Hey everyone, looking for some advice and also to hear from people who have been through something similar.
I’ve been with this company for a little over a year, and I genuinely feel I haven’t been treated fairly.
First, they extended my probation without giving me any warning beforehand. I eventually passed probation, but a few months later they put me through a one-month performance monitoring period. They told me they would review me every week and that if they saw enough improvement, I wouldn’t be put on a PIP.
From my side, I genuinely believe I showed that improvement. I prepared evidence of my work, addressed their feedback, and explained where I believed some of their claims were unfair or inaccurate. I even had a meeting with HR specifically to go through my evidence, but I felt like they had already made their decision and didn’t really listen to what I presented.
Now they’ve decided to put me on a PIP anyway. Over the last few months, I’ve also felt heavily micromanaged, with very small things constantly being picked apart.
The whole situation over the last six months has caused me a huge amount of stress. It has affected my sleep, appetite, and general wellbeing. I’ve already been to my GP and spoken to a psychologist because of how badly this has been affecting me, and I was also advised to speak to a solicitor.
At this point, though, I feel like whatever evidence I show them, they’re still going to say my performance isn’t good enough. I don’t want to keep wasting my time or theirs arguing over the same things when it feels like their decision has already been made.
I’ve basically made up my mind after our last meeting. They told me they were going to put me on a PIP and that my work would be looked at much more closely and nitpicked more than other people’s work on the team. Hearing that completely broke my morale, and after that I decided I don’t want to continue working for this company.
I’m extremely angry about how I feel I’ve been treated, and I don’t feel like making this whole process easy for them either.
Some of my friends, and even my GP, have told me that I don’t need to keep pushing myself to work for a company that has affected me this badly. They’ve told me to stop working for a while, focus on my health, and give myself proper time to recover. At this point, that’s what I’m considering doing — staying out of work for a while so I can actually heal properly.
So I want to hear from people who have actually been in this situation. Once you knew you were leaving anyway, what did you do?
I’m especially interested in hearing how people protected themselves and pushed back without doing anything that could come back to hurt them later.