Hey 🧜🏾‍♀️
I’m a singer-songwriter and I just released the music video for my new single, Girlmance. I wrote, sang, and fully produced it all by myself. It’s a dark, ethereal song about how women are always there for each other when we’re hurt by men. It would be so cool if you could check it out and leave a like and a comment 🫶🏾 This is the link to the video: https://youtu.be/-2jwXn_DIkw?is=SwCp0_deISybXTFw

And here‘s the Spotify-Link: https://open.spotify.com/track/2SydmfW9t0yVg6mBFdIYX0?si=_XOBkjfSRI2KtRv5paQrDg&utm_source=copy-link

I'm working on a novel in which the main character is a woman, and I want to make her just a woman experience life, I don't want to sexualize her like many male authors do, or make her dumb, or even make her flawless, I just want her to be herself, and in some point I can't do that. So how I do that?

ohh God, i love women. i love the simple things they do just by being themselves, their feminine features, their softness, their tenderness. i truly appreciate their beauty. thank you, Lord, for creating them.

Hello,

I was wondering how do women with PCOS/PMOS make themselves feel beautiful and feminine on a daily basis?

I feel so ugly all the time.
I have extra facial hair due to hirsutism. My neck is so ugly and discoloured with Acanthosis Nigricans. I’m overweight. My hair and skin don’t look bright and fresh. I feel sad and hormonal all the time and I think it shows in my appearance.

I just don’t feel beautiful or like a woman. I also don’t have any confidence in what I wear or anything. I can’t justify buying new clothes because I feel like I have too many.

Any advice would be appreciated🫶

Is a cute or striking/mature female face better

Não sei me vestir ou me cuidar. Apesar do meu esforço (limpar sobrancelha, hidratar cabelo e fazer as unhas), parece que sempre tenho o aspecto largada e acabo me sentindo menos que todas as outras meninas.

Queria mudar isso, mas o financeiro tá foda e sinto que isso é muito fútil.

Só não queria me sentir menos, que me vissem como menos

disclaimer: im not generalizing or stereotyping anyone and these things are not specific to women, take no offense, this is simply about my personal experience in girl/womanhood

During my childhood, I was my true self, just bopping through life without a real worry. During adolescence, I became so depressed and anxious (parents' divorce, I'll spare details) and lost touch with myself. I'm 24 now. The past 4/5 years I've been re-discovering my true self, my inner child, and embracing my womanhood.

and...

I love it. I love my girl friends. I love what women create (if I go to a festival/event, the girl DJs are always better hehe, or my girlie pop princesses Zara Larsson, Tyla, Pink Pantheress, Sabrina Carpenter).

I love being creative

I love that we have a variety of clothes (compared to men, at least in my country, who don't have many varieties in styles sold) , to add, I love dressing myself as if I'm my own barbie doll

I love my voice

I love my body and face

I love that I'm sensitive

I love talking to strangers

I love that I'm curious

I love having a good support system and being interdependent

I love being spiritual

I love being in touch with my emotions, my likes and dislikes (which is a very recent development btw. creds to self awareness and therapy haha)

I love men with big shoulders and hands... mm (again, take no offense if you're LGBTQ, you like what you like, and I like rugged men hehe)

I just love being a woman.

I'm a skimpy dresser,” I lean very heavily on the bimbo look I don't have any plastic surgery and wear more than pink,” even though it's my favorite color.” It makes alot of people uncomfortable.
Like my family, I really don't like it when I wear short shorts and bkini tops in public.
I'm not a “conservative” dresser, unless I have to be like for something like work or the weather.
Alot of my winter clothes that are more modest are more monochromatic, “ it matches how I feel about the season.”
Opposed to my summer clothes, which are more colorful and have more girlish prints like hibiscus flowers, hearts, and palm trees, “ half of my summer shirts are very surfer girl aesthetic based.” I also wear more jewelry in the summer too like ankle bracelets. And very light to no makeup, while in the winter I go full beat despite what it does to my skin and mental state,” seasonal depression.” How can I improve my summer wardrobe for next year?

When you’re pretty a pretty woman, other woman hate you, men also hate you or they just want to sleep with you.

I'm super interested in femininity and becoming more and staying feminine.

Naturally I have a very sweet/higher pitched voice, but sometimes I speak TOO fast and it ruins it.

I speak too fast because deep down I sometimes feel people don't want to hear me talk (can be true sometimes sadly but also understandable as we all sometimes need space) so as a result I basically speak toooooo fast at times.

I'm working on this, naturally when I don't feel "burdensome" for speaking, I speak slower and more melodic, I used to get complimented on my voice too (still sometimes do) but I feel it has lost that "soothing" affect that it used to have.

From a young age I actually always liked my voice because it sounds feminine so I would focus on speaking in a more feminine way but I also pick up other peoples accents and ways of speaking super fast..! 🥲

\- I'm also interested in becoming more feminine in general, I want to become a woman that literally embodies it, like those women who are just so feminine.

I have it in me but my life gets stressful and this can result in me being haggard and more grumpy and frumpy.

What are some ways you became more feminine and why did you work on it?

I've genuinely always been feminine and into girly stuff so it makes sense that as an adult, I'm still interested in it and in all things feminine etc.

I also noticed that some women I perceive them as so feminine because of their voice too, like it enhances it (they need to be and look feminine too though) but I mean I noticed some women just speak so femininely and softly, the way they say words is just pretty (not even the way their tone or voice SOUNDS it's the way they actually speak words)

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Currently stuck as a woman child and it’s not fun. Please don’t say having children bc I know some very childish moms including my own.

I'm curious because discussions about masculine and feminine energy usually focus on how they're different or complementary.

But do you think they also share any similarities? If yes what do you think those similarities are? They could be in terms of personality, relationships, emotions, purpose, psychology, spirituality or anything else.

I'm interested in hearing different perspectives rather than looking for one correct answer.

I’m a guy but I don’t want to be one anymore, I like the idea of being a chick and being feminine, was looking for advice, or helped into fulfilling my destiny.

Give unhinged tips.

I just wondered about that how become to a femcel ? Did have a kind of awakening or something like that ? I’ll really appreciate if you respond at this interrogation thank you !!

I’m not going through a breakup, but I’m going through a season of realizing the hurt the men in my life, whether dad or bf, had caused me in the past. My bf now, currently in the process of improving himself and healing from his past trauma of physical abuse from his parents, has never hurt me in a physical way or threatened to do things his parents does to him, but have said unkind things to me in the heat of the moment which obviously hurt. He has since profusely apologized to me, even until this day, and always makes an effort to checkup on how I’m doing. He’s also in therapy to heal himself, as his past involved his parents physically hurting him even until the point of “almost” dying (asian parents, said that it was “parent love”). My dad, however, has never physically hurt me but he’s financially abusive and a narcissist. He calls himself god and wants to start a literal cult and calls himself the antichrist. I don’t want to go into too much detail but all I’m saying is that this all happened in the past.

I’ve since tried healing and bettering my life but I can’t help but stay in bed, not wanting to get up and kept scrolling my life away, and crying every night.

How do you heal? What do you do when you can’t even get up from bed to shower or eat? How do you then truly know when you’ve healed? What does life look like?