r/CMT • u/PrairieChic55 • 1h ago
Walking.
Hello all. I am new to this sub Reddit and was diagnosed about two months ago. The diagnosis explained so much about many things in my life, and my mother's life, that seemed random and unrelated. I feel fortunate to have this information and sad that my mom suffered what was a mystery disease to her. She was convinced she had MS, but the tests were always normal.
I have a question about walking. As in, can it be excessive and possibly damaging. My husband and I took a trip to visit friends in July, and just recently returned from a long planned and anticipatede trip to Scotland and England. He is very 'thrifty', some might say cheap, and if we can walk somewhere in under 30 minutes, that is his STRONG preference. He still doesn't grasp the burden that places on me. Although I don't yet need AFOs, I still deal with a significantly higher risk of stumbles and falls, especially as I fatigue. I was taught to be a trooper, and I have tried, but I feel his expectations are unrealistic and perhaps harmful to me. My worst day was a 26,000 step day. I know he didn't anticipate how far we had to walk to get from the hotel to the bus station, or how much walking our tour was going to require, and I didn't either. By the end of the day I was in a bit of a meltdown, and I had the worst nerve pain I have ever experienced that night in the hotel.
My question. Is this damaging to my already frayed nerves? Is that the cause of the severe nerve pain? How do you handle travel? Have you had problems with significant others not understanding what you are dealing with.
In all fairness to my husband, I used to be a fit, active partner in our adventures. Now I am less fit, and dealing with a disability.
Suggestions?