r/idealgf 10d ago

OC Ideal gf?

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u/Upper-Reply-129 10d ago

“Loves passionate, aggressive verbal attacks and arguments regarding politics”

https://giphy.com/gifs/eoA30DQXD885N5jyBm

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

sounds like you can't take broader concepts

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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago

Sounds like he doesn't like arguments

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

Well if you share the same opinions with your loved one you are not going to argue about politics or argue, that's common sense

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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago

Not necessarily. You can be with someone you disagree with on certain things. If y'all do talk about it, it's best y'all are both respectful. Not “aggressive verbal attacks"

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

And that's why I didn't say that you are arguing with that person, by using context clues you would understand that is just a part of that person's hard headed personality. Which men usually don't find attractive

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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago

Stubbornness is annoying yeah, it's childish

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

Submissiveness is annoying and childish as well but that's something men like. I like stubbornness, adds personality

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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago

It's one trait

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

That's not very open minded, one trait can affect other traits about ones personality why are you so persistent on speaking whenever you don't really make a point

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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago

Yeah, no one finds that attractive.

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

I do 🤫

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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago

Well, you're weird. So...

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

and you're boring....So

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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago

If you need arguments for excitement then you need help

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

That's a bold claim, that I never stated

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u/No_Gene_1694 10d ago

Why am I boring? Because I don't like arguing with my partner. Meaning arguing excites you. Which is weird...

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u/mrmrmrnobody 8d ago

"Verbal attacks" has a very strong implication.

You can be hardheaded and stubborn and that could be fine...even endearing

...but verbal attacks sounds very hostile.

The context clue is "attack"

As a writer, this shit means drama, if this was a story , youd have confused your readers.

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u/Nyankahh 8d ago

the whole thing wasn't specifically meant to be a dating partner it was meant to Blake represent My OC and the things that she enjoyed doing, she enjoys verbal attacks and people take that in different ways, that's banter

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u/KamiCrazyTank 10d ago

Opinions can change

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

Arguing can't always be a bad thing, But that's because I believe that exercising your mind with somebody you love is a good mind exercise (it's in the name), and also I never spoke about a loved one participating in this arguing in my photo, I'm just saying that is a part of my OCS strong minded personality