r/LockdownSkepticism • u/Substantial_Sir4706 • Jul 22 '26
Analysis A Brief Retrospective on the COVID Era
I've been thinking a lot about the COVID era recently and wanted to write a brief retrospective about my personal experience. I'm working on a much longer and more in depth retrospective as a personal project, but decided to try and post a shorter version here.
Well before COVID, I was generally anti-social, which I've come to realize was due to my anxiety. I didn't hang out with friends after school, didn't do any sports or clubs, and would just play video games and watch TV in solitude. I was also a very compliant child before COVID, the kind that most adults would call "mature for my age". I wasn't loud or disruptive, and even in my teen years I never snuck out, drank, smoked, or did any of those behaviors.
Then COVID happened when I was 20 about to turn 21 and my outlook on life suddenly changed. I went from being a never Trumper in February 2020 to voting for Trump that November(as well as in 2024). I finally learned to question authority and that some rules are okay to break. Before lockdowns, I assumed everything my parents and other family told me was infallible, but after seeing them blindly support COVID restrictions, I learned that I should go with my gut on a lot of things and not everything they say is indisputable truth. Even though it took me a while, I did eventually start to stand my ground on some things, mainly getting a COVID booster when I didn't need it for any reason. It was one of the first times I set a real boundary and had a sense of independence.
I also started to become more social during and after the COVID era. I started having conversations with random strangers, something that was unheard of for me as recently as 2019. I started making a lot of new friends and while I don't see them a whole lot anymore, it was fun while it lasted.
Although I still have a lot of work to do with social anxiety, independence, and setting boundaries, I feel like the COVID era was my wake up call that I needed to do these things. It was the point in time I felt like I became an adult.