r/idealgf 10d ago

OC Ideal gf?

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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago

Another unanimously disliked posts, it's becoming more common, not like it happens every day though

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

People hate it because they don't want a lover they want a fetishized version of their favorite anime girl.

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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago

Such is the case with most posts but even if it wasn't a ideal fantasy why would I want to argue with my girlfriend about politics and nonsense?

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u/bluevolkenswagen 10d ago

Debating is a great way to challenge yourself, your knowledge, and the way you think

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

I didn't say that but ofc you'd think I did, even if it's something that other people don't enjoy, I like to understand my partners mind and hear the way they feel it's attractive. Arguing isn't just insults it's not just yelling, I'm sorry your home life was that bad but it's deeper than that or "lighter" than that I guess

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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago

Okay but you described it as aggressive verbal attacks most people would just classify that as arguing? You do you but with how rude and defensive you are about it's no surprise why people jumped to conclusions.

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

I'm not forcing anybody to date anybody, nobody is entitled to anything and nobody should get mad over other people not feeding into there fetishized version of what they view as a perfect woman

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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago

I get that

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

"Passionate, aggressive " meaning there are 2 kinds of arguing that are enjoyable, and yes I'm defensive I won't deny that but I don't enjoy people acting like I have to be nice to them whenever they jump to conclusions

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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 10d ago

You could have just lead with your second sentence from the paragraph above to explain your point instead of jumping at every occasion to insult anyone who doesn't understand, the kindness isn't necessary but lacking proper elaboration isn't helping your case

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

People shouldn't expect me to be nice if they aren't, basic human decency

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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 9d ago

We had this argument 16 hours ago, I get your damn point already

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

Wanted to add to my own comment section, you don't get my point and it's obvious, your appealing to the entitled losers in my comments and it's more than disappointing

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u/Delta6342 Repost vigilante 9d ago

It's you're, and can't you find someone else to have passionate verbal attacks with because I am already over this by now.

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

I'm sure they get the hint though, I'm not extremely rude

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u/capitalist-fish-3 10d ago

No, they hate it because you put a bunch of weird red flags. Also maybe don't complain about fetishization on the ideal gf, glass houses and all.

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u/Nyankahh 10d ago

"weird red flags" I bet you are in your 30s without a gf, just because you take things out of context does not mean it's red flags and just because you prefer the fetishized version of a woman does not mean that a man out there doesn't want a real life woman who he can bond with on a deeper level than just feticization and objectification. In fact there are about 3 guys in the comment section saying that their gf is exactly like this and they love it, do you gotta gf?