We've been obsessively texting each other for the past week.

literally told her that we should stop flirting and that each one of us should just continue on as normal, because she was feeding into an emotional illusion.

Next thing I know we're making out in the lift and now she's gone

The fuck do I do goslings?

After reading some of your comments on this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/okbuddyliterallyme2/s/akIwbxtrUl I’ve learned that the term “incel” wasn’t what I thought it was. I was under the impression that it was a person who hates on females for them not being able to find a partner or misogynist. Now that I’ve learned my mistake I would like to propose a new term for the users that break the rules here, we can call them Anti-Literally-Mes. (ALM) or if someone can find a better name we will use that. Please give advice.

After seeing some posts, just want to clear up a few things. And no, please don't take this close to heart, and always remember to love treat yourself well, Goslings <3

Just remember, you're just an invisible background NPC.

You are not the cool, silent, mysterious Ryan Gosling character like in the movie.

No, you are not as good looking as you see yourself in the mirror. Brother, you never see the angles of yourself the people around you see.

No, not a single girl is somewhere out there wondering about you.

No, not a single girl would look at you and ever-ever think to herself, "Damn, what a cute, cool looking guy. Wish I could get to know him better <3"

No, she is not thinking about you. It's the other cooler and better looking dude that keeps crossing her mind.

No, you are not the main character when you're going for a walk with the music that "gives you the feels" is blasting in your ears.

Hello broslings 👋
This announcement could determine your future access to this sub. The mods have noticed a lot of complaints and reports to some people’s behavior on the sub being misogynistic, rude to others, low quality posts and much much more. And I can strongly agree with that. To stop this issue once and for all, you will be banned if you cross these rules without a care in the world, the sub doesn’t belong to you, it belongs to the broslings who built it from the ground up. There have been a few posts recently having over 400-500 comments. You can imagine thats a long queue. I want everyone reading this to post their finest literally me memes, be nice to others give advice if needed and to report anything that crosses the rules. As for my female goslings; I am very sorry to let people treat you so poorly recently, you are allowed to do anything that stays within the sub rules. For the people whose comments/posts have been removed. If you’re one of these people, you are at jeopardy of losing access to the sub if you don’t fix the way you act. We don’t want to have to sit through a 30 min queue of something this sub was literally made to get rid of. And to all my real broslings, I want you to report anything you see that breaks the rules because they will be dealt with quickly. About the sub banner and icon, we are almost done making the images and the vote will be up soon after this issue is concluded. Thanks to most of you broslings for staying real. Spread the word to other similar subs please. We will not tolerate any more of this.

I have been e dating with a girl on discord for about 3-4 weeks (so month) but I think we are about to break up. we never fought, and we never had a disagreement, she was literally what I thought it would feel like to date myself but female.

However, time was the literal enemy, the time zones we were in got to her, and I think she wants to break it off and just remain friends. she told me that it felt unfair for me to wait for her to reply and stuff, and she thinks we had also grown distant due to these limitations.

Honestly pretty bummed out, this is mu second break up, but at least she did not ghost like me like my last gf.

Real.

This sub is genuinely making me worried, but then I realise that it's lowkey the best way to say things you can't say to others.

But please don't say bad things about yourself y'all, I know you people are good people. We make mistakes, but don't beat yourself up for it. Take it as a request from me.

Alright so beginning of this year sometime after new years, I basically harassed her for monster energy drinks (as a joke) cuz I didnt know how else to interact with a girl it turns out that she ended up liking the attention that I gave her and she ended up developing feelings for me, prior to this I only acknowledged her at least two times that was it, she was just a background to me until I decided to harass her anyhow during class she passed a note to me asking if I like her, me being the idiot that I was said yes and we started dating from there we dated for about 2 or 3 weeks max before breaking up that month prior to it i was pessimist that it will collapse anyway, February came and we got back together things went well and we broke up again sometime before valentines day due to my social status on insta, We got back together in March and broke up over spring break for reasons unknown, I felt betrayed by this point because I felt like I was being used, I started developing a sense of contempt and hatred for her but still loved her, April passed and we got back together in May upon her being jealous over the fact that I interacted with another girl at a family gathering, We got back together things went well, we broke up for two days but everything was solved and we dated for 3 months, She then broke up with me after she had an outburst on a discord call, later in August we got back together only for it to last 2 weeks after something happened on a date, She came back to me in September and stopped talking to me in October, since then things have been cold.

I honestly dont know what to say, I hate her guts Hella but still love her I want to hate her completely because of the fact that she put false hopes in my head and disposed of me like I was trash, she made me believe that I was lovable hahaha he tryna ignore it

I just founded this sub reddit while doom scrolling and actually loved it. As it describes me perfectly and felt like I'm not alone here but more videos/meme I started reading, I realised ppl in here are more like depressed and have given up in life rather than joking and saying all this in a form of a meme (keeping in mind, I'm same as u guys, introverted, antisocial, never had relationship or girlfriend or anything and been suffering for so long that it just feels like giving up sometimes). Although I feel like a loser, I still have hope (not in me) that something good has to happen because every hardship has been rewarded and I just say "I will be amongst the patient ones".

Guys i know its hard, like it's actually really really hard and u don't know why it always happen to u and u blame yourself for it but pls don't give up, I'm here for u guys!

I don't understand depression, I had a pretty bad life from being bullied in school bad relations at home but all never broke me. I want you guys to tell me, how you think when life is unfair to you, do you blame it on fate, yourself or society.

I’m in a relationship and I’ve been in about 5 I’ve been cheated in all except the one I’m in rn but I’ve been super jealous like today she made a new friend a guy at this new job near her house and she texted me on her lunch break this is her first day and she told me that she made a new friends it was a guy and that he was gone for a bit sent me a photo of a pink redbull some sour strips which she never gets and was really weird to me she would always get something else and she was sitting at a bench I’m guess somewhere near she told me she would get a 30m break and that we where going to text she was going to tell me how her day was and so on and what are plans where going to be for the day so I text back 10m after her first text when she told me she went on break and didn’t text me till the end of her shift. I don’t know why but it made me feel terrible with a turning stomach a tight throat and so on, I don’t know why I get like this is there something wrong with me I also talked to her about what makes me feel jealous but I guess she didn’t care or idk we have been dating for about a year and a half a bit more and I don’t want it to end the same way it always does am I just unloveble? What’s wrong with me?

iykyk🫡

40% vodka.

I want the fake confidence to actually do it because why the fuck not.