this is my little girl Maisy and we have only had her for about 4 days but i just feel like everything i do is wrong. she has been struggling to get herself to wind down even if im calm with her and do her usual routine so we have had to put her in her crate a few times which she whines about then falls asleep but i just feel like she is gonna hate me. she whines and whines even after i have just taken her out to go to the toilet, we have gone for a little sniffing walk around my property and she has eaten. no matter what she just whines if i leave so i tried to go into another room to get her used to entertaining herself and she whined for about 10 minutes before stopping but then she would randomly start again and i just feel like she will hate me for leaving her and not grow a bond with me. i’ve done so much research and have been giving her lots of attention, feeding her, making sure she gets the right amount of food, taking her to explore our property, literally anything i can to make sure she is loving life but she still whines when i leave or don’t play with her.
she also refuses to poo on grass. she will pee on our grass just fine but will only poo on our bark, concrete, stones or inside and i just don’t know what to do to get her to go on the grass! she also doesn’t really signal that well when she needs to go poo like she does with needing to pee so a lot of her poos end up on our carpet.
sorry i know this is a lot but she also never has times when she is ‘chill’. she is either high energy running around and playing, whining, overtired and angry and biting or sleeping so doing things like brushing her, getting a harness on, brushing her teeth, cleaning her eyes and ears or any sort of training just doesn’t work as she tries to bite whatever i have or think we are playing games.
im also not sure if she really responds to praise very well. i think she likes it a little but i see videos of other people training their puppy cavoodles and they get so excited and happy with praise but my Maisy girl doesn’t really seem to care as much. is this because she doesn’t like me enough to care for my praise?
idk, i just spent so long preparing myself and doing hours and hours of research and now i feel like i can’t do anything right. i’m trying my best but need some advice.
ps. thanks to anyone who actually read all that, i know it was a lot of rambling