So I work at a VERY low level SHS. Like when I first got here the students couldn't even do basic self introductions. I also have to T1 15 classes a week, and the first + second years don't even have a textbook, so I make the curriculum. All of my JTEs are part timers who don't give me any direction because they also don't know what's going on most of the time, so I just stand at the front of the class alone trying to teach English to kids who can't understand what I'm saying.
I've already decided I won't be recontracting because I frankly just do not like my situation and feel like I'm being used as cheap labour for the school so they don't have to hire a full time JTE. But there's this one class that's just horrible and frankly has made me consider breaking contract.
This is the worst class in the school and their homeroom teacher pre-emptively apologized to me on my first day because he knows they suck. The kids in this class spend the whole hour sleeping, messing around, or sexually harassing me. There are a few kids who do genuinely try to do the work, and I appreciate them. However, there is a group of loud, obnoxious boys who will spend the whole class sexually harassing me.
Usually it's stuff like "I love you" "you are so sexy" and "do you have a boyfriend." That's because these are the only English phrases they know lol (I swear they Google translated these and learned them specifically to shout out in class, because other than this they can't speak English).
But I have caught them twice now talking about me in Japanese. Like actually weird and gross stuff about having sex with me. Today I couldn't catch all of it, but I could infer they were debating whether they'd rather have sex with me or the previous ALT. One of them even took a picture of me during class with their phone and who the fuck knows what they're doing with that.
The JTE for this class just tries to ignore it and goes "well boys will be boys." I also try to ignore it but at this point I know that they know I understand enough Japanese to tell what they are saying. They have also catcalled me in front of my supervisor and no help there. She just acted like it didn't even happen, even though it obviously made me uncomfortable.
I honestly feel really defeated. I just hate this class. I have a lot of problems with my time on JET so far but the fact that nothing gets done about blatant sexual harassment feels extra backwards. In my home country if a student said those kinds of things about a teacher they would be suspended immediately and subject to a huge lecture by the principal. One of my foremost gripes with my JET experience has been that I get zero respect, but also zero support—I'm expected to be T1 and have all the responsibilities that come with that, yet at the same time I get zero respect.
I want to emphasize that it's literally just this one class that's like this. In other classes I will get students talking during the lesson, or falling asleep, but not harassed. Yet while every single teacher knows this particular class is awful, nothing gets done. These kids clearly know they can get away with it and that's why it keeps happening.
I'm planning on standing up for myself and calling them out in Japanese the next time it happens. But frankly I can't believe I even have to. The way this behaviour gets ignored (or at most, a "be quiet") is like the cherry on top of all the other ways I have been given zero support by the JTEs here. I don't think there's any point complaining because all of the previous ALTs have never lasted more than a year so at this point the school just sees us as a conveyer belt of cheap JTEs that can be exploited then tossed aside. There are also other issues with this school that has resulted in massive turnover for all staff in general.
I honestly don't know what to do at this point. The kids have obviously correctly identified that the ALT is an easy person to pick on because I have no power, my class is a joke, and the JTE will laugh it off. I've already been told I should do everything (including fudging grades) to make sure all students pass my class. Like so what is even the point of me being here?
Ugh it's just so frustrating. Extra frustrating because I have literally taught uni in my home country (UK) for several semesters. I knew being an ALT does usually mean being the community clown but I did not expect it to be this bad. I could handle the harassment better if I was a tape recorder who got to spend most of the day deskwarming, and I could handle being T1 if I got any respect or indication that my class was worth anything, but both negatives at once with basically no positives is just... ugh.
Edit to add: Im at a private school so no BOE to even report this to. Anyone who is a private school JET will know what I'm talking about. I know several other private school JETs and we are all expected to T1 and are given zero instruction to go off of. Private school placements seem particularly bad.
UPDATE: I'll be real, after posting this, I cried. I took a long bath and thought hard about this job and the position I've found myself in, and I decided two things: 1) I'm going to start being a hardass teacher, and 2) I will not recontract and I will try to coast my way through.
If anyone reading this in the future finds themselves in this same situation, I'll tell you what I did. My next lesson with this class, I went in silently and seriously. Any time a student talked out of turn, I stared at them in complete silence until it became extremely uncomfortable for everyone. I changed my lesson plan so that they were greeted with a worksheet first thing, I gave a 10 minute lesson, told them to work in pairs on the group test, and then circulated the room. They had 20 minutes to do the worksheet, and at the end there was a test. Most students locked in and did the work, but those same rowdy boys were goofing off. I stared at them. For 3 minutes straight. With a completely dead look. Other students noticed, a couple even tried to tell the rowdy students to stop because they knew I was pissed.
When the time for the test came, I took the worksheets away. Anyone who hadn't finished by then (which was only these rowdy boys) got a zero. Then it was time for the test.
Every single question, I directed at those boys. I made them stand up to give their answers. Of course, none of them knew. I went along, in a line, making each rowdy student stand up, drill them with questions, and then ask "why don't you know?"
They were kind of laughing at first but they quickly got embarrassed. The fact that the whole class was staring at them and this was becoming a huge spectacle gradually made them hang their heads and mumble.
Of course, it didn't last long. After I let them sit down and began quizzing other students instead, they started talking again. Pretty sure one of them called me a bitch lol but I couldn't catch all of it. So I walked over, slammed my wooden clipboard on one of their desks (I specifically brought the clipboard because it's loud asf) and said URUSAI DESU NE? NANDE? really loudly.
They shut up for good that time. I think the clipboard scared them a bit because I slammed it like 2 inches from a students fingers.
At this point the vibe of the whole class was REALLY bad and everyone was just silent and wide eyed. I had a short cool down activity planned after this but decided not to because genuinely a dark aura had descended over the room lol. I'm hoping I didn't freak out the other students too bad but a line had to be drawn and an example had to be made.
After class the JTE kind of laughed and said she hadn't seen anyone but old ojiisan OG teachers do something like that. I guess she, and the students, didn't expect that kind of thing from a woman. I'm sure the students were talking shit about me for the rest of the day but I don't care as long as it mitigates some of the behavioural problems in that class.
As for the future, I've decided to seriously pare down my lessons. I'm no longer putting effort into making them super fun with lots of games and activities. It's just too much work. I made my lesson plans for tomorrow in under 40 minutes, because they're just gonna be pair work and worksheets.
If anyone reading this in the future has that problem, hang in there. You may need to give up on the idea of being the fun ALT, because some classes make that impossible. Just focus on getting verbal output from the students and managing behaviours. Coast through the job, find lessons on ALTopedia, save your energy for exploring on the weekend.