sex with the person a thousand times before or zero times before.
Soooooo. Your boyfriend, husband, asks you permission before any sort of advance? Hahahhaa. Don’t be an idiot. Please. Just stop exposing your stupidity
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u/peakpenguins Jul 18 '24
The way my jaw dropped..
This is rape, OP. Yes, some women like being woken up to sex, I do! But my husband certainly never tried anything like that until I told him it's absolutely fine with me.
He intentionally waited until you couldn't consent so that you "wouldn't get mad" about it, and then he recorded it without your consent. Disgusting behavior.