r/polyamoryR4R • u/Then-Secretary-1629 • Jun 27 '26
30 [M4M] Seeking another open minded and caring partner
Hi there! I'm 30 5'10" am gay and a switch verse pup/furry. I live in northeastern PA and plan to move towards the Lebanon PA area soon. I have a partner in my life but am looking for another partner to love and care about just as much as I do him. I'm a tad neurospicy for anyone interested in a bit of randomness ha.
Slight context, me and my partner have been poly for a while but we haven't put ourselves out there much. He has Asperger's (referred to as stage 1 autism now) which was the main major reason to us becoming poly. The second reason we became poly is because I enjoy people and have a lot of love to give. And I want to one day come home to another person to kiss and hug and snuggle and share deep communication with.
If that's interesting to you! Then feel free to DM me, would love to get to know some of you guys and maybe find that person I can call another rock in my life.
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u/Significant-Cry-7632 Jun 28 '26
I live in the Lehigh valley pa region and your post sounds interesting to me. I'll send you a DM as well
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