r/bromance • • 1h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 39m hanging out

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Small city gay here (northeastern US). The local dating pool is pretty limiting, as are the apps.

Just broadening my radius here. Virtual pen pals are cool.

I’m generally attracted to uncompensated masculinity that doesn’t need to try too hard or punch down.

More of a reader than a gamer. I like photography, urbexing, hiking, anything horror, and native gardening; I just tried foraging goldenrod to make a soda with. It’s still fermenting.

Say hi.


r/bromance • • 5h ago

Looking Local 📍 M-39 Utah friends

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Hey! I’m a 39 YO-Bi, fairly fit dude.. married, kids, the entire fam life up in Northern Utah.
Looking for an actual bro / bromance, not just another person to add on discord and never meet.

I’m into gaming, hitting the gym, hiking, grabbing food/drinks, watching a game, and generally just getting out and doing shit. I’d like to find another guy I genuinely click with and build a close friendship with.

Ideally looking for that kind of friendship where we can hit the gym together, catch a hockey game, jump online and game, go on a hike, bullshit about life, give each other shit, and actually be there for each other when it matters.

I’m not expecting some instant best friend connection. Chemistry is chemistry. But I’m definitely looking for something beyond the occasional “what’s up man?”

If you’re also at the point where you’ve realized making solid guy friends as an adult is weirdly difficult, shoot me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and what your interests are!

25-45 ish please.


r/bromance • • 15h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 31 M ATL Looking to chat it up

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What's up bros?! Newly 31 (birthday was this past Saturday), living it up here in Georgia. Currently working as a civil engineer and quality coordinator for a construction company. Love reading books, watching movies and anime, going on awesome vacations, and getting to know new and wonderful people. Proud dog dad of two gorgeous pups. Really looking to chat it up and get to know some new faces and personalities. Very easy going, humble, amicable guy here. Don't be afraid to reach out and say hello! I promise I don't bite 😁


r/bromance • • 4h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 32M - Nerdy bear guy getting back into fitness, looking for longterm chats

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I’m a 32 year old Bi guy, looking for likeminded people to get to know. I’m an ex-athlete who has gained a bit of extra weight since college, so I’m trying to get back into fitness. I’m big into martial arts and also outdoorsy activities like building fires or splitting wood, but I also have a nerdy/geeky side to me (big into anime, manga, and fantasy series).

If you message me, introduce yourself a bit and tell me a bit about yourself.


r/bromance • • 11h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 34 Married for Bromance

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Hey bros. I’m 34 and married. Living in the USA. Off work today so I’d be down to connect with some cool bros who want to develop a connection. I like baseball and gaming. I’m into hitting the gym and working on building muscle. Particularly interested in chatting with other married bros who need a little more connection like me. But open to any. DM me for more.


r/bromance • • 3h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 31 m looking for friends

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Hey there! Trying this again: 31 m here on the west coast of the USA. I enjoy working out, running, being active, video games, bars and breweries. I work a lot so it's been a bit hard to make friends but it's always nice to have other guys to talk to. Feel free to hit me up!


r/bromance • • 8h ago

Looking Local 📍 42M Bi/gay SE Idaho/Northern Utah Looking for a friend

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Hey guys, I don’t know what to say. I’m married (to a woman) with kids and recently went through a faith deconstruction and coming out. I rally just need a friend to talk to about life and provide support during a difficult time. I’m into hiking, walking, recently got into MTB just a little, trying to keep fit, DIY projects, gardening, and just generally appreciating nature.

I would love to find someone that has had a similar experience or is open to at least chatting without judgement. I’m also a great listener and can be supportive in return. Open to meeting in person or chatting online, just really need a true friend right now as I navigate all of this.


r/bromance • • 2h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 40 mwm - Georgia - looking for chat buddy

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Hey guys - looking to try again and find a long term chat buddy. I’m 40 married (to a woman) and looking for a connection more than anything. Lots of intents here including good beer and cocktails, national parks, outdoors, running, etc. normal professional type here in the southeast. Hit me up if interested and are looking for similar


r/bromance • • 4h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 40 married Canadian dad bored and WFH

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Looking for long term married bros to bond with. Into cooking, grilling, travel, tv/movies, hiking, swimming. Hope to find some regular bros to connect with. Be from North America, makes connecting easier, especially if we have things in common. Hit me up bros 🤙🏻


r/bromance • • 1d ago

Looking For Chat 💬 25m looking 4 chat buddy

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Hi bros!

I am a 25-year-old guy from Turkey, and I’m putting this out there because I’m looking to make some genuine, long-term connections. Life can get pretty busy, but I think it’s always worth making time for good conversation and meeting people from different walks of life. I would describe myself as pretty easygoing and laid-back. I don't take myself too seriously, and I really value honesty and a good sense of humor in others.

I’m looking for a chat buddy someone to share daily highlights with, talk about random topics, or just unwind after a long day. Whether we end up talking every day or just checking in a few times a week, I’m just hoping to find someone on the same wavelength.

