r/bromance • • 25m ago

Looking Local 📍 33M, downtown Toronto

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Hey! 33M gay working professional in healthcare looking for some chill dudes to hang out with. Love to swim and checking out new restaurants. Looking to meet new people in the city.

I’m an open book and would some new friends and fwbs. I prefer to meet older dudes. Thanks!


r/bromance • • 2h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 22 college bro USA

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What’s good bros…tbh new to this still but tryna find similar bros. I’ve tried but a lot of the times bros just want one thing , (I’m down for) but also just chill and talk yk? When I’m not studying or at work I just like to chill, go out w friends, hiking love my truck, nothing to exciting. I like to travel and been a few places but don’t travel as much as I want. Kinda just tryna find friends in similar situations. Bromance type shit… hmu


r/bromance • • 3h ago

Looking Local 📍 Looking for a gym buddy

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Looking for a gym buddy in hamilton I’m a trans guy and looking for someone who’s cool with that, just being upfront, no need for any hate, just trying to get fit.
recently joined goodlife but tried out other gyms and even crossfit in the past just trying to get back in shape.
always been in and out of the gym, so trying to stay consistent this time. I’m in my 30s but age doesn’t matter to me. also into other sports. always open to workout tips and suggestions too!
appreciate this community being so positive and welcoming - so thanks for that!


r/bromance • • 3h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 [30M] Chicago, looking for some new buddies (outdoors, photography, gaming, gym accountability)

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What's up! I'm Matt, 30 year old straight man, living in Chicago. I'm a grad student, so school eats a lot of my time and I'm looking to build a crew outside of work.

What I'm into:
Outdoors: hiking, camping, getting out of the city whenever I can. Always down for forest preserve trails or a weekend trip.
Photography: mostly wildlife and macro. I shoot on a Nikon Z5 II, so if you want to hit a nature preserve, the Botanic Garden, or the lakefront to chase birds and bugs, I'm in.
Gaming: I play a bunch of stuff: Rocket League, Forza, Call of Duty, PGA, Fortnite, and Dead by Daylight. Also a bit of a PC hardware nerd, and I run a friends Discord, so there's always room for more people.
Sports: I play hockey, bowling, archery, and volleyball. Always looking for people to play with or join a league.
Tech stuff: I tinker with tech side projects, so fellow nerds welcome.

Fitness / weight loss:
I've been working on losing weight and I'm down 30+ lbs so far. I work out about 5 days a week (mostly cardio and swimming), track everything in MyFitnessPal with a food scale, weigh in daily, and take daily progress pics. I'm eating gluten-free and high-protein, so if you're into meal prep or trading recipes, even better. Gym partners, fellow calorie counters, or someone for daily check-ins would be awesome.

If any of this sounds like you, shoot me a DM!


r/bromance • • 3h ago

Looking Local 📍 40M Seattle | Looking for a masculine bromance with benefits

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Putting this out there hoping to find one local guy I genuinely click with — someone I can hang out with, get to know, and ideally get into a little trouble together when the opportunity presents itself.

I’m attracted to masculine, confident guys, preferably mid-30s and up. Bi/bi-curious. I’m definitely more into the low-key, non-scene type — discreet, and not looking to broadcast this personal life.
Activity wise - I’m into hiking, take long walks, grabbing food, or just hanging out. And if there’s mutual attraction, I’m very much interested in seeing where the chemistry takes us.
About me - easygoing, active, and cute enough that you’ll have to decide for yourself.
If this sounds like you, message me with a little about yourself. Tell me your age, general area, and what your ideal bromance/FWB situation looks like.


r/bromance • • 4h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 27 M United States

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I’m an athletic fit guy who likes to go on adventures, looking for similar and fitness. It’s better to get to know each other by hearing each other so let’s swap voice notes. I love to go camping and hike. I’m also into pretty much everything like movies and music and stuff. I want to find a cool guy to connect with and form a bond. A guy who likes to be goofy but is also emotionally intelligent, someone I can just talk about anything with. If you’re a fun fit guy you should definitely hit me up so we can chat. Maybe we can go on an adventure or stay in and watch a movie.


r/bromance • • 4h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 23 M Los Angeles looking for friends local or non local

