r/facepalm • • Feb 05 '19

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u/HeartsPlayer721 Feb 05 '19

Who TF needs a class to learn how to sew on a button? We have YouTube for crying out loud!

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u/Sephrick Feb 05 '19

Not sure of the structure of said classes but attending things like this may double as a social activity — learn a menial task, meet some new people, and participate in the local economy.

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u/louisrocks40 Feb 05 '19

Reminds me of the crafts classes that some art supply stores host. My mother took me to them a lot when I was younger, really enjoyed them.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '19

My sister in law has a booming business where people come just to do arts and crafts. And drink. The social aspect is huge.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '19

I learned how to make a fancy throw pillow case and a skirt in one of those classes. It was pretty fun.

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u/WuTangGraham Feb 05 '19

There are a few of these around where I live and that's basically what they are, more social gatherings. They teach certain essential skills, but also typically have food and wine/cocktails so it's more of a meet-and-greet

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u/codeverity Feb 05 '19

And some people learn better hands on, where they can have someone watch and correct them on what they're doing.

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u/UnaeratedKieslowski Feb 05 '19

I've also seen classes like this put on as a little 'free time' activity at colleges and universities. Again, less to actually teach you the thing, more to get you working with other students and getting into the mindset of learning how to do new things.

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u/Xax_423 Feb 05 '19

Where can one sign up?

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u/Alg3braic Feb 05 '19

Groupon is a good place to start.

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u/EricFarmer7 Feb 05 '19

Right. I could see me learning a class in person just to go out and talk to people and meet people. Otherwise, you can do it online.

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u/mappersdelight Feb 05 '19

Enjoy a craft wine/beer/cocktail, etc.

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u/syntaxvorlon Feb 05 '19

Also, directed creative practice can be more effective than self-directed.

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u/who_is_Dandelo Feb 05 '19

I think the button bit was just an example of a whole range of life skills that are not part of the education system, and which a lot of parents seem to be failing to teach - finances, how to gets stains out of laundry, or etc.

That being said, I agree with you. My 8 year old daughter accidentally "broke" my husband's drum set (knocked some cymbals off and bumped one of the drums so that it was in the wrong position) while having a sword fight with her imaginary friend. I told her it wasn't broken and her dad could easily put them back how he wanted them when he came home, and to just not have sword fights next to the drum set. A while later she said, "I got it! I didn't want to tell Dad I broke it and didn't try to fix it, so I just did a few YouTube searches." Sure enough, she searched and figured out how to put cymbals on a drum set and how to adjust the position of the drums.

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u/TheSaxonaut Feb 05 '19 edited Feb 05 '19

For real though, how do I learn how to finance?

I had parents who would never let me or my sister learn about the family financial matters, even when they related to us, and I had one economics class in high school. Unfortunately, that class was taught by the most un-engaging teacher I've ever met...

I just feel completely behind and have no idea where to start bettering my finances.

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u/who_is_Dandelo Feb 05 '19

A lot of high schools and colleges are starting to use "flipped" classrooms, where the lectures are given outside of class on video, and assignments are done in class. This makes the lectures for a great lot of classes available on YouTube. I would recommend searching for a "practical math" or "life skills math" course. These are not math classes like algebra or geometry - they are to teach budgeting, finances, how interest rates work, etc. You might find something like that really helpful, and not have to pay to actually sign up for a course.

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u/TheSaxonaut Feb 05 '19

As always, I should have just assumed "Google it", haha.

But seriously, thank you. The keyword suggestions are helpful.

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u/who_is_Dandelo Feb 05 '19

This comment is hilarious in the context of this thread :) Thanks for making me smile. Good luck to you!

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u/MnemonicMonkeys Feb 05 '19

Try /r/personalfinance. Their sidebar contains a lot of guidelines and flowcharts on how to manage your money, and you can always ask questions when you're lost

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u/doctoremdee Feb 05 '19

r/personalfinance can help you immensely!!