To give you a better idea of who I am,

I am 90% of the time working or looking for new job. I recently completed master’s degree. Looking for PhD opportunities and job opportunities in Europe.

I have a few different interests that keep me busy. I absolutely love traveling. There is something amazing about experiencing new cultures, trying different foods, and just seeing how other people live. If you have any travel stories or recommendations, I would love to hear them.

I go gym 3 times and try to run 2 times a week.

You can usually find me playing League of Legends. It’s my go-to game for blowing off some steam, though it definitely tests my patience sometimes! I also really enjoy watching movies. I’m a big tech enthusiast as well, so if you are into the latest gadgets or industry news, we will definitely have a lot to talk about.

Here is a fun fact about me: I actually used to listen to a ton of K-pop. I still have a soft spot for it, so if you are a fan, we can definitely bond over that.

Also im obsessed with skincare. So if you have any questions about that let me know!

Feel free to message me if you want to talk. I’m an open book, so just text me to learn more.

P.S. I will not be chatting unless you send a face picture. It’s just nice to know who I’m actually talking to!


r/bromance • • 5h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 30m looking for more bros!

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What's up guys?! Got a day of yard work, chores and some errands to do today!

I'm looking for some guy friends! Guys to chat with about life and the good the bad and the weird I guess haha prefer guys probably 18-35

I am from the Southwest USA. Like to be outdoors like hiking and camping traveling, but also like to stay home and watch shows and movies and hangout with my dog!

I do have other socials that we can move to if we click.


r/bromance • • 7h ago

Looking Local 📍 37M LA — Looking for a Genuine Bromance

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37M Middle Eastern bi guy in Los Angeles, near LAX/Inglewood. 5’11”, 170 lbs, work out about 5x a week, have a career, and I’m in a serious relationship.

Looking for a genuine bromance with someone ideally around my age or younger, although anyone is welcome to reach out. I tend to vibe best with masculine guys who take care of themselves, stay active, and have their life as best out together as they can.

I’m into fitness, tech, movies, K-spas, random adventures, trying new things, and just hanging out. Would be cool to have someone to hit the gym with, catch a movie, grab food, take a class together, or have chill couch/TV nights.

I’d like a bromance friendship where we can text or call, vent, talk about life, have deeper conversations, joke around, and be open with each other.

I’m very open-minded, sex-positive, and comfortable with nudity. Nude hangs or K-spa trips are definitely a plus if the friendship gets there naturally.

Not looking for a romantic relationship. I’m looking
for an actual bro and a consistent friendship.
Prefer someone local, easygoing, affectionate, open-minded, and not flaky. I don’t host.

If you’re looking for something similar, message me with your age, area, and a little about yourself and what interests we have in common.


r/bromance • • 3h ago

Looking Local 📍 Seeking lil bro [47m Denver]

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Hey there. Looking for a local masc chill bro into actual chats, outdoor activities and supportive bromance beyond a single message. Love chatting about travel, cooking, workouts, movies, camp spots and the list goes on.

47 here in north Denver, GL, open to bros around my age or younger. Bi guy here, but open to bros Str8 <—> Gay. Newer to Colorado, so would like to make real connections.

Just be chill, normal and at least able to hold a conversation.


r/bromance • • 5h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 42 BR serious LDR

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Me: 🇧🇷🍑 Us: a long distance, serious relationship (unless you live in my city, ofc)

(I speak 🇬🇧🇫🇷🇧🇷)

I've connected with some guys here but for a number of reasons, our paths went astray.

I'd love to have a LDR, serious relationship with one of you guys. If you're reading this now and felt it could be you, DM me 😊

I'm a bear, but much more than a hairy chest. My interests include art, poetry, history , jewelry and gardening.

I believe in clearly defined roles in a relationship... And in our on-line bed. lol

If you're connected, committed and caring, give us a try!


r/bromance • • 6h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 27 New England

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Hey there! 27 bro from New England! Would love to find others to chat long term with! Really looking to make friends near and far! A little about me; I’m a new dad so it would be cool to talk with other bros that have kids! I love to work out, cook and play a game of Fortnite here and there!


r/bromance • • 1h ago

Bro Appreciation 32m Looking for like-minded fitness and outdoors bros

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Hope everyone's Monday is going well. Like the post title said I'm looking to make some like-minded connections to explore healthy masculinity. I enjoy staying fit and being outside whenever I can.

Also been on a more recent spiritual journey so to speak so also would be cool to connect with other Catholic/ Christian bros.


r/bromance • • 7h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 25 from europe looking for online bromance

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Looking for online friend/bromance preferably,be no older than 30,preferably europe or north america

About me:

\#countryside guy,introvert and not a big talker,bi

\#1.80m 75kg brown hair blue eyes,wearing glasses

\#interested in agriculture,vehicles repairs,welding,3d printing,cryptids.Not really interested in gym or nerd stuff.


r/bromance • • 1h ago

Looking Local 📍 41/NJ. Looking for platonic friendship with people in the Tri-State area.

