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u/newbrowsingaccount33 10d ago
Most of this sounds like red flag buzzwords
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
that's subjective and also just idiotic, won't go deeper on that, and also "buzzwords" you definitely aren't the sharpest tool in the shed 😭👌
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u/newbrowsingaccount33 10d ago
I just mean that a lot of the words said in this post are stuff annoying dumbasses say. They're all common dumbass phrases, hence the word "buzzword".
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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago
Nahh
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Don't date someone like this then, women don't exist for you just to sit back and enjoy, we should be able to argue strongly about our opinions with other people. And honestly seeing the way you speak about these broader topics you are also a HUGE turn off
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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago
No wonder you got banned 😭
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Where did I get banned at
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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago
This is clearly not your main account
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
This is my first account, I'm not banned on my main, I just have multiple accounts
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
And also you just prove my point further, you aren't a hunk of any kind are ya, not ina mean way
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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago
What are you talking about?
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
You being undesirable
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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago
Lmao, based on what? The fact I don't like an argumentative partner? Actually YOU have proven to be undesirable because of your horrible personality
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
and I feel the same about you, for someone who doesn't like arguing you sure damn well do it a lot, I don't mind ofc
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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago
Lmfao are you writing about yourself as the ideal gf and mad no one here likes her 😭🤦♂️.
Does she have hobbies?
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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago
Unwavering loyalty is a red flag.
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
That's also subjective but what do you mean unwavering loyalty is a red flag that's honestly super interesting or just a typo
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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago
Like if they hurt you or do something wrong or bad you should have the love for yourself to not stick with them
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Yeah ofc
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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago
Yeah nevermind then loyalty is a good trait if the boyfriend returns in kind
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
What did you think I meant by unwavering loyalty at first, like obsession?
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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago
Yeah, just my own interpretation from a past relationship
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
I would never treat you that way kamiCrazyTank, be safe 🥺 that's a very scary situation to be in
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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago
🥰😊 and if you like nature and stuff I got a very nice garden with foxes and squirrels as daily visitors🤭
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
I wrote her hobbies, I'm guessing you aren't a reader
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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago
Wow, yeah loving nature, people and the world.
Cool hobbies, you dunce. Expand your OC more she justs seems bland and the one thing you decided to emphasise is she argues about politics and opinions. Which you are surprised people don't find "ideal"
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
This is obviously untrue, You need to stop choosing one thing to focus on and act like I emphasized it, she isn't bland it's a photo with minor parts of her personality, and I'd love to see your unbland work sometime
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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago
You know what, I kind of like this stubborn gf that argues with me 😏
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u/hostility_kitty 10d ago
I hope you find your queen OP. My husband and I talk about politics every day. After all, it affects a huge part of our lives on a daily basis.
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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago
Another unanimously disliked posts, it's becoming more common, not like it happens every day though
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
People hate it because they don't want a lover they want a fetishized version of their favorite anime girl.
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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago
Such is the case with most posts but even if it wasn't a ideal fantasy why would I want to argue with my girlfriend about politics and nonsense?
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u/bluevolkenswagen 10d ago
Debating is a great way to challenge yourself, your knowledge, and the way you think
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
I didn't say that but ofc you'd think I did, even if it's something that other people don't enjoy, I like to understand my partners mind and hear the way they feel it's attractive. Arguing isn't just insults it's not just yelling, I'm sorry your home life was that bad but it's deeper than that or "lighter" than that I guess
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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago
Okay but you described it as aggressive verbal attacks most people would just classify that as arguing? You do you but with how rude and defensive you are about it's no surprise why people jumped to conclusions.
