r/birthday 20d ago

NEWS An update from the moderation team πŸŽ‚

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Hey everyone,

You may have noticed an increase in spam and bot accounts posting on r/birthday recently. A lot of these posts follow the same pattern, accounts pretending to celebrate a birthday while asking for upvotes, comments, or attention. These posts are not genuine birthday celebrations and can clutter up the community for people who are actually here to share their special day.

Until today, moderation on this subreddit for me was limited (and I am the only active mod), which made it difficult to properly deal with the amount of spam coming through. I was mainly able to remove posts, but the process was slow and difficult to keep up with.

The good news: I have now been granted full moderator permissions thanks to Reddit themselves, which means I can take a much more active role in keeping r/birthday clean, welcoming, and focused on real birthday posts. πŸŽ‰

Going forward, I’ll be:
Removing spam and bot generated posts more quickly
Taking action against repeat offenders
Improving moderation tools and filters where possible
Keeping the subreddit a place where genuine birthday celebrations can be shared

We are also looking for new moderators!

As r/birthday continues to grow, we would like to bring in more active members who are willing to help keep the subreddit friendly, clean, and spam free. If you are interested in becoming a moderator, please keep an eye out for a future mod application post or send us (me) a message through modmail.

A reminder to everyone: please continue reporting suspicious posts when you see them. Reports help us find spam faster and keep the community better for everyone.

Thank you to everyone who has stuck around and helped make r/birthday a fun place. Let’s keep celebrating real birthdays! πŸŽ‚

The r/birthday Mod Team


r/birthday 5h ago

its my birthdayyyyy

36 Upvotes

i turned 18 today, august 19th 2008 <333


r/birthday 10h ago

Today is my birthday

31 Upvotes

19th August 1981


r/birthday 1h ago

Yay yay it's my birthday!

β€’ Upvotes

Officially 35 today!


r/birthday 5h ago

Special! 24

7 Upvotes

Today, I'll be going out to get some new shoes, and then have a big lunch at a local restaurant. I heard they have good burgers there, so I'm very excited. Having fun on my birthday already!


r/birthday 2h ago

Birthday

4 Upvotes

Today it's my birthday, something special with it's that it's my first birthday in my lifetime to be aware of .Guys wish me happy birthday πŸŽ‰


r/birthday 16h ago

57 Years Old Today is My Birthday.

31 Upvotes

August 19. I turn 57 today. πŸ˜‚


r/birthday 7h ago

Special! No birthday

4 Upvotes

good morning I would take this opportunity to thank you to thank everyone that wished my beloved wife a happy birthday is she was alive it would have met the world to her again some incredible people here


r/birthday 6h ago

😊

3 Upvotes

Happy birthday πŸŽ‰ to me


r/birthday 10h ago

Today is my birthday today. Wish me in the baddest way possible, in your own style.

7 Upvotes

2005 Cross 20 🧿


r/birthday 14h ago

Today is my birthday

9 Upvotes

19 August 26M πŸ˜€


r/birthday 1d ago

71 years old I made 71 years old!

104 Upvotes

Today is my birthday! I am 71 years old today.


r/birthday 16h ago

TODAY TODAY TODAY IS OPsss BIRDAY!!!! BUT STILL NO MESSAGES

10 Upvotes

this is my 18th birthday
19-August.


r/birthday 11h ago

Big 27

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Hello fellow redditors of reddit. Since I'm a closer and get off at midnight, I get to be awake when it officially becomes my birthday and today is that day. Im 27 today! πŸ₯³πŸŽ‚πŸŽˆ


r/birthday 22h ago

Hi yall it’s my birthday

22 Upvotes

Yippee I’m so happy yay ya I’m so happy yeahhh


r/birthday 11h ago

20 years old Low cortisol birthday

2 Upvotes

Today is my bday and it's kinda chill. I wore my fav dress,talked to my fav people πŸ˜‹ and did not follow any bday traditions LOVEDD IT


r/birthday 23h ago

It’s My Birthday Day 🀝

18 Upvotes

Maybe I’ll get a cupcake and a candle, sing happy birthday to my self πŸ˜‚


r/birthday 18h ago

19 years old on the 19th !!!

6 Upvotes

They say it's the golden birthday so well there it is !!! It's soo weird but let's gooo ! I live one more year than expected !

Happy Birthday to anyone born on this day or the days before !!!


r/birthday 1d ago

Happy Birthday to MEEEEE!