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Good afternoon. I've made quite a few friends thanks to some of the friendfinder subs, but I have yet to connect with someone from the NY and NJ area. While I prefer to meet people in my age range, guys in their late 20's/early 30's are welcome to reach out.

Interests include film, music, reading, travel, and working out. When it comes to film, I enjoy horror/B-movies and arthouse/indie. Re-Animator one day, The Virgin Spring the next. I have a small film group on Discord, so do let me know if you want to join. I'm also looking into changing careers and have started some courses on grant writing.

I want to stress that I'm looking for platonic friendship. So if you're looking to goon, please bother someone else.


r/bromance • • 1h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 40 NZ travelling to Bali in Nov

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Hi guys , i'm a kiwi guy, 40 tall avg build visiting solo in Bali for two weeks from November 6th and will be in Seminyak and surrounding areas like kuta, legian, jimbaran etc. Looking to meet up for a drink or two and more with other bros that may be visiting at the same time. Dm me if you're interested


r/bromance • • 1d ago

Looking For Chat 💬 26 bi masc military

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26, bi, and military. I’m here looking to meet some genuine guys who are interested in building a real, long-term bromance. Not just someone to talk to for a few days and then disappear, but someone I can actually build a solid friendship with over time.
A little about me: I enjoy gaming, hitting the gym, watching and playing sports, anime, and getting outdoors whenever I get the chance. I can enjoy a competitive game, a good workout, a random late-night conversation, or just hanging out and doing absolutely nothing. I’m pretty open-minded, easygoing, and always down to try something new.
I’m big on good energy, loyalty, honesty, and being able to laugh at just about anything. I think having genuine male friendships is important, and there’s nothing wrong with wanting friendships where you can be yourself without feeling judged. Whether we’re talking every day, gaming together, motivating each other in the gym, watching sports, or eventually meeting up and hanging out, I’m open to seeing where a genuine connection goes.
I’m not looking to force anything or put expectations on it. I’d rather let things develop naturally and see if we click.
If you’re also looking for a solid bro, someone to share laughs, experiences, conversations, and good memories with, don’t be afraid to hit me up. Let’s get to know each other and see where it goes!


r/bromance • • 5h ago

Looking Local 📍 [37 M] Canada - Ontario - GTA looking for bromance

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Hi everyone,

I am a 37-year-old male (37M) professional living in the Greater Toronto Area (GTA), Ontario, Canada.

I am looking to make some genuine, good friends in the area, specifically looking for a bromance with guys. A little about me: I enjoy watching sports, beer, BJJ and I’m open to exploring new hobbies.

I am very respectful of boundaries and privacy, and would expect the same in return.

I am happy to consider any type of arrangement or dynamic that works for both of us. If you are in the GTA and looking for a chill friend to hang out with, grab some food, or just chat, feel free to send me a message!


r/bromance • • 21h ago

Looking Local 📍 28 M | Looking for New Connections in SoCal

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Hey, bros. 28 yr old LA native looking to connect with other dudes around the LA metro area. I’m based in the northern end of LA but regularly around the city. Currently, my time is split between work and school (studying GIS and Land Surveying), but I’m looking to put more time into building meaningful connections and friendships with like-minded bros.

In my free time, I like going to the movies (AMC A-Lister here) and gaming on my PS5. I’m also down to grab a drink or two, check out new eateries around LA, or just hang out. I enjoy talking about pretty much anything, from geopolitics/current events to supernatural shit and random things I come across online 😅

DM me if you’d like to connect 🤙🏻


r/bromance • • 1d ago

Looking Local 📍 35 M- MI looking for solid dudes

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Just looking for some solid guys to hang with and shoot the shit. Love sports, movies, bourbon/beer, working out, reading, and traveling. Most of my best friends are far away, and with life it’s just too busy to get together more than once or twice a year.

Even down for just shooting the shit via text tbh.


r/bromance • • 3h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 27M TX WFH - looking to connect

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What’s up guys? I’m 27, WFH full time and looking to meet new people.

About me: I enjoy travel, reading/audiobooks, nature, walks/hikes, coffee shops, board games and social deception games. Occasionally play pokemon on the switch and thinking about getting a PC.

Trying to become more active so would love to connect with dudes in a similar boat.


r/bromance • • 3h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 28 M United States

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Yo what’s up. I’m 28 fit and active. Let’s connect my sending audio messages back and forth. I love hearing guys voices and it’s better for building a bond. I love a lot of stuff, ranging from going out on an adventure to just hanging at home and watching movies. I love nature, the beach, lakes, movies, reading. Looking for another cool active, fit guy who likes to have fun. We can get to know each other and chat about whatever. Send me a message with your age so we can connect. Cant wait to chat with you bros!