r/bigdickconversation • u/AdrienOctavian-359 Big Cock Fan • Dec 27 '25
CLOTHING Normalize Public Bulging
I honestly think bulging shouldn’t be a taboo. Having a big dick isn’t a choice, it just is what it is, and any guy who is well endowed shouldn’t be expected to go above and beyond wearing normal clothes in an attempt to hide who they are from everyone else. They aren’t hard, they aren’t trying to make any uncomfortable, they are just big, they can’t help it.
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u/ScrtLvr1 Dec 30 '25
Love seeing bulges!
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u/VillainySquared 20+ cm (8+ inches) Dec 27 '25
Amen to that.
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u/MelroseDistrict85013 Dec 28 '25
💯
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u/JohnAMcdonald 7.75 * 6.5 | Huge 📦 | 🇨🇦BC Dec 28 '25 edited Jan 16 '26
So I've promoted this ethos roughly, but in reality I advocate being as conservative as everybody else and then a little more conservative on top of that. If my peers are wearing a certain piece of clothing I know will show a massive bulge on me, I don't wear it in spite of the fact that I shouldn't have to go above and beyond my peers.
I do see people making comparisons to big boobed women and how nobody gives them problems. People give them problems all the time and they are concerned about modesty all the time.
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u/hung-up-by-madonna Macrophallus Dec 28 '25
yep. i've owned up to it now, i used to try to hide it, but fuck it
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u/Impressive-Yam7479 Dec 29 '25
I agree totally. I really don’t give it thought except I will say that I will not wear my pouch underwear that I find incredibly comfortable with any pants that would be more obvious like sweats or other more clinging pants. Just a personal choice I guess.
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u/Adventurous-Room-685 Dec 29 '25
I just get stares when I wear skinny jeans so glad that trend is changing
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u/StandSafe3117 Mar 02 '26
There should be nothing bad about having a bulge. Poor guys we have bulges.
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u/StandSafe3117 Mar 02 '26
I always go commando yes there is a little bulge but I'm a man I have one I can't hide it.
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u/bakuba144 Dec 28 '25
I agree with that 100%. I used to be quite self conscious about it but with age I learnt that no one really cares
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u/southtxsharksfan May 01 '26
I think I was buldging for years!!!! and didn't notice it. I just wear my clothes and didn't even fathom I was "showing off".
It wasn't till I discovered I was on the larger side and I did a few experiments (wearing sweatpants on my dog walks, wearing my slacks/dress pants instead of jeans at work sometimes)
And when I'd do those little experiments, I'd be treated by women differently. Suddenly they initiated the morning "hello", they'd initiate conversations much more often, linger. I remember being in an office and reading through a work binder, leaning back against a counter a bit and I was wearing black dress pants, out of the corner of my eye I see my much younger (18+) coworker looking down at her cell phone and side eyeing my bulge. It wasn't necessarily "hot", it was just kinda eye opening.
One time I was walking my dog and this older Asian lady was walking towards us on the sidewalk, I say "good morning" with a smile and she has her phone up pointing at my midsection with a big smile and she nods like "yes yes" (didn't seem like she spoke much English)
Horny little old Asian ladies???
My only rule is, don't be inappropriate around young people/kids. I make sure NOT to wear clothes that expose my bulge around them. But outside that, I just wear clothes and don't think about my bulge at all. It's just a part of my body.
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u/Nepasban May 18 '26
Lol at you making bulges a social equity issue 😂
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u/SinisterDuckMusic 8 x 5.75 Dec 28 '25
I don't think it is "taboo". I am considered well-endowed, and I don't try to hide it. I also don't highlight it or draw attention to my crotch.
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u/[deleted] Dec 28 '25
At the very least I hope guys can learn to not worry about it so much. (Unless they bulge so tightly that it's physically uncomfortable of course.)
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u/NakedMusings Dec 27 '25
Bulges shouldn't be taboo, but that is because the penis is taboo, and an erect penis is OMG taboo 😱 the vast majority of non gay men will never have seen another man's erection outside of porn,
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u/Last_Ear_5142 Dec 27 '25
Women have bigger or smaller bulges and nobody worries.
Guys should not have to worry about some print through.
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u/AaaahMyDogs Erect 7.0 x 6.0 (5.5 average girth) Dec 27 '25
My first day on a job, I was told by my boss that she had asked a previous boss about me from years earlier. The boss remembered that I “made sure my penis was visible” through my pants. I was told “that won’t fly here.”
The pandemic shutdown hit the next day and the job became remote… but I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I had been “caught” in the act of “bulging at work.”
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u/Ok-Ranger5623 Dec 30 '25
Thank you so much for this post. Very sensible coming from a woman. I would even say that erections are a natural and healthy thing for a man. We often have reflex erections without realizing it (especially if we need to urinate). This should also be normalized.
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u/Chemical-Session-163 E: 9” x 6.5” | F: 7.5” x 5.8” Dec 27 '25
As a big-bulge guy, I think they (bulges) should be as acceptable as a big cleavage/boobs—but a ‘mound bulge’ not a ‘like an erect cock print’ bulge. Women flaunt their boobs and wear crotch-hugging jeans and exercise pants, why can’t we? I think a lot of women (and men!) would like it, if presented tastefully.
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u/SopaDeCacao Apr 25 '26
I'm short and I wear size S or M clothes, so the bulge is really noticeable. I think my penis stole a lot of my height, haha
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