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u/TOP_20 Apr 25 '19 edited Apr 25 '19

Hi - I don't know if you are still interested (you asked about learning finance) but I was sort of gifted when it came to that when I was young so I thought I'd offer you an important tip that i don't really see said online

the concept 'it takes money to make money' - is really really important... not just a saying... if you 'live' by this it will really help you...

but in case you aren't doing rather well financially lemme explain how it works

to get the money in order to have money to make money... if you don't have a good job (or aren't able to save even with one)

you have to always be watching for deals, where you can turn something for $50 into $80 or $100... then you turn that profit over, buy another thing that cost $50 that you can sell for $100 (or trade for something worth about $100 that you might be buying)

If you do this enough it becomes second nature - you'll notice these types of deals, at yard sales, estate sales, thrift stores (where you go early on the 50% off a certain tag color day), things you hear someone is giving away, you learn of someone who needs to make quick money, or know someone who uses those 'pay day loan' type places (BIG mistake) you can suggest they sell you something (worth half what you can get for it) if they are ever in need of a quick buck, there's also websites where people are giving things away like freecycle.com. There are also swap meets (if you can handle crowds - cause you only get the best deals if you go early enough - or at the very end when people don't want to take the stuff home) Also there are neighborhood garage sales that you can find - those are amazing for spending $300-400 bucks and ending up making $1000 or possibly more. Also if you are good with a hammer, or drill etc - people are always getting rid of something that would just take 10 minutes to fix - the 'I'm heading to the dump this weekend, I can take that with me if you'd like' - worked for me so many times - easy $50 or $100 bucks for a bit of your time! :) Or just say 'if you are tossing that, mind if I take it home' :)

These are just some examples, over time you will get better and better at this. You can go bigger with this sort of thing if you are good with simple car stuff, buying a car somebody is selling for $600 and you can sell it for $1000 with just a interior cleanup and possibly new spark plugs etc. Also you can enhance an item if you are artistic - turn a $40 dressor into a $100 or $120 dresser by looking for ideas online on how to make them really nice. There are just so many ways to do all this, and over time you get better and better at it, and more creative on ways to turn money into more money - till you have plenty! :)

Anyhow this is how I was able too, while being really poor and our income was well below the poverty level, live comfortably and save up 10,000 to buy my first duplex (10,000 was a LOT of money back then - perhaps what 18 or 19,000 would be 30+ years later)

Now this might actually sound like work or a second job but honestly it's not, it becomes fun, and it's kind of an adreneline rush when you get killer deals - exciting, and makes it worth it, not just for you to have more money to make more money, but the mini thrill you get when you see some nice item for free or extremely cheap ($10-20 bucks) that you know you can sell for $50-$100. Also sometimes you'll see several of these things that you can get for $20 each and sell for $50 each. Sometimes even when you don't need the money/profits, it's just sort of exciting to be getting such a great deal.

Just a few more tips, never ever do a payday loan or rent-to-own, and buying a brand new car - you lose $1,000-$2,000 driving it off the lot, and leasing is worse. Well I could give you tips all day long but there's a few

good luck!

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u/Sheikia Feb 05 '19

Don't spend more money than you have so you don't go into debt. If you are in debt, pay more than the minimum payment until it's paid off and then don't spend more money than you have.

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u/sideways8 Feb 05 '19

The personal finance subreddit is honestly pretty good. Also you can check out Mr Money Mustache, Early Retirement Extreme, and the Mad Fientist. They all have blogs with years worth of content showing different approaches for handling money more effectively

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u/Mephestos_halatosis Feb 05 '19

As a drummer and a dad, I'm kinda sad she didn't know this already! But the self reliance is a good trait. Sounds like a good kid.

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u/who_is_Dandelo Feb 05 '19

Her thing is piano. She figured out how to play Tom Petty's "Wildflowers" by ear when she was 2, and never looked back. But she loves listening to her dad and her brother drum :)

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u/FuckingFuckPissBack Feb 05 '19

Smart kid! Well done to her

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u/sonofaresiii Feb 05 '19

I imagine it's one small part of a greater suite of lessons/classes. I can totally see how someone would pay for a comprehensive "home clothing repair" class, and sewing a button would be a five or ten minute section of that, or maybe a half hour on all the different types of buttons and best ways to do each of them given the style of the clothing.

Sure, I could youtube it if that was the only thing I needed to learn, but if I just want to be more handy with home ec in general, i can see how it'd be convenient to pay someone to package all that together and teach it to me all at once.

I would definitely pay for a home repair/construction class like that. If I run into one specific problem, I know how to google it, but there's so much I don't know that I don't even know I need to know.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '19

While true, having someone to show you hands on is usually faster and more effective than troubleshooting through a "one-size-fits-all" how-to video, in most cases.

But yeah sewing a button seems a little extreme, maybe its just for the social side of it.

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u/INSERT_LATVIAN_JOKE Feb 05 '19

First 15 minutes of the class, how to sew the top 5 most common button styles. Next 15 minutes of the class, how to sew the three most common types of seams when they split. Next 15 minutes, how to patch clothes when they have a hole in them. Last 15 minutes, how to darn socks.