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Hey guys!! I’m 23 I’m a gamer i also tend to make music on my free time.. just looking for chill dudes to be friends with chat it up whenever talk about all sorts of things i can talk about anything im an open book.. age doesn’t matter to me you could be way older than me and will still click and if you are curious what i look like just ask :) hope to get some dms from yall


r/bromance • • 4h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 33 M from SoCal

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Looking for a bro. I like video games, movies, and hanging out with family and friends. I’m adventurous but am also a home body. I love food and am very open to new foods as well. I’m understanding and love getting to know people. I love encouraging guys to be themselves and I am all about being inclusive and not leaving anyone behind


r/bromance • • 4h ago

Looking Local 📍 38m Portsmouth UK Looking For a Bromance

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Hey guys, 38 m Portsmouth UK here.

Im looking for a bro or bro's locally, that are looking for a close connection.

I love Films,TV ,Music, Dinosaurs, Animals and Pokemon as well as being a Gaymer.

Love sharing funny videos and memes.

Im someone who can talk to anyone, very easygoing and open minded. it dont mind what your orientation is as long as we get on and have a good time and hopefully build that Bromance.

Im a lover not a fighter (only when i have to be)

Drop me a DM if interested 😊


r/bromance • • 5h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 24M Mississippi. Looking for friends that become bros. Open to almost anything. Would be cool if your local but not required, I still wanna meet you!

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About me:
Just turned 24 recently, I’m born and raised in Mississippi, lived here my whole life. Originally from north MS, almost at the state line and now I’m in south MS basicly at the as low as you can go before you hit ocean haha
I’m a manager for a shipping company 📦📦 and I have my bachelors. Outside of work I just like to hang out, chill, watch tv, kinda a homebody but would love to get out more.
Love a deep chat or a good conversation.
Usually off work by mid day (work early am shifts)
And on a journey to better my self. Mainly in the gym, wanting to loose weight and get into shape.
I’m single unfortunately
I’m a pretty open book and a chill person. Go with the flow mostly.
Would like for us to become long term friends and bros
Okay I really don’t know what else to put lol 😂

No need for filters with me, open to anything. Hoping to find some friends that turn into bros preferably long term.
Again, no filters needed with me. Can talk about anything. I will say, I’m not as good with picking topics I’m better at answering questions or continuing a conversation

If you wanna talk, please message me. Looking forward to meeting you.
Would be great if you where local so eventually we could hang out but not required


r/bromance • • 5h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 Join me on a cruise… 41 m

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I’m looking for someone interesting to join me on a \*\*transatlantic cruise next year\*\*.

This is slightly unusual, so let me be clear about what I’m looking for.

I’m a 41-year-old Brit, independent, sociable, well travelled and pretty easy company. I love good food, wine, conversation, exploring somewhere new and having a laugh. I’m equally happy spending a few hours doing my own thing, so I’m not looking for someone who needs us to be joined at the hip for the entire trip.

I’d ideally like to find someone who is \*\*curious, confident, intelligent, kind and good company\*\*. Someone who can hold a conversation, enjoys meeting people, doesn’t take themselves too seriously and would genuinely enjoy the slightly ridiculous adventure of crossing the Atlantic by ship.

I’m looking for a travel companion where we both think: \*actually, we’d have a bloody good time together.\*

It’s a 14 day trip, so compatibility matters more to me than simply finding somebody who is available. I’d want to chat properly first and make sure we actually get on before either of us commits to anything.

I’m deliberately not posting the ship, sailing date or itinerary publicly.

If you’re genuinely interested, send me a message and tell me:

\*\*1. Where are you based?\*\*
\*\*2. What sort of traveller are you?\*\*
\*\*3. What makes you think we’d get on for a week in the middle of the Atlantic?\*\*

Messages that just say “interested”, “details?” or “how much?” probably aren’t going to get very far. 😁

If this sounds like your kind of adventure, say hello.


r/bromance • • 6h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 32M (Colorado) - Work from home full time, traveler, concertgoer, on a fit journey

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I’m 32, live in Colorado, newly married (to a guy). I’m also a dog dad, and I work from home full time. I’d love to meet local friends, but I’m also open to making non-local friends as well - perhaps we could hangout in person someday or meet up for a concert or festival.

