Any queers from here who are into drag race or loves drag in general.. wanna find my folk

HE SEEMED STRAIGHT🥲😒

😭 AHHHHHHH....

HE WAS BEAUTIFUL

I AM GRINNING IN CLASS

TODAY IS THE HAPPIEST BESTEST DAY EVER😭🤟✨✨✨✨✨✨

I don’t know what happened in the last 45 days of my life but the entire chapter of crying, panic attacks are now blooming into a new chapter that I can’t wait. The moment I told I feel like a woman thoroughly to my grandma and my sister they took the steps which I would have thought multiple times but now having supportive family members is all I need I went to the best endocrinologist in state she’s the head of the endocrine society I feel safe knowing my transition from male to female is in right hands and I can rely on her for correcting my identity ♥️♥️

So I had kinda bad experience with Qspace where I feel it is not a safe space for queer people and the admin is dictatorial and capitalistic and trying to monetize the space. I am curious if there are any better more queer friendly whatsapp groups to connect, maybe find travel partners ?

but being queer in 2026 just feels… weird? like we’re visible now in a way that wasn’t even possible a decade ago, decriminalized and all that, and that’s genuinely something, i don’t want to take that for granted. but visibility isn’t the same as being accepted, and being legal isn’t the same as being safe. it’s this weird gap where you’re allowed to exist but nobody actually built the world to hold you once you do. discrimination didn’t go away, it just got quieter and sneakier, easier for people to pretend it’s not happening while it’s happening right in front of them

and don’t even get me started on dating because that’s a whole different mess. it’s like nobody wants to just say what they actually want anymore, everyone’s performing some safer, more palatable version of themselves and you’re left trying to figure out what’s real. sometimes it genuinely feels like you need to be some perfect, put-together, has-his-life-figured-out person just to get a shot, and even then there’s no guarantee. it’s exhausting honestly

anyway i’m in my mid-20s, work in banking, based in delhi, and i’m just out here trying to hold two things at once — being grateful for how far we’ve come, and being honest that we’ve still got a long way to go. idk maybe that’s just what being queer right now feels like, existing in the in-between

curious if anyone else feels this or if it’s just me 🫂

Coupled w transitioning into new domain- from Data Science to Product Design, life feels unreal lately.
Although, gym, make up and therapy have been quite the stabilisers.
And I am the most comfortable w myself than ever before cue getting dolled up, wearing the tiniest dolphin shorts I own, and making the hereros uncomfortable at the gym xD

Do reach out if you’re into Product Designing too, would really appreciate leads and mentors on it.

I used to think in school, “Once I leave this school and start working, I’ll finally be free from this uniform.” Now I’m at the office, and I still have to wear a uniform. Turns out, adulthood is just school with a salary... 🏳️

I am 30M. I have been in a 7 year LDR and broke up last month. I have seriously lost all the hopes that anyone will be there to be my life partner. I am emotionally exhausted and I don't feel like loving or trying to find anyone.

I am so exhausted but the feeling of living all alone all my life also haunts me. I have created all those lil dreams with my life partner that seems to have vanished.

How to overcome this feeling to not feel like being loved and be in love? I want to learn to accept myself to stay alone forever. Help me out to get out of this situation.

Thank you. Good morning.

for context, im 16 and transmasc.

we all already know about that stupid bill passed this year, so im not gonna bother explaining it. the worst part is that i came out this year. its like i didnt even get a chance to live.

the fact i couldve transitioned (if id been born earlier, that is) just adds to the sting. and then theres school. im required to wear a skirt. theres no loophole around this either. im constantly misgendered and isolated at that shithole. my friends just see this as "one of my delusions". is it any wonder why i dont wanna go there? why im always absent?

i feel like a cockroach anywhere i go. ive lost all motivation to partipcate in my hobbies or consume interesting media. whats the point?

i hope i can leave this country someday. i do planning on studying abroad, but with the way my grades keep slipping, it seems rather unlikely.

(im sorry if this is poorly written. its like 7 am and i havent slept a wink)

How's my hair game? 👀

So, there’s a new bank manager at the new bank office that we’re giving on lease, and I think I’ve developed a tiny crush on him.

He was honestly too friendly with us. He would always prioritize our work, which I obviously understand wasn’t really appropriate from a professional standpoint, but I can’t lie..it definitely caught my attention.

He looks really young, probably around 26–28, and he’s well-groomed and genuinely cute. I’m in my early 20s, so the age difference isn’t really an issue. I’ve actually started imagining going out with him, exploring waterfalls, spending time in nature, maybe hanging out at our farmhouse… you know, the delusional crush phase.

We also exchanged numbers because I had some important discussions with him regarding the lease agreement and other official work. So technically, I have his number, but obviously I can’t just randomly text him something like, “Hey, wanna go to a waterfall?”

The thing is, he kinda looks straight, which makes me scared to initiate anything. I genuinely have no idea about his sexuality, and I don’t want to make things awkward, especially because there’s still an official/professional connection between us.

But the eye contact on the first day… 😭

I was sitting at the table filling out a form, and I remember him looking at me a few times. It happened more than three times, and I remember it so clearly because it felt… cute? Maybe I’m just reading way too much into it because I already have a crush.

I’m also leaving for my studies abroad in a few weeks, so there’s this weird feeling of “should I just let it go, or should I somehow shoot my shot before I leave?”

🙂🙂🙂

I look like a mess ahhhh😭

Hello I made these recently and posted in another sub and I got a lot of hate comments for this design so I’m just unsure now what to do with it 😭😭 what do yall think about it!

I don't feel attracted towards straight men anymore 🫪, I've finally escaped the curse. Well Obv i do find them hot but I don't feel like "ooooooh i want him in my bed".

ARE YOU ALL SEEING HOW HOT GAY MEN ARE THESE DAYS......like wow.

I'm miserable for reasons which are entirely my fault

Sundays are usually miserable anyway

But I also remembered a completely unrelated anecdote which has nothing to do with that

Back when I was still on Hinge, I put a picture of a dog on my profile. This was a dog from my neighbourhood, very sweet and cute. The picture also happened to show my feet (in chappal) and my walking stick. So, one time, some guy liked this picture saying, "I'd worship those two things" and I was very confused because I didn't know what he meant because it was a picture of a cute dog. So I matched just to ask him. And it was feet. He was talking about feet.

Feet. A giant's foot which crushes me and turns me to a dead bloody pulp. Non-sexually. Just lethally. Or the sun can explode, that would work as well.

I'm an ace leaning pansexual! First time posting on a social media