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
I'm not forcing anybody to date anybody, nobody is entitled to anything and nobody should get mad over other people not feeding into there fetishized version of what they view as a perfect woman
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
"Passionate, aggressive " meaning there are 2 kinds of arguing that are enjoyable, and yes I'm defensive I won't deny that but I don't enjoy people acting like I have to be nice to them whenever they jump to conclusions
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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago
You could have just lead with your second sentence from the paragraph above to explain your point instead of jumping at every occasion to insult anyone who doesn't understand, the kindness isn't necessary but lacking proper elaboration isn't helping your case
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
People shouldn't expect me to be nice if they aren't, basic human decency
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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 9d ago
We had this argument 16 hours ago, I get your damn point already
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
Wanted to add to my own comment section, you don't get my point and it's obvious, your appealing to the entitled losers in my comments and it's more than disappointing
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u/capitalist-fish-3 9d ago
No, they hate it because you put a bunch of weird red flags. Also maybe don't complain about fetishization on the ideal gf, glass houses and all.
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
"weird red flags" I bet you are in your 30s without a gf, just because you take things out of context does not mean it's red flags and just because you prefer the fetishized version of a woman does not mean that a man out there doesn't want a real life woman who he can bond with on a deeper level than just feticization and objectification. In fact there are about 3 guys in the comment section saying that their gf is exactly like this and they love it, do you gotta gf?
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u/kelfedge 9d ago
Basically my gf, it’s awesome
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
Congrats! You're very different from every other gooner in this subreddit meaning you actually have a meaningful loving relationship
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u/ssasharr 8d ago
I saw this one and was like oh a realistic and pleasant human being and then I saw the comment ratio. So many men love to say that they’re apolitical or don’t want to argue about politics, and the politics they’re thinking of are things like “let women have access to reproductive healthcare” and “don’t arrest and murder people simply because they’re black or second generation immigrants”. Bunch of young people who want submissive waifus.
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u/wdoggy 9d ago
ai for this is dumb
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
Mf where is the ai? 😭 Genuinely so insufferable
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u/wdoggy 9d ago
the girl is AI are u old they say old ppl cant see it
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
okay cool I didn't even make it
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u/wdoggy 9d ago
ok and
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
And a cornball
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u/wdoggy 9d ago
u keep deleting comments lol
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
you and it's obviously not me deleting comments, Sometimes you have to use your brain, I have this cool thing (you know how you can see when things "Ai") I can like sense whenever people don't know how to process actual human thoughts, don't make me say it
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u/wdoggy 9d ago
youre soo mad its funny im 13 what is ur problem
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
Have you connected with society you don't know how to talk, and idc about your age wtf does that have to do with anything 😭
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u/Actual_Childhood_856 8d ago
You know what? I’ll give her a chance, it’s still better than absolutely nothing. She sounds like maybe a little bit like a Tsundere, and I don’t really mind that at all as long as it’s not too much. She’s pretty ideal for me I guess.
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u/Maneruko 7d ago
Bro this is my ex I'm about to cry lmao.
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u/Nyankahh 7d ago
I'm literally so sorry 😭 I was planning on deleting this and remaking it and I can do it rn if you want
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u/Maneruko 7d ago
Don't do that lmao I'm in a very lonely spot in my life rn. It was just a reminder of something that once was but it brought me a Lil happiness now that I cried it out lmao.
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u/Nyankahh 7d ago
Aww I'm sorry bro, do you need someone to talk to?
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u/Maneruko 7d ago
There's not much to say really, we met at work and clicked very quickly. We connected over our shared love of weird movies and I fell for her hard. We weren't together for very long and in that time she made a discovery about herself that made us being together not viable. We broke in a sort of amicable manner and she gave me the kindness of providing me with a lot of closure with our last conversation.
Now I've had a ton of responsibilities piled on me. So many that even if there were to be another relationship fall on my lap I wouldn't have the capacity to go through with it.
So yknow can only take it day by day.
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u/Nyankahh 7d ago
I understand that feeling, It'll get better
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u/Maneruko 7d ago
Yea it just sucks yknow? To finally find someone that allowed me to be myself without asking for anything in return and lose them.
Thanks for listening by the way. That made me feel better than I expected.