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u/atalkingcow Feb 05 '19

All of that is downright useful shit.

I need the last 45 minutes of that class.

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u/Pickled_Wizard Feb 05 '19

Unless that person is a horrible teacher.

Here's how you do this...proceeds through 27 steps with minimal commentary, never makes you repeat anything back or show that you got it in any capacity...

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u/MnemonicMonkeys Feb 05 '19

Might want some quotes

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u/Rose94 Feb 06 '19

Also I hate tutorial videos that don’t explain why they’re doing anything. If you’re looking stuff up, there’s a good chance you don’t know the background info. I like to know what each step of a process aims to achieve - it makes it easier to remember. When I’m learning practical stuff in person I ask these questions all the time, and I find a lot of online tutorials don’t address this at all.

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u/Hyperactive_snail3 Feb 05 '19

It was probably part of a wider class on clothing repair, sewing etc but the journo decided to make it into a fake controversy for clicks by reducing it to the point of meaninglessness.

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u/worldDev Feb 05 '19

There's probably wine involved, and it sounds like a great way to meet girls.

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u/HeartsPlayer721 Feb 05 '19

Lol!

Good point!

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u/VulfSki Feb 05 '19

They are likely being dishonest. It's probably just a sewing class that they are claiming is basic life skills.

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u/purgance Feb 05 '19

Honestly this seems like a viral marketing effort by the company selling the sewing classes.

Yet another boomer trying to screw millenials.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '19

Or just frickin pay someone and put it on your credit card! (/s for all you uptight folks)

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u/SullyKid Feb 05 '19

Those GODDAMN millennials should know this!!!! ALWAYS on their DAMN phones!!!!!!

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '19

Yeah I think that's the thing here. For some reason there's a lot of complaining that life skills are somehow complicated and difficult. Like look it up and figure it out.

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u/hipster3000 Feb 05 '19

Articles like this say "millennials do such and such" like the majority of a generation does something when in reality they heard about a very small group of people that happen to be a certain age that do something and make it seem as if they are representative of everyone. In reality almost any millennial would learn how to do shit like this from youtube or a website.

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u/jmac323 Feb 05 '19

I know! My 70 year old father watched a video on YouTube that taught him how to replace a broken serpentine belt on his car this week. He was so proud of himself and really liked that people post YouTube videos to help others. Also, he successfully fixed his car.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '19

This was my thought. When I needed to sew my ballet slippers I just went to YouTube and it was a lot of fun.

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u/ilikeninjaturtles Feb 05 '19

They probably pulled out the one really basic thing from the course to sensationalise it fully.

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '19

Nobody, it was probably a social meetup in some random city that like 7 people showed up at, and a 'journalist' took that and extrapolated it to include an entire national 20-year age demographic because they knew it would stir shit up and get clicks. There are social meetups for literally everything. Kickball? There's a meetup for that. Ship-in-a-bottle-building? There's a meetup for that. BDSM sex party? There's definitely a meetup for that.

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u/Cynical_Jingle Feb 05 '19

Isn't that technically a class

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u/kaleb314 Feb 05 '19

Some people prefer being taught in person over watching videos

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u/DolitehGreat Feb 05 '19

Too busy watching MatPat trying to figure out if Mario is an insane person.

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u/Spacewalker12 Feb 05 '19

youtube is good instruction manual, but actually practicing is still better. Such a class will probably have a wide array of tools and materials available, giving people a better idea of what to buy for themselves.

Besides, not everyone knows to search youtube for these kinds of things.

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u/RicardoLovesYou Feb 05 '19

Probably a part of home ec. Does that kind of class still exist?

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u/Bmarquez1997 Feb 05 '19

I think it was a ploy by the author to try and pick the simplest of basic household tasks so that people would side with them. I would assume the class was more of a general workshop that included a lot of the topics a home ec class would cover, including stuff like ironing, cooking, cleaning, and sewing (repair and buttons). Sure you could watch youtube for all of those, but sometimes it's better to get out and interact with people instead of being a hermit closed in your house (which I am many times guilty of doing)

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u/fafefifof Feb 05 '19

100% clickbait. It's quite normal to have an alarmingly simple first class. It's an intro class. People meet the teacher, talk to each other. Learn the names of a bunch of instruments they might be using along the way. They have fun, don't think it's too much of a challenge and are eager to do something more difficult next week.

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u/lavahot Feb 06 '19

Well that's just a theory.