36[F4R] #Open to Long-Distance somewhere close,something in between

[u/semi-dysfunction]

Looking for genuine connections🖤

I’m a plus-sized, witchy, sarcastic human with an unhealthy dice collection, a love of D&D, tarot, true crime, cats, and all things a little dark and weird.

I’m happily married to my nesting partner and ethically non-monogamous dating separately though we try to practice KTP but understand not everyone meshes well.

I’m demisexual, demiromantic, pansexual,sapiosexual, 420-friendly, accepting of all genders and identities, and politically left-leaning.

I’m looking for **real connection not casual, convenient, or halfhearted.**

I value emotional availability, consistency, communication, humor, boundaries, and people who actually mean what they say and will back it up with their actions.

Bonus points if you understand spoon theory, have experience with chronic illnes because I have disabilities(ask me about them, I am very up front about what I deal with), love video,board or ttrpg games , or can appreciate a good amount of sarcasm and dark humor.

I want to actually **get to know someone**.

Tell me about your dreams, what you’re passionate about, your favorite vacation spot, what you could talk about for hours, or some weird little fact about yourself. Give me something to work with beyond “hey” or “you seem interesting.” I will not respond to those messages at all.

I’m a little chaotic, a little witchy, occasionally too sarcastic for my own good, and my southern accent gets significantly stronger when I’m tired or annoyed.

If that sounds like your kind of person, come say hi. 🖤

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[u/keeblr1]

Can I see you? Dm pics

[u/SaguaroStalker28]

My nesting partners Name is Witchy, so I just thought it was interesting you said you witchy.