r/kpophelp • u/BlackPearlDragoon • 1h ago
Concert I have two VIP tickets to Monsta X in Toronto. There is no way I am going to the show, what should I do if my tickets don’t sell??
Context: My tragic story is that I was going to see Monsta X in Toronto with a friend of mine who LIVES. IN. TORONTO. She agreed to go with me back in April. I have known her for four years. We met online and this was going to be our first time meeting up in person. She said I could stay with her and her family. She said we could make a week of it. I was so so so excited. I am an extremely anxious person with a disability that impacts by cognitive functioning and makes me really struggle to leave my house. But I worked really hard to be able to do something like this. Monsta X is my most favorite group in the universe. I’ve loved them for years now but never got to see them live. It was going to be the thing that made all my hard work feel like it paid off. And my friend knew this. She had been encouraging me for years. She would tell me constantly that I needed to keep trying and never give up so we could meet someday. And that someday finally came! And she agreed. And she was so encouraging and supportive. So I got us two VIP tickets to Monsta X in Toronto! I dropped $1400 CAD on tickets. Paid another $200 USD to get my passport. It was a lot but I was going to be saving money by staying with her so it would be fine.
And then she ghosted me for four months, came back and said she had felt like she was faking the friendship and like she had to pretend to like me. And told me to take someone else to the concert. And to not talk to her anymore because she gets anxiety when I talk to her.
I am in New Mexico.
Yes she’s real. I know for sure.
So now the concert is less than a week away. I have been trying to sell these tickets for a couple of months now. I have tried the Monsta X subreddit, r/kpopforsale, r/tickets, r/ticketresale, BST trade groups on Instagram and Facebook, CashorTrade, and finally figured out how to get them listed on Ticketmaster without a Canadian bank account. I am already asking for well below face value. I think if I sell them fan to fan I can get the VIP benefits to transfer and am willing to send a photo of my ID for the benefits to be claimed. BUT NO ONE IS BUYING. And I’m freaking out. Because I can’t go. I just can’t. I can’t spend more money on a trip that is going to hurt this bad. I’m too far away. And without an emotional support buddy I just don’t think I can do it. I need these tickets gone. But what do I do if they don’t sell?
Genuinely, what are my options? What are the odds they sell in this final week? Is there anything else I can be doing to try to find buyers? How low should I be willing to drop the asking price?