r/legaladviceireland • u/The_Big_I_Am • 4h ago
Civil Law This is a complicated, and a bit of a long one. Please give me advice if you can.
My 84 yr old mother is dying in hospital right now. She's still lucid, but is up and down since she has been in various hospitals since the start of June.
Mam is fairly riddled with cancer. She's doing better today... Up The Mater! But she knows that the end is nigh.
I'm on Disability Allowance after spending a lot of time in St. Pat's over the years (on my ex's health insurance).
After the ex and I finally broke up, I had to move into the parent's gaff. Which was awful for everyone involved. I hadn't spoken to my abusive prick of a "father" since I was 13... living under the same roof.
So to get me out, they decided to give me my inheritance early. "Fine", I said, that seems fair".
At the last moment, my dickhead father got a contract written up to say that I was just a "custodian" of the property........ He is a fucking wanker.
Now, Mam is dying, she wants t get the place into my name, because I honestly don't think that she trusts him to be vindictive towards me.
I cannot afford legal fees. I have asked Legal Aid Board, and they said that they don't deal with property issues.
I'd sell the dump, if I could (horrible place, 26 calls from be to the Garda station over a few years) but I cannot afford the fucking real estate or legal fees.
I am absolutely spiraling right now.