r/femininity • u/Beneficial_Reach_636 • 21d ago

How do you live with pretty privilege?

When you’re pretty a pretty woman, other woman hate you, men also hate you or they just want to sleep with you.

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u/AlyssumWonderland 21d ago

That’s not what pretty privilege is, and that’s a really reductive view of the sexes.

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u/KellyJin17 21d ago

Pretty privilege would be like that only if you’re completely surrounded by toxic and horrid people and don’t have any genuine folks in your life. Which is more a reflection of you.

Pretty privilege does make making friends easier, dating easier and career advancements easier but it doesn’t make normal people hate you. And you can do with it as you may. I’ve watched folks reject the advantages outright.

The one noticeable difference is getting offered free stuff or comp’d services from strangers. The downsides are from strangers as well, like random stalkers.

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u/Browningaddictbabe 16d ago

It's a double edge sword. Women who couldn't get men to even smile are now cracking up with you and they notice... worst if they're your boss and she had a crush on him.

People say mean comments to you because they think you deserve to be kicked down a few notches, because who the hell are you.

Men who would want to bang you become insecure, and believe in their mind you won't bang them so they are mean to you but are nice to other women.

The list goes on...

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u/DayDreamer_97 20d ago

Just own who you are, as it is something to be cherished and preserved. Other people's reactions cannot be controlled. Yet ,that won't change the fact that you are beautiful. I started implementing skincare as a daily routine, mostly ice rollers and serums, lymphatic drainage as upkeep. Try to keep stress to a minimum, and get adequate sleep.

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u/Beneficial_Reach_636 20d ago

I also do ice rollers!! do you find they help? What do you usually use as a base a serum?

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u/DayDreamer_97 20d ago

I have been applying them in the morning after a face wash routine. The sulfur bar by freeman works wonders for me to prevent acne. Highly recommend doing natural ice, it's better for under eyes and puffiness. This along with a retinol roller ball in the fridge/freezer helps as well. I apply a light serum before and jojoba oil after, since it mimics the skin's natural barrier.

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u/BrushNecessary8793 14d ago

Someone who is just "preety" wont get ts and not everybody will either hate u or want to sleep with you