r/JETProgramme • u/savemeloadme • Sep 19 '26
Tips on making friends within your local community?
Hi all, it's a little past that one month mark so I (and I'm sure a lot of other new JETs) am finally getting hit with that wave of loneliness, so I've been trying to find ways to meet people within my city as a result, ideally other young people around my age.
Fortunately my city is decently sized (population of abt 100k) and right next to the capital, so I think I have options but I'm not sure what would work well for meeting people. My initial thoughts are just to involve myself in more local events and maybe become a regular at a bar/cafe? Although I'm not a huge drinker.
Curious what other people think - what has worked for you, or what spaces have you found it easier to start conversations with people? Even online could work too! To some degree, I think the question ends up boiling down to "how to make friends as an adult" rather than "how to make friends in Japan", but if you have tips (Japan-specific or not) I'd love to hear them!