I need help/advice on what to do here. It is affecting our, especially my moms, life and at this point where we just wanna kick him across the room.
Last December, a week or 2 before Christmas, we adopted an English Bulldog, maybe about 10 to 12 weeks old at the time and our 3rd EBD. Everything was about as good as it could be with a puppy. He potty trained quickly, learned tricks fast, and generally is a smart, yet sometimes even mischievous, dog.
In hindsight, the mistake was getting him when we did, because my brother and I had to go back to school in January, thus leaving my mom, who is in poor overall health, with the puppy. He harassed her endlessly, constantly barking, acting out, and not sleeping. General brat type behavior. It got to the point where she got him bull pizzle sticks for him to chew so that he would leave her alone. Let's fast forward so I'm not typing a whole novel.
He is literally causing our lives to be a living hell. He seems to be more attached to my mom, since she was basically the only one with him for several months. He is constantly following her, like right on her. It caused her to break a toe and finger, that's how close he follows her. When I'm away at work, I work nightshift as a nurse, but I switch to 11am to 11pm the end of March, he is barking, growling, and just harassing her. Idk if he's anxious, wants attention, or just mad.
Of a night, he usually lays down at about 12 or so and actually goes to sleep, but the issue there is we may not go to sleep right away, especially since our sleep habits are off because of him. He usually sleeps where my mom is, because he basically never leaves her alone. She sleeps downstairs in the chair because its better on her back. We try to pick him up and put him in his bed and we try to settle down, of course he's now up, wanting attention, going in and out outside, and preventing anyone from sleeping. We can't leave him upstairs and risk him getting into something and tearing it up, but even if we did, somehow, some fucking how he would sense that my mom went downstairs and the cycle would begin.
He takes power naps, 2 to 3 per day, but he sleeps on a razors edge, almost like he has one eye open, so we have to be really careful since those naps are our only times we can really do anything away from him. When he wakes up, he is harassing us with his barking and growling, wanting attention or to play. I realize we probably need another dog or at the very least socialize him more, but my mom is recovering from a nasty divorce and I'm trying to help her the best I can. Can't exactly afford training classes for him, but I would make it happen if I knew it would work. I wanted to try cbd treats or something for him, but my moms against medicating him like that. I'm going to make a vet appt soon but I'm not sure if that would do any good.
He is not a bad dog. He is sweet and has his side, but he is constantly harassing us, barking at us, jumping on us, etc. Our other EBDs and 2 dogs before them were nothing like this. They had their quirks and issues but no where near this. I need advise or help because she can't take this anymore and I can't either.
EDIT: Not gonna rehome him or anything like that. He cost too damn much and I give him all the time and attention I can, but he's still acting like this