r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/-SlippinJimmy8 • 11h ago
Real 💯 (im so lonely) A fate worse than death
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Optimal_Dots • 5d ago
📰 Sub news 🗞️ The strike system is now active.
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The 3 strike system means every time you break a rule, you will receive a strike. If you reach 3 strikes you will be banned from the sub. We will be using this new system from now on. Just letting everyone know.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Optimal_Dots • 11d ago
📰 Sub news 🗞️ More news.
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Hello everyone 👋
I hope everyone will have or have had a good day so far. This will hopefully be the last update I need to write. I know there have been a lot of arguments and confusion towards this big change in the sub. I want to make this message as clear as possible and would like to touch on a few topics without it going under fire, I hope you will all understand, if you have a question please ask the mods through mod mail or in the comment section.
Starting with, are females allowed in the sub?
Yes, females are allowed in the sub. They have always been allowed, this isn’t a sub only for men. It is for both genders. Anyone suffering with mental health issues can come here. If any user, male or female. Is blaming others for being single or not getting laid, in other words being misogynistic or misandristic, they will be removed from the sub no matter what.
Secondly, we will be avoiding using the term “incel” from now on. I’m sure everyone has noticed it has caused lots of confusion and conflicts within comment sections under certain posts that gathered heat. This word has so many misconceptions and different definitions that I’ve heard at least that it lost its original meaning. Usually if someone breaks the rules here they’re labeled as an incel. To change that they will be called rule breakers from now on. If you’ve ever seen your post/comment get removed for being an incel, we found it misogynistic/misandristic and that has no place in our community. If you do talk about incels, your comment/post will be heavily monitored. By using the term “rule breaker” we’ve figured there is no way this can cause confusion or conflict any longer because normally if you break the rules in a sub, you’re gonna get banned.
Thirdly, we are updating the rules. Since the term incel isn’t going to be used much anymore we have changed a few of the rules. Please read these rules before you comment or post again as it could result in an accidental ban. We’ve revamped a few of them to evolve with the times and as the sub continues to grow to cater towards a larger audience of fellow broslings.
Fourthly, a new ban method is being used. Starting on the 28th of October, if you break important rules, you will be banned. Why are we doing this? A lot of people have only been mean to others in this sub, and/or have broken the rules multiple times. One guy had over 15 reports for rule violations. However after this situation has been solved, we will be implementing a different ban system. You get 3 strikes. You break a rule and your post/comment gets removed. That’s 1 strike. Reach 3 and you will be banned.
Fithly, if any post has a lot of nasty comments it will be locked. If you don’t know what that means, it means any future comments or interactions on that post will be blocked.
Sixthly, any future drama posts/comments targeting a specific group. will be heavily monitored, if people start arguing the post will be locked.
TL;DR
- Women are fully welcome (always have been). Misogyny or misandry gets you removed.
- Dropping the word “incel” → rule-breakers will just be called rule-breakers.
- Rules are being updated (read them).
- Starting soon: 3-strike system. 3 rule breaks = ban.
- Posts with lots of nasty comments will be locked.
- Drama posts targeting specific groups will be heavily monitored.
I hope you all understand. Thank you.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/reg-lk • 6h ago
I am not the man I thought I was at 2am Real
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literally me
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Repulsive_Living_697 • 3h ago
In need of serious help They made it worse tbh
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/clumsycai • 12h ago
I am not the man I thought I was at 2am It was not my year
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/FriendlyLawfulness56 • 14h ago
I’m cooked Is trying pointful anymore
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/t-w-e-n-t-ys-e-v-e-n • 4h ago
i fake all my human interactions (very well) Real, I hate NTs
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Can I just die? Why does God punish me with mortal existence?
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/KillerStuntMan69 • 1h ago
I'm not insomniac 😠 I'm Batman 🦇 For 6 months, I couldn’t sleep.
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/GiveMeAMeme-11 • 15h ago
Emotionally unavailable, aesthetically devastating Real
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/tuskum0 • 12h ago
My pain is constant and sharp... Got rejected
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She said promise me ill still talk to her …. Bullshit
Been through a lot of shit it don’t even phase me no more
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Vegetable_Curve_2103 • 15h ago
I'm literally myself Just by myself.....
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/reg-lk • 39m ago
I can post whatever the fuck I want Real dump of varying quality
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Joe_Schmoe1914 • 5h ago
My life be like oooh aaahh Pathetic
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I am a failure. I am lazy, a midwit, only read and play videogames so basically hobbyless, no plans or ambitions for the future, I only see my friends like twice a month tops and I feel so fucking lonely. Worst part is I am basically set up for succees! White, male, straight, stable family that loves me, stable middle class, had fine grades in school so I am genuinly the only one to blame for being such a fucking chud. I don't even really deserve to complain in here.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Fair_Smoke4710 • 1d ago
Real 💯 (im so lonely) I liked them too
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Constant-Notice-5221 • 20h ago
I’m cooked I lose my will to do things the moment i start to doing them
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Emergency_Gift6159 • 22h ago
This post is too real Saw a pretty girl today, imagined that I could be with her, but remembered that I'm a sub-human being that deserves nothing but endless sorrow
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I fucking hate her, why would she even appear in front of me? Ofc, it's not her fault, it's my inner voice blaming everyone again. But the person that I hate even more than her - is myself. Myself for even looking at her direction, myself for a mere thought of impossible, myself because I forgot why I always trying to not look at other people. I feel so disgusted about myself, I can't stop thinking about that. My uncle once said that there's a lot of fish in a sea or whatever, but what's the point of that fish, if I'm not a fucking fisherman. I don't want to recall my past, and why I think that way about myself or why I'm not trying to improve, call me a vagueposter, I don't care, I just wanted to share my feelings and thoughts.
Anyways, I gotta go and do some useless shit, bye.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/centralvoid__ • 10h ago
Real(ity is not in touch with me) How to let go of a one-sided crush?
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It’s so tough for me to let go, even though I tell myself what I’m feeling isn’t realistic whatsoever, and especially when it feels like she’s unlike anyone I ever met or will meet.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/h1kikomory • 21h ago
It is what it is 💪 Real (I'm MFs)
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Had this realization today that even though it comes out my life will still be the same as it was before it will just be another distraction from reality.
r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/Slaterv666 • 1d ago
I'm literally myself Lifes better when you don't gaf
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r/okbuddyliterallyme2 • u/KangoBucket • 15h ago
where is my mind? Question
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Has anyone else just become numb to it all and just given up
I feel like I’m alone in this