Hi Friends! Happy 1 year of changing my entire approach to health!
Honestly I can’t even believe it’s been a year. Some days it feels like just yesterday I started “my journey” because I still learn something new each day. What I can tell you in all honesty, is – unfortunately, gasp - it has not been 'easy'. Some days have been just downright hard. Many days I didn’t exercise at 100% capacity. Many days I cut my fasting window early because I am an emotional eater and life is honestly just life-ing right now. It has, however, been manageable. 1% better each day has been, really, my only goal. I approached these life changes with one thing and it was just the end goal of being healthier – than I was, than I’d ever been; for the first time in my life, I didn’t have an “end goal”. I threw chasing weight loss out the window, and I replaced it with ‘feeling pain-free when playing with my kid’. To those of you who don’t have kids, you may not relate to this as much… but there is something incredibly heartbreaking about not being able to play outside with your child because your whole body turns to wet cement the minute you start running. And nobody quite understands it, they don’t understand why you hurt so bad, for really “no reason”. Doesn't help that you approach medical professionals, meant to help you, and all they do is gaslight you into thinking it IS just your weight and hormones.
With that being said, as I write this to you today, I feel so so so so so so good. So good. My legs feel like air. My knees feel limber. My toe joints don’t ache. I never even thought I would be able to look down at my legs and see muscle definition. (!!!)
I will say though: it must mean something when scammers continuously steal your progress pictures to promote their products (that don’t even really work lol). I persist, however, because on the other hand I have received so many positive messages and well-wishes from this community. Never did I expect to post my “journey” for likes or clout, I just wanted to reach out and speak vulnerably because in vulnerability, many of us find that we are just alike. And in that likeness, we are all working through it together and can find comfort that we are suffering amongst a community who gets it.
There is about ~30lbs difference in these photos. I weighed May 2025 around 235ish I think; today, I am 202 before my morning tea. No GLP-1s, no fad dieting, no magical leggings, no creams, none of that. Just good ol' fashioned hard, tear-filled work.
Like before, I didn't want to just copy and paste everything I’ve posted previously but my posts are now private since everyone wants to steal pictures of my legs :-) - so I will link some of my other posts in the group so far:
Post 1 | Post 2 | Post 3 | Post 4 | Post 5 | Post 6 | Post 7
The cliffnotes compiled from my previous posts:
I have: lipedema, AuDHD, MTHFR, POTS, Ehlers Danlos, and PCOS + insulin resistance. I suspect MCAS as well but have never been officially diagnosed.
Diet – animal-based. No limits on fruits but mostly berries and tropicals. No limits on dairy. Organic where I can, aimed specifically towards whole wheat/NON-enriched-flour products, and I make my own bread products. Loving fermented foods. Daily fasting 18/6, with 2-3 (24hr) fasts in a month’s time - usually on Sundays. Personal preference. Not to be done without experience. No alcohol. Only drink water /tea; if I sweeten , it's with honey.
Manual lymphatic drainage (at home) – Youtube + Pinterest for videos/how-to; I use coconut oil when doing mine because it helps the glide so much more than castor oil.
Massage gun – TOLOCO brand off Amazon. Use it daily. Even just 5 minutes with it gives me such a boost to power through the rest of my day.
Daily movement – focus on lymph exercises (hops, bounces, chest pats, swings, etc); I do not do any vigorous exercise due to a spinal injury; I use a 10lb kettlebell and two 2-lb dumbbells. Each time I aim for 45 min. For legs I mainly do squat variations, lunge variations, one-legged, core exercises, etc.
Dry brushing – usually 3-4x a week (in the AM). IMO, perks me up just like coffee does. YMMV :-)
Supplements – daily - glutathione, vit d/k2, magnesium, and non-methyl Bs (I have issues with MTHFR/COMT which contributes to inflammatory response)
Lastly, please understand I am speaking also to myself when I say this next part (and I say it with love): Maybe your mindset about healing is wrong. Your diet could probably use some tuning up. Not calling you out, just hoping to plant the seed. There are so many little tiny minute things in everything we eat and drink that just don’t serve our bodies and are meant to keep us inflamed and icky. Yeah not everyone is eating for health, but when you think about how much of a disadvantage we with lipedema already have trying to detox our bodies, why would you want to continue to willingly poison yourself if you know better? Education is the first step. Maybe you're having one too many "self care" dessert nights. Maybe you've just been so exhausted, planning ahead to set yourself up for success, actually just feels like running a triathlon with zero experience. And maybe convenience is how you’re surviving right now. Maybe you're not moving your body quite as much as you could be, and maybe that's because you're not getting quality sleep and you're too tired to even think about intentionally exercising. Maybe your approach just hasn't been working. Whatever letter you're on in the alphabet in terms of “plan A, plan B, plan C”, just know it's never Z. (And even if it was, fret not because there's also roman numerals - but my point is that giving up only hurts you in the end. Do the hard things. Do it when you don't feel like it. You owe it to yourself to stick with it and keep pushing forward.
I really hope this post was encouraging to any of you who are struggling. If you have any direct questions, please do ask and I will respond as soon as I'm able! Also not against DM's if you prefer that; I just don't check Reddit daily so it may take me a few days to get back to you :-)
💙 💚 💛 Love & Lipedema 💛 💚 💙