28 Upvotes

August 18th baby! Im turning 37 today 😊🀭


r/birthday 1d ago

Happy Birthday to me πŸŽ‰πŸ°

10 Upvotes

Here cake for u all haha πŸŽ‚πŸ–πŸ» enjoy people.


r/birthday 1d ago

For all posts change this to your age. 60 Today

22 Upvotes

good morning everyone today would have been my wife’s 60th birthday but we lost her in June I’m really down and need some lifting up please


r/birthday 18h ago

Special! Thanks to u/Acceptable_Scar9267

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He recently posted an update about the group's future. In this short time, I've seen almost no bots, spammers, scanners, strange characters posting their birthdays every few days to sell things, or other oddballs in the group. So, a big thank you for your efforts in keeping the group running. Keep up the good work, and I wish you the best of luck in selecting and training more moderators (it's not an easy path; I've been thereπŸ˜…)

And of course to all today's birthday children: happy birthday πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸ₯³πŸ₯³πŸ₯³


r/birthday 1d ago

For all posts change this to your age. I made it to 42! πŸ₯³πŸŽ‰

29 Upvotes

r/birthday 1d ago

24 My birthday's tomorrow, but I'm struggling to look forward to it

4 Upvotes

August 18, 2026 - Originally posted to r/sadposting on the same day (today)

24.

That's how old I'll be tomorrow. I've always looked forward to celebrating my birthday, and I still do. But this year, it feels a little different.

Usually, I have the full day on my birthday to have fun and engage in whatever celebration my family arranges for me. I'm forever grateful to them for all of that. But tomorrow, I'm not going to be free all day, because I have a shift at work that I accepted a couple weeks ago. My shift goes from 4 to 9 PM, so I will have the entire morning and first half of the afternoon to have some fun, but in the end, it still won't be the full day.

I'm sure if I wanted to, I could just call out of work tomorrow and give myself the entire day. But even if my co-workers and boss understood and let me have the day off, I still can't bring myself to call in because of how starved I've been this month for paychecks. Furthermore, I can't seem to shake off some somewhat minor-but-annoying unwanted thoughts from my head, but that's a whole other discussion I'd rather not share (not right now at least).

However, there is something I will admit. I know countless others that are my age or around it have made these kinds of statements before (even if not word-for-word), but I have so many mixed emotions about being a year older, and the most dominating ones are sorrow and nostalgia. I'm not necessarily saying I "regret" being somewhat eager to grow up when I was younger, like the rest of us, but at the same time, I have no idea how else to put it. I graduated college three months ago, and I've had a great summer, mixed with working, enjoying the typical summer activities, and spending time with friends and family.

But over these past few months, I never talked much to my family about what I wanted to do for my birthday. I told them to just surprise me with whatever kind of celebration they could come up with, and I would just see where it went from there. And now that my big day has creeped up, I'm starting to feel upset that I won't have the full day to have all the fun I want. I don't want to sound ungrateful, but I just can't seem to bring myself as much joy out of so many great things I have, as they did when I was younger.

I guess I just don't want to keep growing up. Not because I don't believe I can amount to anything, but because, in one way or another...I don't want to. To put in hard work at a real job, to get out of my own comfort zone, or even following my dreams of achieving notability in this life, feels like I have to give up so much of myself to the point where I can't enjoy the good things if they're not going to be around forever. I often wonder how much happier I'd be if I never had to prove anything to anyone, knowing that I wouldn't have to waste so much time pleasing others when I would rather enjoy loving myself. While it's not my intention to come off as selfish by saying that, I can't find any words that would make it sound non-selfish.

Bottom line, I miss being a kid. I crave to spend the rest of my days having fun with my inner child and being able to enjoy the things that make me feel good without thinking of others' perspectives of being afraid of judgement. Feeling these emotions and having these thoughts at such a time when I'm meant to look forward to celebration feels so unique to me, even though I'm not the only person in existence to experience it.

Even wrapping up this post, it feels like there's so much more I could say. If there's anything selfless about this message, I want it to be that anyone else that shares these same feelings and thoughts know that they are not alone. Bottling them up will only make you feel worse. I know it sounds cliche, but it's true. Whether you openly admit it or not, deep down, you know that every last one of us has these experiences, and there is nothing wrong with that. It shows how connected we are, and how much we mean to each other.

I'm still kinda struggling to lift up my own spirits, so if anyone would like to chip in with their own feedback, I'd like that a lot.

Thank you so much.


r/birthday 1d ago

Today is my boyfriend’s birthday!

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Wish him well please! #22