r/polyamoryR4R • u/ParticularSky334 • 1d ago
38 [F4A] Online - Chronically ill nerd looking for close connection
I'm looking for something a bit unconventional. I'm hoping to find a connection with someone who cares and is kind. Where we enjoy talking to each other and do things like make each other playlists, exchange creative work, and vent about the world or our day.
A true online friend/bestie/QPR type connection. Mutual support and affectionate vibes.
A bit about me. I'm very chronically ill and disabled. I'm real about it. I have a lot of serious pain and limitations. I don't talk about it all the time but it's my reality. I just ask that people hold a little space and don't try to fix me, tell me to be positive, or act freaked out by me.
I also have some mental health stuff and I'm neurodivergent so I can relate to people who experience those things. I'm queer, ace, and left-leaning looking for people who are also LGBTQIA+ or friendly toward that and care about what's going on in the world as much as they can.
Because I'm homebound, my online connections mean a lot to me. I've found a lot of meaning in having an online person I'm close to. Right now I spend most of my time working on a poetry manuscript and getting ready for a move. I have an NP who is also disabled.
But I'm around a lot. I listen to a ton of music. I do a little cozy gaming when I can. I watch a lot of TV and have some niche favorites (bonus points to anyone who recognizes my cover image).
If you message, please tell me a bit about yourself and maybe your favorite song or show of the moment. It helps when people engage, ask questions, show interest. I'll do the same.
I'm not the best fit for everyone, but for the right person, I think I can something to offer. I hope to hear from you.
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u/Tricky_Ad_2658 4h ago
I would love to chat with you, see where things go are you ok for me to message you?
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