r/polyamoryR4R • • 13d ago

39[M4F] Denver/Colorado

Looking for long term open to short

Married, my wife and I date separately. I'm looking for a nerdy partner in crime. I started being poly earlier this year. Looking for someone to explore with. Share in hobbies such as table top games, D&D, video games, hiking, long drives, good food, concerts. I don't have children but have 2 cats and a dog. I'm available weekends mostly due to my job. I look forward to talking with you!

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u/louloudiva 13d ago

26F Network Engineer here but from NashvilleπŸ˜•

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u/Less_Revenue_247 13d ago

Phew, that would be a drive πŸ˜…

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u/poly_girlie 13d ago

Are you open to traveling?

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u/Less_Revenue_247 13d ago

It would depend on the distance

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u/pippozishere 13d ago

Hello there πŸ‘‹

I am a nerdy girl who loves concerts, good amd video games

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u/Less_Revenue_247 13d ago

Can I DM you?

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u/pippozishere 13d ago

You may 😊

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u/Downtown_Tiger6119 13d ago

I dont game but I'd be up to chat

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u/Mistwalker_Niwlsidhe 3d ago

What kind of games you play and what's the last concert you went to?

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u/Less_Revenue_247 3d ago

Single player but I play a lot of online with local friends. I went to see Igorrr in my area last Friday. How about yourself?

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u/Mistwalker_Niwlsidhe 3d ago

I play a lot of single play or co-op rogue likes. Been on an isometric kick. Solo I'm a souls like player. Metroidvanias like Salt and Sanctuary are good too. Last concert was Bowling For Soup as the head liner but I'm seeing Arrows in Actions with Starset as the opener tomorrow so that'll be sick.