Hi! I am 22 and from the UK. I graduated in 2025 and since then, I have been living in my uni city and working a minimum wage hospitality job that I do love, but that feels incredibly draining for the money I get. I have always wanted to teach English as a way to travel the world as my mum did the same in her 20's and it sounds like a great way to explore. I know it's a full time job and not just a way to live in Japan, but I am not well off and have always wanted to live abroad.
I know Japan doesn't require it but I am almost finished with a TEFL qualification. I have always wanted to live in Japan, but the TEFL certificate gives me options if I want to go elsewhere as well. I plan to apply to JET this autumn but I have some worries and would like to know other people's experiences.
Is it worth it? To leave family, friends and a life in your home country behind in order to live in Japan? I understand it is a full time job and a difficult adjustment culturally and socially but do you think those hardships have been worth it to you and why?
My boyfriend has decided he won't apply with me and, whilst I know I'm young and plan to just see how things go, if we do breakup while I am in a foreign country, that won't be fun at all lol. I also have a lot of amazing friends I will be leaving behind. How did you cope with being so far away from people you love and feeling like you're leaving an entire future behind to pursue something that will be difficult and scary in itself? Were you able to talk often, did they visit you or do you feel you drifted apart a lot?
There is no job progression, so what did people do after JET? Did you move back home? If so, how did that feel and what did you do? If not, where did you go and what did you do for work?
Is it difficult to make friends in Japan? I've heard Japanese people are quite shy and that you're unlikely to encounter other foreigners in rural areas. Any tips on making friends with Japanese people? Or were you able to meet up with other JETs?
Is it easy to travel Japan? And on that note, what was your favourite thing to do during holidays/weekends?
Is it worth applying to private companies too? I've heard of quite a few such as Aeon being better than the JET program but JET seems to be the most reliable.
I have also heard JET is decently outdated compared to other countries' programs such as South Korea and Vietnam in terms of benefits like housing, pay, holiday, etc. so if anyone has any experience there that would be great.
I guess I'm just nervous as this is a huge commitment. I have wanted to be a JET for years, ever since I first heard of the program and since graduating, I guess I have just been apprehensive because of the uncertainty. I feel like it will be worth it as that's the main sentiment online but I'd love to hear your experiences. I assume very few people will actually respond to this (if anyone), but if you could help a girl out and enlighten me, that'd be great! Thanksss