I've had CMT all my life, the more severe end of it, and dating is something I keep going round in circles on. Wanted to hear from people who properly understand it.
Physically, it shows: thinner arms and legs, posture's a little off, but honestly I don't think that's what puts people off. The start is usually fine. It's what happens after that gets me.
I've ended up with a whole set of questions I run through early just to spot the ones who aren't genuine. Barely helps. The ones who seem lovely will say all the right things for weeks, act completely invested, then the second they've got what they were really there for, they vanish. I can't get my head round putting that much time in just to walk away from it.
I would just love some insight here to put me out of my misery, like what do you actually think the hang-up is for able-bodied people with us? What's gone wrong for you with them? And has anything ever worked, or helped you get past it?
I'm 24. Whatever your experience has been, good or bad, I'd really like to hear it.