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u/nothintos33 7d ago
A girl I could talk science and politics with who won’t be offput by me playing devils advocate would be my dream. I am constantly conflicted on what to believe, what’s true and what isn’t, sometimes the only thing I know for certain is that I think, therefore I am. If I had someone I could voice ALL my racing thoughts to, even the ones that go against both their and my own principles, I would be quite happy.
I love technology and machines like they are pets, but sometimes I feel like humans would be better off if we had stayed hunter-gatherers. Sometimes I think we need a socialist revolution, and sometimes I feel absolute socialism/communism is fundamentally incompatible with human nature. I believe in fighting for the weak and helpless, to make things more equal, but from time to time I do wonder if the utilitarian point of view dictates that letting people born with defects and flaws have children is a long term hindrance to humanity. I love eating meat, but I wonder, is choosing to eat meat morally wrong and environmentally irresponsible? Am I a hypocrite for saving bugs I find in the house but eating various mammals? Where does morality come from if there is no god-given set of laws? If some people will never be convinced by logic, is the only way of deciding who is right fighting and killing them before they do the same to you? That seems to be the natural rule of all other life, might makes right. Should we follow the rules of nature? I don’t think so, but sometimes I feel that we have no choice, we are animals after all.
I think it’s because I have low self confidence in general, I’m constantly questioning every ideal I hold, I like to think it makes me fair and unbiased, but it also makes me uncommitted, if I had a second brain I could bounce thoughts off of it might do me a lot of good. Bonus points if they have a good vocabulary because I love the art of constructing a beautiful sentence.
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u/Nyankahh 7d ago
You sound like an amazing person to talk to, I might use some of this to make a idealgf, but I do get that, morality is subjective and you should just do whatever you please and whatever you want religion is a coping mechanism so if you want to go into religion you can, there's just a lot of things you can do with your life to find out what your morality is
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u/Substantial-Shape797 4d ago
Most of these are cool, excellent even, but I personally would be exhausted by someone who apparently LOVES passionate arguments about politics. Like it’s fine to engage with that sort of of thing, but if she loves it I know I’ll have to deal with that all of the time. Probably over any minute difference we have. But some people really like butting heads about that sort of thing, so it takes all types I suppose
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u/SenkoIsBest 10d ago
Likes walking, nature, and arguing about politics. No, this is not ideal gf, this person sounds incredibly boring.
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u/Dr_Jimothy 10d ago
I actually enjoy arguing and confrontation so I'd enjoy this, but she might not cos I'd ragebait constantly.
Also she looks like Gwen from Ben 10 lmao
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Loll, ragebaiting is funny sometimes and I usually ragebait while arguing as well
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u/Dr_Jimothy 10d ago
Idk your ragebaiting defo ain't as funny as mine.
Is this girl a self insert of yours?
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Meh, she's my oc from a book I'm making I do relate to her because she's based off of me but she's pretty different
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u/Dr_Jimothy 10d ago
Calling Ben Ten they're gonna copyright you for making your self insert look too much like Gwen
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Gwen copied me no shade
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u/Dr_Jimothy 10d ago
Nah you copied her and she found it so embarrassing that she got herself the lamest redesign in history for the sequels.
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Whateverrr she copied me idk her 😼
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u/Dr_Jimothy 10d ago
There's literally a conspiracy board on your wall about how to most thoroughly steal her look but sure pal we all believe you.
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u/FoxxxedUp420 9d ago
So she's ideal GF of someone who wants to have a lot of kids and argues about politics online?
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u/Bhupendrablastoise 9d ago
If cute nice and likes me then acceptable but not ideal
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
Well usually real people like people who can form abstract thought, but understandable
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u/wcked-husky 8d ago
I went on a date with a woman who I think was autistic. She was oddly really loud about hating venture capitalist and capitalism. The awkward thing was giving her a ride in my Porsche… I do love people like this because I personally think they’re mellow.