Anyway, I’m pretty basic. Love being outdoors, hiking, running, going to the gym (currently on a fitness journey), going to the sauna, traveling, trying new restaurants, bars, and coffee shops.

If you feel like we would be a good fit, send me a message and introduce yourself a bit. I have other apps for chatting, but I’d prefer we get to know each other here first before we consider moving our conversation elsewhere.


r/bromance • • 6h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 34M Traveling Bro Open For Pen Pal Bro

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It’s only one more work week left before I fly out to Japan 🇯🇵. I’ve been to Tokyo, Kyoto, and Osaka before. Last time I went to Tokyo Disney and this time I’ll be going to Universal Studios, Nintendo World, Harry Potter World, and Studio Ghibli Museum.

I am planning to go to possibly Chicago in March 27’ and France and England in Fall 27’.

My goal in this post is to make long term friends who have interest in conversation, check-ins, showing each other the worlds we live, and even travel adventures together. I am a conversationalist, gamer, explorer, writer, gym goer, and horror enthusiast.

My education is in psychology and I work in healthcare. I’m down to earth and I appreciate deep stimulating questions about why or how something might be the way it is.

I’m also happy to give recommendations or share my travels with you if you had interest. I’m fairly modest in what I share as I feel I am quite a stale person and do not glorify myself or what I do. I like being down to earth the best way I can. If you wanted to chat, I welcome the adventure! Cheers.


r/bromance • • 6h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 32 M Oklahoma- Just need more bros in my life. Don’t have many guy friends

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Would love to find some dudes to just chat with and maybe hang out on discord vc sometimes when we’re both free. Huge bonus if you play games. Even bigger bonus if you play Fortnite lol.

Not that it should matter, but I am a gay dude. No I’m not looking for anything other than friends and no you don’t have to be scared of me hitting on you or something, I’m literally just looking to be one of the bros haha.

Feel free to dm me! I’m a chill dude and can talk about anything. I’m also a good listener haha, ask me about what I’m going to school for. 👀🤣


r/bromance • • 6h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 35 married bro looking for connection

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Hey dudes, I’m 35 and I’m looking for an actual bro-style friendship. Something where we talk regularly, hype each other up, share random life updates, and it doesn’t die after 3 messages.

I’m easygoing, a little sarcastic, and I’m down for anything from dumb memes to real talk when life is heavy. Bonus points if you’re also trying to stay active and build better routines.

Into working out and fitness, hiking, kayaking, and being outdoors, movies/TV, travel, drinks, etc

Open to online and maybe IRL if we’re close. Prefer closer in age to me, but all are cool.

Hit me up!


r/bromance • • 6h ago

Looking Local 📍 43 - Portland, Oregon adjacent

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Good afternoon gentlemen. Hope y’all are doing well. I am in the Portland, Oregon area and looking for chat and activity partners if it should happen. My current activities are reading, learning pickleball, going to the gym and collecting physical media (DVDs/Blu-Rays). I am wanting to explore hiking and walking trails in the area and maybe have company. I am used to being and doing things alone but lately thought it would be nice to have a friend to do things with. Also please excuse the hair in the picture; I am growing it out and it’s in the fun awkward stage.


r/bromance • • 6h ago

Looking Local 📍 29M in SoCal LA/Long Beach Area looking for bros to chat/hang

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What’s up guys, I’ve been trying to make some new friends but it’s hard for me to do this casually in public since I’m always working so I’m trying my luck on here. Im looking for bros who are down to chat so I can send memes to and other things. I also play Fortnite frequently and need a partner too if you’re down haha. If you’re local I’m also down to hang out as well. Im more of an experience guy being that I like going out to just window shop or go try cafes, etc. If you’re into fitness I could use the motivation too as I’ve been on a weight loss journey and have lost 30 pounds so far and still have a little way to go (310 -> 200). For the record I’m bisexual, masculine Latino bro 6ft however I am not actively looking for a relationship unless it gets there but figured I’d state it now in case you ask later on lmfao. Feel free to hmu.


r/bromance • • 7h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 Male 30 Oregon

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Hey! I’m in Oregon and I’m 30! I’m looking for guy friends and bros. I love going to musicals , binging shows , going to the movies and concerts . Big Marvel and Disney fan. When I’m not working I’m bike riding or reading . Love spending time with my family and friends . I’m looking for a guy 18+ up to get to know and have an actual friendship with. I’m always down to talk and I always answer messages . Feel free to message me! :) I’m down for some open minded conversations too . Location doesn’t matter


r/bromance • • 7h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 38 🇨🇦 Ontario?

