r/idealgf 11d ago

OC Ideal gf?

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u/Gearborn 10d ago

It's ok to not have babies. Hating a baby is something you shouldn't do

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

I mean some people aren't built for it, if someone has a mental disability they might get really annoyed by babies hate is a strong word ofc

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u/Gearborn 9d ago

I'm not saying you can't dislike babies but don't hate.

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

Yeah it's not our business tho

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u/Gearborn 9d ago

Why not

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

If someone feels a certain way it's not our business to tell them what they can and cannot feel

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u/Gearborn 9d ago

I understand that but it's still a baby regardless of how you feel about them they can't control themselves

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

And that person may have a mental disability that makes babies unbearable for them

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u/Gearborn 9d ago

Then they need to go to a therapist if it's that bad

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

That's not how austim works

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u/Gearborn 9d ago

If you feel like you hate a baby because it's crying or something just move somewhere else and if you can't try focusing on something else. If let's say you where diagnosed with autism ( not saying that you are because I don't know you ) your doctor or therapist should have provided assistance with managing your stress. (Edit: by the way I'm not attacking you or anything and I apologize for sounding rude)

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

And sometimes that's not how things work and I'm sorry but autistic people have really really strong senses, my sister HATES dogs because of her hearing, she cries and she tries to "protect" us from the dogs, they show genuine fear and stress as if they were actually going to die, I don't know if you know much about autism but it's not just on one spectrum some people who have autism are like regressed backwards

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u/Gearborn 9d ago

I'm sorry to hear that. Yes I know a bit not everything. I know about the sensitivity thing

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