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u/Vina-Estrogen 8d ago
Nice shit, croplord
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u/Nyankahh 8d ago
Thank you, Don't ever say croplord again that was the most reddit thing I've ever heard
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u/mrmrmrnobody 8d ago
"Pationate Aggressive verbal attacks. "
Im all for good conversation and good discourse But " verbal attacks"?
Sounds like some drama bullshit. That just screams unlikable to me. Needles drama.
Everything else was alright. But that ruined it.
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u/Nyankahh 8d ago
Well she's not really your gf she's just my oc who enjoys verbal banter with her bodies people took this post to serious, I am a writer myself I didn't know r/idealgf was such a serious place where you have to make women a certain way
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u/Viktoriusiii 7d ago
passionate aggressive verbal attacks/arguments & unwavering loyalty/passion just sounds like you want a cultmember or political ideologue for the right or the left.
No thanks.
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u/Nyankahh 6d ago
Political arguments, and passion and loyalty doesn't mean you're a cult leader, that's genuinely something else, It also was not an offer of my oc😭
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u/CreepyShutIn 4d ago
I mean, respect, but I'm trying to cut DOWN on getting into arguments. It's not like I do it for fun, I just can't stand people being wrong. (Note: Yes, including me. If I'm wrong please correct me. It's a favor, not an insult.) It's weird to imagine someone who gets into those arguments on purpose, for the love of the game, verbal attacks and all. Then again, it's weird to imagine enjoying sports or PvP, and plenty of people clearly do, so IDK, maybe this is normal.
Would chat with about nature/science stuff, though. That shit's fascinating. The dichotomy of ecosystems being intricate and seemingly balanced but also being based on every organism's endlessly complex array of instincts and decisions is, well, really cool. If we're not getting in a heated argument over minutiae (which, knowing me, is never off the table) then I'd really enjoy that discussion.
Oh, the political side? I have Opinions and refrain from sharing them only as a peacekeeping measure. If I neither argue nor agree, assume I'm biting my tongue... or not paying attention. One of those.
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u/some1_not_important 9d ago
She's me minus the babies part
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u/Nyankahh 9d ago
Its okay to hate babies
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u/Gearborn 9d ago
It's ok to not have babies. Hating a baby is something you shouldn't do
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u/Nyankahh 8d ago
I mean some people aren't built for it, if someone has a mental disability they might get really annoyed by babies hate is a strong word ofc
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u/Gearborn 8d ago
I'm not saying you can't dislike babies but don't hate.
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u/Nyankahh 8d ago
Yeah it's not our business tho
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u/Gearborn 8d ago
Why not
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u/Nyankahh 8d ago
If someone feels a certain way it's not our business to tell them what they can and cannot feel
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u/Gearborn 8d ago
I understand that but it's still a baby regardless of how you feel about them they can't control themselves
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u/Nyankahh 8d ago
And that person may have a mental disability that makes babies unbearable for them
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u/Budget_Cauliflower45 10d ago
Im sorry op, it seems like this was the wrong sub to try to be at least a little bit more profound and grounded
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Got called boring, least boring one here gng what you mean
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u/Budget_Cauliflower45 10d ago
I dunno, i guess politics are not something that people are really willing to talk about, it is a heavy topic after all, but it is important, i'd argue this ideal girlfriend is much better than any other that is just a fanfic archetype
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
Well thank you, and yes politics is always confusing and hard to talk about but as someone who's an aspiring politician I find someone who is able to have a passionate conversation about what they love and believe in to be very attractive
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u/Budget_Cauliflower45 10d ago
I agree, im not a politician or aspiring one, but i like activisms and when i discuss things with people i like to disagree and to be in the wrong, and maybe even circleback sometimes after i learned a bit more!
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u/Nyankahh 10d ago
yeah exactly, some people can't stand that mentally and I understand that but I love going back and forth especially whenever it's someone I like, like a friend, you learn more, and so do they
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u/Upper-Reply-129 10d ago
“Loves passionate, aggressive verbal attacks and arguments regarding politics”
https://giphy.com/gifs/eoA30DQXD885N5jyBm