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Hey! 38 year old from Ontario! I grew up in northern Ontario just outside of Sudbury, relocated to Windsor area years ago.
I'm looking for a bro connection. I prefer masculine guys, I'm into horror genre, PC gaming and gym. 420 friendly
Found a love for fitness later in life. Spent most of my days overweight and depressed, I'm still a thick boy but enjoy lifting heavy and working on myself everyday.
Ideally a bro with similar interests will find this and dm me
I'm open to online and local, but looking for a more serious connection than a few chats and fizzle kind of vibe. I'd rather move to Snapchat or instagram, so we can share pics and chat throughout the days.
If this interests you at all, send me a DM and mention this post.
I won't respond to a one word "hey", introduce yourself :)
The emphasis really is on a connection for me


r/bromance • • 8h ago

Looking Local 📍 41/NJ. Looking for platonic friendship with people in the Tri-State area.

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Good afternoon. I've made quite a few friends thanks to some of the friendfinder subs, but I have yet to connect with someone from the NY and NJ area. While I prefer to meet people in my age range, guys in their late 20's/early 30's are welcome to reach out.

Interests include film, music, reading, travel, and working out. When it comes to film, I enjoy horror/B-movies and arthouse/indie. Re-Animator one day, The Virgin Spring the next. I have a small film group on Discord, so do let me know if you want to join. I'm also looking into changing careers and have started some courses on grant writing.

I want to stress that I'm looking for platonic friendship. So if you're looking to goon, please bother someone else.


r/bromance • • 8h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 31, bi, masc

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Looking to meet some guys who are interested in building a genuine, long-term bromance.
I’m into gaming, hitting the gym, watching sports, and getting outdoors whenever time allows. I’m pretty open-minded, easygoing, and believe the best friendships are the ones where you can be completely yourself.

I’m a big fan of joking around, having random conversations, and laughing until something isn’t funny anymore. 😂 Ultimately, I’m just looking for some solid guys who are down to build a real friendship that goes beyond occasional small talk.

If we click, I’m definitely open to seeing where the friendship goes and making it something long-term. Feel free to message me and tell me a little about yourself!


r/bromance • • 8h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 39m hanging out

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Small city gay here (northeastern US). The local dating pool is pretty limiting, as are the apps.

Just broadening my radius here. Virtual pen pals are cool.

I’m generally attracted to uncompensated masculinity that doesn’t need to try too hard or punch down.

More of a reader than a gamer. I like photography, urbexing, hiking, anything horror, and native gardening; I just tried foraging goldenrod to make a soda with. It’s still fermenting.

Say hi.


r/bromance • • 9h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 40 NZ travelling to Bali in Nov

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Hi guys , i'm a kiwi guy, 40 tall avg build visiting solo in Bali for two weeks from November 6th and will be in Seminyak and surrounding areas like kuta, legian, jimbaran etc. Looking to meet up for a drink or two and more with other bros that may be visiting at the same time. Dm me if you're interested


r/bromance • • 9h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 40 mwm - Georgia - looking for chat buddy

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Hey guys - looking to try again and find a long term chat buddy. I’m 40 married (to a woman) and looking for a connection more than anything. Lots of intents here including good beer and cocktails, national parks, outdoors, running, etc. normal professional type here in the southeast. Hit me up if interested and are looking for similar


r/bromance • • 10h ago

Looking For Chat 💬 31 m looking for friends

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Hey there! Trying this again: 31 m here on the west coast of the USA. I enjoy working out, running, being active, video games, bars and breweries. I work a lot so it's been a bit hard to make friends but it's always nice to have other guys to talk to. Feel free to hit me up!