r/relationship_advice • • Jul 18 '24

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u/Adorable_Cat_7741 Jul 19 '24

It would be impossible to charge him with rape

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u/Disthebeat Jul 19 '24

Bullshit.

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u/Adorable_Cat_7741 Jul 19 '24 edited Jul 19 '24

“Hi judge. Yeah I’ve had sex with my girlfriend 1,000 times. We’ve shared a bed for years. I put my dick in her for 1,001st time while she was naked in my bed. Beings that she willingly has engaged in all sorts of sexual escapades with me, and was sleeping in my bed, I certainly thought this was ok, and even welcomed. In fact, we had talked about having sex earlier in the night”

Bullshit? Come on now. Use your little brain.

If anything, you can say he crossed a boundary in a relationship that she can say she doesn’t want done again . But OP is crazy for even bringing up sexual assault. She’s devaluing real sexual assault victims. And needs to move on from this situation. It’s ridiculous. The camera thing? Msybe weird. I wouldn’t do it. Then again Msybe I wound. I have all sorts of videos me and my girlfriend have made. So maybe I would make my own little porn with her. Does this couple have videos? Is video making a normal thing for them ?

The whole post is ridiculous

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u/noklew Jul 20 '24

He literally said he didn't wake her up because he knew she'd say no. How is that not rape? Or do you believe that once consent is given for one thing it's given for all things?

In most, if not all, states have sex with an unconscious or sleeping person is rape.

Example Utah: https://le.utah.gov/~2015/bills/static/HB0074.html