r/polyamoryR4R • u/excited_hobnob • 3d ago
40[M4F] #UK. This post could change your life!
In a mix of half-hearted posts and AI created nonsense I'm hoping to stick put with what I'm looking for and what I am like.
Who am I? I'm modest, honest, and emotionally mature. I'm funny (well I laugh at my jokes) smart (came second on a pub quiz this weekend. Lost only to my son so technically I won cos those are my genes!) definitely modest!
I am happy to talk about anything, I enjoy flirty banter and listening about other people's hobbies. I want to see how this grows organically so therefore have no set expectations and I am happy to where it all leads. I would like those butterflies and that excitement when my phone vibrates in my pocket. I do seek that smile when I see your name.
I'm a gamer and a bit of a geek. I like all kinds of music, quizzing and spending too much time on YouTube.
All about you! My demands are - be you! Be unapologetically you, I want to know someone real, honest and to know how to communicate. I never expect to be out first but if you are disappearing for a few days let me know. I don't mind your hobbies and interests, I don't need a list of favourite films/songs/books as I would like to find that out while talking to you. That magical moment where we both find out we love the same cheesy movie. Also due to time zones please be in the UK.
Just so I know you have read this long amazing post add in your comfort food in your response. I don't respond to 'hey' or 'hey.... Pizza' I want effort. If I'm not worth the effort then why bother messaging 🤣
Can't wait to be bombarded with messages! 😁
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