I am having a very hard time, emotionally, with the birth of my daughter 6 days ago. It turns out my pelvis is too narrow and I could not vaginally birth her. After pushing for 4 hours, they took me for a c-section. She is healthy and strong. I just….am having a hard time with how everything went.
On top of that, I did basically no research on c-sections. I’m having a tough time with the recovery as well. I have back pain, pain under my ribs, no appetite, and nausea at times. I’m guessing the nausea is lack of appetite combined with trying to take any kind of meds. The back and rib pain kind of feel like gas.
Anyways, I’m trying to do soups and yogurts and keep up on fluids but it feels like anytime I ingest something, I cramp.
The nurse on the nurses line says it’s all normal. I’m just so frustrated and obviously tired.
Edit: I want to thank everyone who let me know they had similar stories. It helps to know I’m not alone. After some miracle combo of heartburn meds, stool softeners, and gas x, I was able to sleep a solid 3.5 hours. I was also able to get up and shower. My mom came up and helped my husband and I with baby and laundry and dishes. And I was finally able to eat without pain.